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just real pics thru my story... @fathersunitenetwork
12/29 bday, I'm tall..father of 2
Zendaya & Zaire 🫶🏾

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For a long time, I talked myself out of doing this…

Questioned if my voice was strong enough.
Wondered if people would even care.
Fought through the self doubt that comes with finally putting your vision out into the world.

But today, I made my move.

My FIRST narrated video is officially live. 🎥🏀

This story takes us back to the “golden era” of AAU basketball in Winston-Salem — when gyms were packed, legends were being created, and a team called Kappa Magic shocked the country on their road to the 2002 AAU National Championship.

Before the world knew their names…
There was a young guard named Chris Paul.
And a skinny forward named Reyshawn Terry.

This is more than basketball.
It’s history.
It’s culture.
It’s a story that deserved to be told.

If you rock with underdog stories, basketball nostalgia, and seeing dreams chased in real time…watch full video on YouTube channel, The Holley Family Effect. 🔗

This is just the beginning.
#ChrisPaul #WinstonSalem #Kappa #Sports #NBA by @bamn_toln

To all the single fathers/Dads out there, remember: every day you show up for your kids is a testament to your strength and love. Your dedication shapes their world and inspires their future. Keep pushing forward; you’re doing an amazing job! 💪❤️ Being a dad means wearing many hats, and doing it alone makes you a true superhero. Your hard work, love, and resilience are building a strong foundation for your kids. Keep shining; every challenge faced is a step toward greatness! 🌟👨‍👧‍👦 #SoloDad #HeroInDisguise by @bamn_toln

Winning in family court shouldn’t mean starting from scratch. Fathers who fight for their children often face a system that leaves them with few resources to rebuild relationships. When one parent becomes invisible, it’s the children who feel the loss most. It’s time to support fathers, provide resources, and put children’s needs first—because every parent matters, and every bond counts. I want to say thank you to those that’s reached out along my parenting journey. There’s no QUIT in me so #Fatherhood looks good on me! Hit the link in bio and grab some merch💙 #FathersMatter #FamilyFirst #ParentingMatters #ChildrenDeserveBothParents by @bamn_toln

Nothing beats moments like these. 🏀❤️

Today wasn’t just about shooting hoops—it was about sharing something I love with the two people I love even more. Passing down a passion, laughing through every missed shot, celebrating every made one, and creating core memories that will last a lifetime.

These are the moments that matter most. Time is the greatest gift a father can give, and I’m grateful for every second with my daughter and son. 💙

#FamilyFirst #DadLife #CoreMemories #Basketball by @bamn_toln

Our first trip to the zoo. 🦁❤️ Zendaya & Zaire Holley

As a dad, moments like these mean everything to me. Watching my kids meet the animals we’ve only read about in books reminds me that the little experiences become the biggest memories. One adventure at a time. Love this space of fatherhood, keep us in yall prayers! 🐘🦒📚 #Fatherhood #DadLife #ZooDay
#Custody #SanDiego by @bamn_toln

keep fighting that’s all I tell myself - past 2 yrs of my life and living here in CA doesn’t feel real..keep me and my crew in your prayers🤞🏿

#DadLove #BlackFathers #RaisingKids #DontQuit by @bamn_toln

happy Mother’s Day to ALL the moms in the world! #Mom #Family #Venice #NC #420 by @bamn_toln

I promise to encourage you to take risks and open your mind to new ideas and possibilities.

I promise to participate with you in a healthy lifestyle and live a life of social grace & emotional intelligence that you are inspired to model.

I promise to support you in discovering your purpose and sharing that unique value in a way you find personally and financially rewarding.

I promise to exemplify the way a human should treat another human by the way I treat you in my life.

I promise to remember that you have your own valid feelings and inner guidance.

I promise to set firm boundaries and hold you accountable for your actions, but give you enough room to learn to make your own wise choices.

I promise to be there when you suffer loss and celebrate with your success and to tell you the things that I am proud of you for.

I promise to attend your events, find activities we enjoy together and to spend time finding out what is important to *you*.

I will allow you the freedom to fail, I will forgive your mistakes and apologize when I’m wrong.

I could go on and on just…man I haven’t stop crying and smiling yet! my bday & Christmas came early

imma daddy now! #Baby #Born #Rich #Daddy #FirstTouch #Love by @bamn_toln

I ask #Friends & #Family for a bone they all laughed at me with the, “maaan I ain’t got it” look. Oh ok, noted. #NoSleep #Entrepreneur #Faith #Love by @bamn_toln

support those that support YOU! @eshaaaf thank you for your support. Continue paving the way for your tribe! big vibes your way. Much ❤️🤞🏿. Get your merch today @plugsurfinclothing - @lil1dte on the track - @bigbankdte #420 #Entrepreneur #Network #Clothing #Support by @bamn_toln

today has been quite a Friday. you know how you can have plans/meetings set up and things are cancelled or folks just change up at the last second. yep that’s how it’s been going today. but, out of nowhere I get a notification and it’s from this kid here. my god don’t miss a beat, the way the universe works he heard my prayers. @g.is.for_great your motivating the WORLD! I see it everyday with your post, mantra videos, freestyle videos, and more. I’m just a vessel on this journey and if I can inspire the next generation through words & work ethic then use me god! #Thankful #Working #Author #SelfPublisher #Basketball #NBA by @bamn_toln

been in my own lane for a while now…I’m still praying for the people that took advantage of me, played me, lied on me, and more…can’t complain; still collecting lemons😉 best sport ever! #Basketball #Vibes #Lefty #Therapy #Cali by @bamn_toln