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Beate Absalon

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Gestaltet Workshops, berät und schreibt über erfinderische Intimität: "Not Giving a Fuck. Von lustlosem Sex und sexloser Lust" [email protected]

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Erscheint zwar erst am 22., aber die schöne Spürnase Noemi hat schon jetzt in ihrer Lieblingsbuchhandlung am Helmi eines ergattert. Mein erstes verkauftes Exemplar! 🏵 Damit bin ich als Autorin offiziell entjungfert 💗 by @beateabsalon

In den Canva-Topf gefallen. Ein paar Thesen aus "Not giving a fuck" festgehalten
@kremayrscheriau @luhmendarc_ by @beateabsalon

Ein Herz für Zusammenfassungen by @beateabsalon

🫂✨ SWARM SOOTHING ✨🫂
An afternoon of communal rest & regeneration

You want to relax, but end up scrolling. You crave connection, but even socialising can feel like another task on your to-do list.

What if we could get drunk on relaxation together? 🌿

Join us for an afternoon of communal rest, somatic practices, and spontaneous connection. We’ll begin with simple breathwork and gentle techniques to support nervous system regulation, then let things unfold.

Nap, stretch, read, journal, share a massage, have a conversation, or simply enjoy being together without needing to do anything. Follow your body’s impulses and discover what happens when we slow down.

🖤 A sex-positive space, with no pressure. Sensual and erotic interactions are welcome, but never expected. Consent, communication, and respect for boundaries are essential. Resting, saying no, or simply being are equally welcome.

📅 Sunday, 29 November
🕒 15:00–20:00
📍 Golden Ape Studio, Vienna

🔗 Register via the link in our bio!

Come as you are. Let’s rest, reconnect, and get a little drunk on relaxation. 🫶

#GoldenApeStudio #SwarmSoothing #CommunalRest #Somatics #ConsentCulture SexPositive EmbodiedConnection ViennaEvents by @beateabsalon

🪑✨ TURNING MEN INTO FURNITURE ✨🛋️
A workshop & an unconventional house party

What if, for one evening, we could talk about anything but men, while the men become the furniture? 👀

Inspired by the legendary Bimbo Factory Housewarming, Rebecca and Beata invite you to an imaginative, playful and kinky exploration of objectification, intimacy, power, care and consent.

✨ Dress code & props
🥂 Flintas: Bring something fabulous to wear, as if you were going to a chic cocktail party.
🪑 Mintas: Bring whatever supports your comfort, mobility and transformation, knee pads, comfortable clean clothes, a tablecloth, lampshade or other aesthetic props.

📅 Saturday, 28 November
🕕 18:00–23:00
📍 Golden Ape Studio, Vienna
💶 Sliding scale: €50–80

🔗 Registration via the link in our bio!

Reduced-price tickets are available for those who would otherwise be unable to attend - please reach out to us directly. If you have the means, choosing a higher contribution helps sustain these spaces and keeps them accessible to others. 💛

Come curious. Bring your care tags. And get ready to rethink who — or what — gets to make themselves comfortable.

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#GoldenApeStudio #TurningMenIntoFurniture #QueerWorkshops #ConsentCulture #BDSM by @beateabsalon

VIENNA! 28. November! We are bringing you our famous objectification-workshop-turns-into-elegant-house-party-event where men turn into lamps, rugs, tables, sofas and any piece of interior design they come up with. More explicit or ki.n.ky pieces are also possible: a scratching tree for cats, a bidet, a punching bag, a trash can... You decide and you also write a care tag on how we can use you. We = women, sapphics, lesbians, enbies, trans, inter and agender folx will be the guests of the evening who put their new furniture to use, eat cake, relax on the massage chair, clink glasses, network, dance, and talk about anything but men!

Register via link in bio of @goldenapestudio
Or DM me! by @beateabsalon

🌸 QUEER TREASURE HUNT 🌸 We live in unromantic times. What happens if we romanticize our lives – offline and tangible?⁠
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This interactive treasure hunt through Basel invites you to flirt with and in the city through playful tasks – alone, in pairs or groups. Receive perfumed letters or voice memos sending you to whimsical side quests. Negotiate consent with trees in the park, get into philosophical discussions about the eroticism of parallel parking, and capture your wicked inner worlds through journaling.⁠
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Workshop facilitators: Beate Absalon and Juliane Saupe⁠
Number of participants: max. 25 people⁠
Language: German (English translation available if required)⁠
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📍 Fri 9 Oct · 12:00–15:00 · Korsar⁠
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#Luststreifen #Luststreifen2026 #BodiesInSolidarity #QueerTreasureHunt #TreasureHunt #QueerCinema @los_lesbenorganisation⁠ @agendabasel @gaybasel @gayagendaschweiz @gay.ch_switzerland⁠ @unibasel⁠
⁠@eva_knuesel @beateabsalon @legal_desires by @beateabsalon

BASEL @luststreifen.festival
09. OKTOBER
Zusammen mit @legal_desires
Danke @eva_knuesel für die Einladung! by @beateabsalon

So horchet dem was ich kundtun will☝️Jetzt in der @ardmediathek
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#notgivingafuck #genz #4b #asexuality #compulsorysexuality by @beateabsalon

Tired

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First picture by @pauline_kortmann
taken at our immersive sheep lab 🐏 we created at xplore festival together with Fenja Elio, @julesschenkel_ , @jade.escriva.h , @niall_fallon_theatre , @feel_more_bln by @beateabsalon

HERBSTZEIT - LESEZEIT

Und wir sind wieder retour mit einem Gewinnspiel!

Verlosung von „Not giving a f*ck“ von @beateabsalon

Ein Buch für alle, die auch mal keine Lust haben - und warum das nicht nur okay ist, sondern widerständig und sogar kin.ky sein kann!

Ein Buch für alle, die sich von Seggspositivität manchmal auch unter Druck fühlen - und verstehen wollen, warum man nicht selber daran Schuld ist, sondern sozio-politische Umstände.

Ein Aufruf zum Banden bilden zwischen slu.ts and prudes, seggspositivem und seggsnegativem Feminismus ✊

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Viel Glück! 🍀 by @beateabsalon

Beata designs workshops, gatherings, and counseling sessions that invite participants to engage with the fact that people are inconvenient.
Rather than trying to eliminate or gloss over this reality, she finds it worthwhile to recognize and work with it, as it forms the basis of ethical relating.
She pursued a PhD on consent and published her book “Not Giving a Fuck”, lovingly questioning
sex positive spaces and exploring the erotics of non- or asexual liberation.

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TOUCH& PLAY GERMANY 2026
INTERBEING - WEAVING A CULTURE OF BELONGING

📆 23–28 August
📍 Nature Community, Schönsee

👉More Info & registration in bio

🧚🏼‍♀️Come as you are.
🌱Come be part of the shift. by @beateabsalon