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Myra Babalola

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Sometimes growth looks like shedding.
Shedding survival patterns.
Shedding inherited narratives.
Shedding versions of ourselves that were shaped by fear, performance, or pain.

Before healthy love.
Before aligned marriage.
Before restored family systems.

There is often a quiet, intentional journey of unlearning.

#innergrowth🌻
#becoming
#intentionalliving by @becomingwithmyra

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There is nothing wrong with believing in someone’s potential or believing they can grow. The problem is making a lifelong commitment based on who you hope they will become rather than who they are today.

Believe in their potential, but don’t settle for potential alone.

#becomingwithmyra #relationships #marriage #counselling by @becomingwithmyra

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Sometimes, what feels obvious to you may not be obvious to your partner. And what feels normal to you may be completely different from what they know.

#becomingwithmyra #marriage #relationships #relationshipcoach by @becomingwithmyra

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Pain can change more than how you feel. It can change what you expect.

What kind of lessons have your past relationships left you with?

#becomingwithmyra #relationships #healing #emotionalhealth by @becomingwithmyra

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Some mindsets are worth challenging before establishing a family.

#becomingwithmyra
#familylife
#mindset by @becomingwithmyra

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The question isn’t whether you’ll say no when the line is right in front of you. It’s whether you decided where the line was before you got there.

Because what you do before temptation arrives often matters more than what you promise yourself you’ll do if or when it does.

#becomingwithmyra
#boundaries
#relationshipcoach
#selfawareness by @becomingwithmyra

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The family you want to build will require more than knowing what you want.

It will require you to become more than the person you are today.

#becomingwithmyra
#selfawareness
#familylife
#personalgrowth by @becomingwithmyra

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A strong relationship isn’t defined by never facing difficult seasons. It’s also about learning how to face them together.

The way we respond to challenges can either create more distance or help us grow in understanding, teamwork and resilience.

Whether you’re married, in a relationship, or preparing for one, these are worth learning early.

Which one stood out to you the most?

#becomingmyra
#marriage
#relationshipcoach by @becomingwithmyra

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Sometimes two people can have the same conversation and walk away with two completely different understandings of it.

Learning each other is more than knowing someone’s favourite things. It’s understanding how they process what they hear and the experiences that shape how they interpret it.

Same words, different dictionaries.

#becomingwithmyra
#communication
#relationships by @becomingwithmyra

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Not every new side of a person is a sign that something went wrong.

Sometimes, it is simply a part of them that life had not yet given you the opportunity to see.

And yes, sometimes people do deceive and pretend. But not every unfamiliar version of your spouse is evidence of that.

Sometimes, you’re simply meeting a part of them you haven’t met before.

Marriage is not the end of discovery. It is the beginning of a deeper one.

#marriage
#relationshipcoach
#becomingwithmyra by @becomingwithmyra

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When getting to know someone, there are things worth paying attention to beyond the obvious.

Some may seem subtle, but they can reveal a lot about a person and the relationship you’re building with them.

What would you add to the list?

#becomingwithmyra
#relationshipcoach
#relationshiptips by @becomingwithmyra

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We tend to associate raising with children.
But family systems keep teaching, reinforcing, and shaping people long after they’ve become adults.

Sometimes, it takes a major life decision to reveal just how much influence those lessons still have.

#FamilySystems
#becomingwithmyra
#SelfAwareness
#FamilyInfluence by @becomingwithmyra

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