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Since we’ve got so many new faces around here, I figured it was the perfect time to properly introduce myself. 🤍

A few fun facts… and a few not-so-fun facts about me.

✨ Fun facts:

❤️ Coffee is basically one of my personality traits.
❤️ I’m an Italian mom raising two wild little boys.
❤️ I co-host M.A.D.: Moms After Dark, where we have the honest conversations about motherhood that happen after bedtime. (Link in bio)
❤️ I’m obsessed with Harry Potter, Friends, and the Jonas Brothers.
❤️I turn everyday mom chaos into content.

✨Not-so-fun facts:

🤍 I lost my dad tragically when I was 23 years old, and not a day goes by that I don’t miss him.
🤍 My youngest son has FPIES (food protein induced enterocolitis syndrome) causing him to have multiple food allergies, so every meal, outing, and vacation takes extra planning (and extra stress)
🤍 I have Hereditary Multiple Exostoses, a rare genetic bone disease that causes my entire body to be covered in painful bone tumors. My husband and I chose to go through IVF with genetic testing so our boys wouldn’t have to inherit it.
🤍 I use humor as a coping mechanism.

Life hasn’t always been easy, but every challenge has shaped who I am… as a wife, a mom, and a creator. I’m so grateful you’re here and that I get to share both the funny moments and the hard ones with you. ❤️

💬 Now tell me something about you! What’s one fun (or not-so-fun) fact that most people don’t know? 👇

#MomLife #MomCreator #Intro #MillennialMom #MomsOfInstagram

mom life | motherhood | get to know me | mom creator | content creator | podcast host | M.A.D. Moms After Dark | FPIES awareness | food allergy mom | hereditary multiple exostoses | IVF journey | boy mom | parenting | relatable motherhood | millennial mom by @ashleybuffandstuff

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IT’S HERE 🎙️

M.A.D. Moms After Dark is officially live and we’re talking about all the shit moms think about but don’t always say out loud. 😂

Mom confessions. Unpopular opinions. Hot takes. Chaotic stories. Real talk. And absolutely no pretending we have it all together.

Basically… your after-hours mom group chat, but with microphones. 🎧

New episodes every Wednesday!
🎧 Listen now on Patreon — link in bio

💬 Tell us in the comments: what topic do you want us to talk about next? 👇🏼

#momsofinstagram #podcast #motherhood #unfiltered #MomLife

mom podcast | motherhood humor | real mom talk | mom confessions | unpopular opinions | chaotic motherhood | moms after dark by @ashleybuffandstuff

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25 days ago

If your sink looks like this…
and your laundry looks like this…

You’re probably in the thick of motherhood right now.

The never-ending dishes.
The laundry that somehow multiplies overnight.
The snacks. The mess. The chaos.

But let me remind you of something you might not hear enough:

You’re doing an incredible job.

The dishes can wait.
The laundry will still be there tomorrow.
But the love, the care, the patience you give your kids every single day?

That’s the part that really matters.

If you needed this reminder today:
🫶🏼You’re a great mom, and I see you.

💬 Tag a mom who needs to hear this today.

#momlife #momcommunity #motherhoodunfiltered #momhumor #relatablemom by @ashleybuffandstuff

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They see the cleaning, the car concerts, the playing, the laughing, the mom who keeps everything moving.

They don’t see the moments I close the door because I just need a minute to fall apart.

Motherhood is loving them with everything you have… even on the days when you feel like you have nothing left. ❤️

And somehow, you wipe your face, open the door, and go right back to being Mom.

mom life | motherhood | overwhelmed mom | mental load of motherhood | relatable mom | real motherhood | mom burnout

#MomLife #Mother #Mom #toddlermom #moms by @ashleybuffandstuff

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Just asked my husband to play in the backyard with the kids so I could clock out of mom mode for ONE hour to record a podcast… apparently that was asking too much 😂

The muting to yell across the house. The disappearing mid-conversation. The trying to remember what we were even talking about when I came back. 💀

Moms really never fully clock out.

Please tell me I’m not the only one who can’t get one uninterrupted hour 😂

mom life | mom humor | motherhood unfiltered | podcast mom | working mom life | default parent | relatable mom content

#POV #MomLife #Podcast #Relatable #sahm by @ashleybuffandstuff

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5 days ago

The audacity of me comforting the victim after I was very clearly the intended target.

Toddlers really will choose violence and then need a hug about it.

toddler mom | toddler humor | mom humor | toddler life | boy mom | motherhood humor | relatable mom content | parenting humor | chaotic motherhood | funny mom moments

#ToddlerMom #momlife #Toddler #motherhood #parenting by @ashleybuffandstuff

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8 days ago

Episode 1 of Promo Code Mondays ✨ and we’re starting with something every toddler mom wants more of… SLEEP.

We’ve been using @hiyahealth Kids Bedtime Essentials Nighttime Chewables and they’ve been helping my toddler fall asleep faster and stay asleep through the night.

Because if he’s sleeping… I might actually get to sleep too. 😂

Shop here: hiyahealth.com/ashleybuffolino

toddler bedtime | bedtime routine | toddler sleep | nighttime routine | mom finds | mom life | Hiya Health

#PromoCode #Toddler #affiliate #ad #MomLife by @ashleybuffandstuff

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Meet Ashley — one of our Nana’s Wonderland Massapequa Ambassadors. 🧸✨

If you follow Ashley, you already know she doesn’t share picture-perfect motherhood. She shares the real version — the funny moments, the messy moments, the coffee-fueled days, the insecurities, the laughter, and all the little memories in between. 🤎

But above everything else, Ashley is a mom to her two boys, Angelo & Antonio — and that’s exactly why we’re so happy to welcome their family into our Nana’s community. 🥹

Because at Nana’s Wonderland Massapequa, we believe childhood doesn’t need to be perfect to be beautiful. Sometimes it looks like toys everywhere, kids running in every direction, big laughs, tired moms, and “just one more minute!” before it’s time to go home. 😂🛝

Those are the moments we want to remember.

Ashley, Angelo & Antonio will be sharing their adventures with us, their favorite ways to play, and what family life at Nana’s really looks like. 💕

Welcome to the family, Ashley! We’re so excited to make memories with you. 🧸

📍 Nana’s Wonderland Massapequa
5050 Sunrise Hwy, Massapequa Park, NY 11762 💗
✨ Indoor playground & family activities for Long Island kids
👩‍👦‍👦 Follow along to meet the rest of our Nana’s Ambassadors! taken in Massapequa Park, New York by @ashleybuffandstuff

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Being a mom comes with about 47 other job titles.
But the most important one? Their whole world. 🌎

✉️ Send this to a mom who deserves the reminder. 🥹

mom life | motherhood | relatable mom content | motherhood humor | mental load of motherhood | parenting | stay at home mom | moms do it all | motherhood reality | mom encouragement

#MomLife #Motherhood #SAHM #workingmom #mom by @ashleybuffandstuff

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6 days ago

At this point, “go straight to bed” is not a punishment… it’s a vacation. 😂

So if I have to make a mess to earn it, rules are rules. 🤷‍♀️

Any other moms at this level of tired? 😂

mom humor | tired mom | relatable motherhood | mom life | motherhood humor

#boymom #MomLife #toddlermom #MotherhoodUnfiltered #momsofinstagram by @ashleybuffandstuff

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8 days ago

“I’m not doing enough.”

Erase that. 🤍

You’re a great mom. And that is enough.

mom encouragement | motherhood | mom guilt | relatable mom content | mom support

#MomLife #boymom #mom #Relatable #stayathomemom by @ashleybuffandstuff

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9 days ago

A messy kitchen doesn’t mean you’re failing. Sometimes it just means motherhood and the mental load won today. 😂

Anyone else’s house go from clean to chaos in approximately 4 minutes? 👇

Follow for realistic mom life + laughing through the mess. 🤍

motherhood | mom life | mental load | messy house | Sunday reset | relatable moms | mom humor

#MomLife #Motherhood #Cleaning #Reset #sahm by @ashleybuffandstuff

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