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@bic_wonder

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Medical doctor/Writer/Speaker
✨social skills
✨personal development
✨interpersonal relationships
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📍Preston, UK

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September 11,2001, a ‘simple’ injury became one that nearly cost me my entire left arm.

I spent months in hospital, went through years of physiotherapy and, eventually this event became something that contributed significantly to who I am today.

I remember one day after a painful physiotherapy session, I cried so much both due to pain and from deep sadness about how differently my hand looked. In that moment, I felt like I heard God saying to me, “this hand will not be a limitation” and that was the beginning of my journey to growth, resilience,character development, and a closer walk with God.

A few days ago, my daughter asked me if my hand still hurts and I told her, ‘No and Yes’ because while I no longer feel physical pain or consider my hand a sensitive subject, some days I wish I could use my hands the way everyone else uses theirs. I miss having a middle finger, and a lot of times, I wish my jewelry looked as pretty on my left hand as it does on my right hand.

I’ve been a little emotional today but for a different reason. Years and seasons have passed and I’m able to do a lot of things I feared I’d never be able to do again. I’ve achieved so many wonderful milestones and my life is more beautiful than I ever imagined. All I can say is, God has been faithful to His promise.

Big shout out to my parents, my siblings , my family, all my friends right from primary school till now, my husband and all the different people who have supported me immensely through different stages of life.

Thank you for loving me so deeply and genuinely.

On that note, Happy 25th anniversary to my victory scars.❤️✨🎉 by @bic_wonder

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AUGUST💕😍💕😍

I succumbed to pressure from @_zuche I bought makeup products and attempted a face beat.

I was outside for to learn, to celebrate love, and to prove a point to my sister that I am adventurous.🤣 by @bic_wonder

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Sometimes, low self-esteem looks like not feeling deserving of an apology you clearly deserve. taken in United Kingdom by @bic_wonder

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Major highlight of the weekend was visiting Birmingham for the first time for the M-cube summit which is a big deal for me because traveling isn’t one of my favourite things to do.😀

But I’m so glad I attended! The event was so beautiful and intimate. I met amazing people with cool vibes, great energy and genuine smiles.😊

Every session left me feeling enlightened and encouraged.

M-cube summit for me was a timely reminder that the journey of life is indeed a personal one and the easiest way to be perpetually unhappy with your life is to make other people’s goals your ambition.

Big shout out to @rubie_tt & @thechiderapeters for organizing such an amazing event!💕✨💕 taken in United Kingdom by @bic_wonder

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2 months ago

Let me know which one(s) you need to say more often to your friends.😊 taken in United Kingdom by @bic_wonder

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There are lies we’ve told ourselves so many times that they’ve now become part of our identity.

“I’m shy.” “I’m an introvert.” “i’m socially awkward.” “I’m messy.” “I’m always late.” “I’m just not good at XYZ.”

We repeat these things until they become excuses, limitations and comfortable little boxes we stop trying to escape.

Yes, some things come more naturally to some people than others. But I’m a firm believer that most things are learnable.

You can learn to communicate better.
You can learn to be more organised.
You can learn to speak confidently.
You can learn to make friends.
You can learn to manage your emotions.
You can learn to become better at things that don’t come naturally to you.

However, to be able to learn anything you must first overcome the biggest barrier to learning which is the mindset that you’re incapable of doing certain things because they don’t come naturally to you. 😊✨💕 taken in United Kingdom by @bic_wonder

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I had so much fun filming this. 😁I’d really love to hear your answers to some of these questions.

Thank you @loveandlifepod for the inspiration. 💕 by @bic_wonder

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I have a lot to say about this. I’ll consider making a longer video to explain this.

I’ve learnt this the hard way and don’t wish anyone a on-sided relationship but in the meantime, you can still choose to continue to force yourself on people who don’t want you.😊✌️

Earrings: @shopokessa taken in United Kingdom by @bic_wonder

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You don’t always have to ‘relate’.
You can be fully sensitive and empathetic to someone’s struggle without minimizing your privileges.

#empathproblems #socialskills taken in Preston, United Kingdom by @bic_wonder

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3 months ago

Because honestly, a neutral face is way more welcoming than an obvious lip-based smile.
#socialskillstraining taken in United Kingdom by @bic_wonder

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3 months ago

I always have to remind myself of slides 6,7 & 8.

I still struggle to stick to slide 13.

Which slide is your favourite and which did you need to hear today?😊 by @bic_wonder

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I hopped on this trend and had an absolute blast filming it. 😄 Be honest, which one is a turn-off for you?😁
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#adultfriendships #friendship💕 by @bic_wonder

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