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Mom of 5 | Faith + Motherhood
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I spent so many years pouring every part of me into our family. Five daughters, motherhood, sleepless nights, pregnancies, postpartum, and a million moments of putting everyone else first.

Then one day, I finally decided it was okay to do something for me.

And he never made me feel selfish for it. He stood beside me, supported me, took care of me through the hard days, and reminded me that I deserved to feel good about myself too.

I gave him five girls… and somehow, all the love I poured into them came pouring right back into me. 🤍

Only a mother could truly understand this feeling.

One minute you’re falling more in love with life while having babies… and then suddenly, 15 years have passed and you’re trying to find yourself again.

Somewhere between motherhood, postpartum, and raising five girls, I lost little pieces of me.

Now, I’m slowly finding her again.
@shimchingmd @asiapacificaesthetics

#FullCircle #Motherhood #MomOfFive #FindingMyself by @belovedbbs_

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30 years from now, you’ll miss this. #momlife #toddlerlife #explorepage #fy by @belovedbbs_

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Follow my journey for part 2: The most important thing I can teach my girls isn’t to shrink themselves. It’s to honor who they are becoming.”

“And if I want them to grow up choosing themselves… I have to show them what that looks like.

So this year isn’t just another birthday…it’s the year I start choosing me too.
Not because I’m selfish. But because my daughters deserve to see a mom who knows she’s worth it.
34 looks like growth.34 looks like healing.34 looks like becoming the woman I needed when I was younger.
@shimchingmd @asiapacificaesthetics
#breastagumentation #birthday #mom #fy #Explore

Pajamas&oufit @skims by @belovedbbs_

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flew to Oahu for something I never thought I’d be doing out loud like this… just stepping into a moment I used to only imagine quietly.

Trying on sizes, seeing myself in a different stage of life, in a different body, in a different season… and realizing how long I spent just getting by instead of actually feeling comfortable in my own skin.

For years I learned how to hide, how to cover, how to make things work instead of truly feeling at home in myself. I didn’t realize how heavy that was until I finally chose to change it.

And I brought my two oldest daughters with me.

Not because they needed every detail, but because I want them to see something real. That women evolve. That life changes us. That our bodies carry stories after babies, after time, after everything… and none of it makes us less worthy.

There were moments I felt nervous, moments I wanted to overthink everything, but then I’d look at them and remember why I’m doing this. Not for perfection. Not for approval. For peace. For confidence. For me.

And maybe that’s what this really was… not just trying things on, but finally stepping into a version of me I used to only imagine. @shimchingmd @asiapacificaesthetics stay tuned for part 2
#foryou #explore #breastagumentation #relatable #motherhood by @belovedbbs_

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The five little girls I carried, comforted, and poured my heart into are now the ones caring for me as I recover from breast augmentation and lipo surgery.

Motherhood truly comes full circle.

Watching my daughters love me so selflessly through this season has brought me to tears more times than I can count. Every meal they make, every hug, every little act of kindness reminds me that love poured into your children never goes to waste.

I’ll never forget this season of healing. It has shown me the most beautiful side of motherhood,the day your babies grow up and begin caring for you. #motherhood #girlmom #daughters #healing #fullcircle

Recovery pajamas: @skims by @belovedbbs_

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“I’m so grateful for my fiancé and my daughter… they’ve done everything for me while I’m healing. And I just sat there today, watching them, feeling everything at once.

It’s this strange in-between,feeling so loved and taken care of, but also emotional because I can’t do what I normally would. I feel both grateful and a little overwhelmed in the same breath.
#dad #daughter #packing #healing #foryou by @belovedbbs_

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Full circle moment #genderreveal #lastbaby #newborn #toddler #explore by @belovedbbs_

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I’ve spent 15 years being a mom, packing lunches, holding babies, late nights, early mornings and pouring so much love into raising my girls, before leaving for surgery I wanted to sit with my 5 daughters an remind them of something I hope they will always Remember.. doing something for yourself doesn’t take away the love you have for your family.. I will forever an always choose an love them.. I’m so emotional, nervous, excited an holding on to them a little longer an tighter before this next season of healing.. my girls will always be the best thing I have ever done in this life.. mommy loves you more then anything in this world

#foryou #explore #girlmom #motherhood #healing by @belovedbbs_

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For 18 years, we’ve done life together.

He watched me bring our five daughters into this world. He held my hand through every contraction, every tear, and every moment I thought I couldn’t do it anymore. And now, all these years later, he’s holding my hand through another hard season.

The way these two made me laugh when I felt like crying. The way he’d do the silliest things just to see me smile, even when laughing hurt. The way neither of them ever made me feel like I was “too much” or a burden.

My daughter and her amazing dad reminded me to slow down. They helped me when I couldn’t do things on my own, loved me through every emotional moment, and filled my hardest days with laughter.

Looking back, some of my favorite memories from recovery weren’t about healing at all,they were about them.

One day I’ll forget the discomfort, but I’ll never forget how deeply loved I felt. Thank you for turning one of the hardest seasons of my life into one I’ll always hold close to my heart.❤️‍🩹#daughter #father #healing #surgery #soulmate by @belovedbbs_

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One month ago, I needed help with almost everything.

Today, I’m putting on a real bra for the first time, moving my arms more freely, and most importantly… I can finally hold my baby girl again. 🥹

The little things don’t feel little anymore.

Healing has been a journey, but getting these pieces of myself back has meant more to me than I could ever explain.

One month down, and I’m finally starting to feel like me again.
I’m so eternally grateful @shimchingmd @asiapacificaesthetics ✨

#recovery #foryou #motherhood #skims by @belovedbbs_

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So incredibly grateful to the amazing team at Asia Pacific Aesthetics for taking such wonderful care of me from beginning to end. 🤍

Thank you, Dr. Ching, for your kindness, your expertise, and for making me feel safe every step of the way. To every nurse and staff member who checked on me, comforted me, and treated me with so much compassion—thank you. Your care meant more than you’ll ever know.

This experience has been so emotional for me, and I’m truly grateful I was surrounded by people who made me feel seen, supported, and cared for.

Thank you for helping me begin this new chapter with confidence and peace. I’ll never forget it. #foryou #explore #healing #breastaug taken in Oahu, Hawaii by @belovedbbs_

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One week post-op 🤍

No one prepared me for how emotional this week would be.

Healing has been so much more than the physical recovery. The breast augmentation has honestly been easier than I expected, but the lipo has been the hardest part. My body gets tired so quickly, my arms still don’t feel like themselves, and even getting ready takes so much more effort.

At the same time, I was celebrating two of my daughters’ birthdays while recovering. Not being able to do everything I normally would as their mom broke my heart, but they reminded me that they didn’t need a perfect mom,they just needed me.

This week has taught me to slow down, accept help, and give myself grace. Healing isn’t linear, and every day looks a little different. I’m grateful to be one step closer to feeling like myself again, and I can’t wait to see how everything continues to heal over the next few weeks.

To every mom who’s putting herself on the back burner because of guilt: it’s okay to choose yourself too. Taking care of yourself doesn’t take away from the love you have for your family. Sometimes it’s the very thing that helps you show up even stronger.

Here’s to one week down and many more milestones ahead.
@shimchingmd @asiapacificaesthetics #breastaug #motherhood #healing #birthday #foryou by @belovedbbs_

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