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👻Alternative fashion, chewelry, and fidgets!
🦇Be kind to yourselves!! 🖤
🦛Autistic/ADHD owned!

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✨🖤hello my dears, I hope you are well today!!
This has all been on my mind since it is the time of year the Big Bad Agh Oh No Happened, so I thought I’d share a bit.

🖤Last year around this time, I was genuinely the most depressed I had ever been in my entire life. I was struggling a lot, and going through a very devastating emotional thing that I keep offline for privacy, plus in a lot of pain. I pretty much was either in bed sobbing, or trying my best to keep blpd afloat for months 😅.

🖤long story short, around this time in September I had a plan to,,, exit. Miranda came to my house and talked me down, and we ended up closing blpd a bit earlier then expected (we were planned to close for my surgery on Oct 8th) for my mental health. I felt SO guilty yall, I felt like a massive hypocrite, but looking back I know I was trying my best and just needed help. (I love you Miranda.) It was Very Not Good.
🖤then I had that surgery and it went wrong. And dear goodness, it was painful. Painful, scary, stressful, a FIGHT. I have always been a very strong person, but yikes on bikes y’all. Countless hospitalizations/er visits, more surgeries and procedures, and less of my intestine and no more appendix (plus, infection free!!!) and I am now here.
🖤I think hospital round one showed me I was stronger than I thought, and allowed me to resolve the bad emotional situation in my life.
🖤I think because of the autism I struggle to connect with people and believe people care about me, but after seeing the amount of love I was given from so many people in my life, and after seeing how many people say BLPD has helped them, I just feel like I belong now. Dunno how else to explain it. Thank you guys so much. You do so much more than you know and I am honored to be able to work this job.
🖤 The pain in general has taught me a lot, like taking care of myself and asking for help.
🖤I am assuming this month and October will be tough, especially because I actually have an upcoming surgery October 17.

But as I sit here listening to Kraftwerk typing this, alive and happy, I am just grateful. Thank you all. There is always something worth fighting for! 🖤🦛 by @borderlinepunkdesign

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a year ago

xD why hello there friends, happy Monday! Every time I see this comment I smile, so I thought I’d share it with you guys too!!! 🦛🖤🦇

🖤 I cherish and appreciate all of the kindness and positivity that our wonderful community brings, I especially love seeing when you guys are interacting with each other and having good times!!

🖤I printed many shipping labels today, and still have some more to go! I believe I will be packing the next batch of orders either on Tuesday or Wednesday, I have a few more admin things to do and I think I need to sit today, my fibromyalgia is threatening to flare 🥲🖤.

🖤alright my dudes, take care!!!! Be kind to yourselves!!!!!!! you are loved!!!!

🖤 FAQ About Chewelry

🖤We use BPA-free, phthalate-free, food-grade silicone to craft every chew!🖤

🟢 Why use chewelry?
Chewelry can be used for:
🖤stimming & self-regulation (especially popular in autistic, ADHD, and neurodivergent communities!)
🖤redirecting nail/cheek/lip biting
🖤general chewing urges

I personally live with autism, ADHD, anxiety, bipolar, and PTSD - and for me, chewelry has been an amazing tool for self-regulation. 🦇

🖤 Many people - especially sensory seekers & neurodivergent folks - have strong chewing habits. Chewelry offers a safer, durable outlet for those needs 🖤

🟢 Where can I get it?
Borderlinepunkdesign.com

🟢 Cleaning & Care
🖤Wash frequently with soap and warm water.
🖤Always check your chew for wear and tear, replace at the first sign of damage.
🖤Use moderation when necessary.
🦇 Not a medical device, just sensory support. :D 🦇

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10 hours ago

🖤🐾🦇 Should I make anything else a mini pendent like this? I was kind of thinking one of the forest chews, but we do have the flower drop tulip already. What do you guys think? I would love to know!!!

ALSO HI!!!!!! Happy Friday friends!!!!!!!! I hope you have a good week, and are remembering to ✨treat yourself with patience and kindness✨

🐾This necklace is up and available now!! Hooray!!

Be kind to yourselves, you are loved, needed, and precious!! Hillary says hi 🦛 she’s eaten a significant amount of pickles today. We should all take notes from Hillary xD. 🥒

🖤 FAQ About Chewelry

🖤We use BPA-free, phthalate-free, food-grade silicone to craft every chew!🖤

🟢 Why use chewelry?
Chewelry can be used for:
🖤stimming & self-regulation (especially popular in autistic, ADHD, and neurodivergent communities!)
🖤redirecting nail/cheek/lip biting
🖤general chewing urges

I personally live with autism, ADHD, anxiety, bipolar, and PTSD - and for me, chewelry has been an amazing tool for self-regulation. 🦇

🖤 Many people - especially sensory seekers & neurodivergent folks - have strong chewing habits. Chewelry offers a safer, durable outlet for those needs 🖤

🟢 Where can I get it?
Borderlinepunkdesign.com

🟢 Cleaning & Care
🖤Wash frequently with soap and warm water.
🖤Always check your chew for wear and tear, replace at the first sign of damage.
🖤Use moderation when necessary.
🦇 Not a medical device, just sensory support. :D 🦇

#borderlinepunkdesign by @borderlinepunkdesign

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3 days ago

🐾LISTEN I AM VERY EXCITED ABOUT THESE STICKERS, WHAT CAN I SAY xD??? I hope you are having a good day today friend <4!

Chew Charms are very nifty chewelry tools that go on the end of hoodie strings (they are compatible with our hoodie cords that come in a variety of colors that you insert into your hoodie yourself, or our precorded hoodies!)

🖤We make tons of different styles, like sharks, mushrooms, skeletons, ghosts, strawberries. and even glow in the dark skulls!!! And paws…. Did I mention paws???

🐾We actually have another paw themed chewlery item coming out on firday… keep your eyeballs pealed!

Okie dokei my dudes, have a wonderful rest of the day!! ill see you on Friday!!

p.s Back to school freebies have been posted and are up for grabs on the site, check out story if you want more info!!! Be kind to yourselves, I really hope they end up brightening your day a bit!!!

🖤 FAQ About Chewelry

🖤We use BPA-free, phthalate-free, food-grade silicone to craft every chew!🖤

🟢 Why use chewelry?
Chewelry can be used for:
🖤stimming & self-regulation (especially popular in autistic, ADHD, and neurodivergent communities!)
🖤redirecting nail/cheek/lip biting
🖤general chewing urges

I personally live with autism, ADHD, anxiety, bipolar, and PTSD - and for me, chewelry has been an amazing tool for self-regulation. 🦇

🖤 Many people - especially sensory seekers & neurodivergent folks - have strong chewing habits. Chewelry offers a safer, durable outlet for those needs 🖤

🟢 Where can I get it?
Borderlinepunkdesign.com

🟢 Cleaning & Care
🖤Wash frequently with soap and warm water.
🖤Always check your chew for wear and tear, replace at the first sign of damage.
🖤Use moderation when necessary.
🦇 Not a medical device, just sensory support. :D 🦇

#borderlinepunkdesign by @borderlinepunkdesign

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5 days ago

🖤🦛Hello my dears!!! Happy Monday, it’s great to see you! Today we are having a little chit chat about what to do when you’re feeling paralyzed by the world!

There are SOOOO many ways you can make a positive impact in this world: 🖤🦛🖤

- Volunteer (food banks, shelters, schools, environmental groups, senior homes, etc)
- Be kind intentionally! Check in on your loved ones, your neighbors, include somebody who might feel left out, give people grace when they make mistakes, be patient with people, etc
- Pick up litter when you see it
- Support small and local businesses
- Stand up for your peers
- Take care of animals
- Donate to charities and organizations that are trying to help people
- Advocate for a cause that is meaningful to you
- Get involved with local politics
this is just a few examples, there are many ways to benefit our communities!

🖤If nothing specific comes to mind that you think you could do, I think an easy start is to make a “kindness habit”, so committing to doing something like complementing a stranger once a week, and building up from there!

🖤You have the power to change the world friends, and the world needs you! I know it can feel hopeless, and even straight up like it isn’t worth trying, but never forget that even the smallest of positive acts can impact somebody else largely!

Take care, we are all in this together!
___________ FAQs

🟢 Why use chewelry?
Chewelry can be used for:
🖤stimming & self-regulation (especially popular in autistic, ADHD, and neurodivergent communities!)
🖤redirecting nail/cheek/lip biting
🖤general chewing urges

#borderlinepunkdesign by @borderlinepunkdesign

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🦛🖤Hillary surely keeps BLPD running smoothly xD she does a great job!

🦛🖤hello my dears!! I hope you have had a good day and remembered to hydrate your vessel (preferably not with hot pickle juice - but I am also not here to yuck anybody else’s yum xD). Gosh, it’s great to see yall!!

🦛🖤I restocked earlier today!! Hooray!!!!! There were lots of chewelry and com cards especially this restock!

🦛🖤ALSO! care package update: I am planning on doing the next round of those (the back to school ones I had shown yall right before I had to close!) on September 23, at 6pm! There will be a separate video about that, but since I know a lotta friends were waiting on them I thought I’d mention it now too!!! :D

🦛🖤BE KIND TO YOURSELVES!!! I am gonna go get the email for this week out, and I’ll see ya next week!! Take care!!!! 🖤🖤🖤 if you need to, stretch your muscles if you haven’t recently! You are loved and needed!

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10 days ago

Dear goodness, the events continue to event, but we keep moving along! 🖤🦛🖤 I hope you have been being kind to yourselves!!! It’s great to see you :D.

Just letting yall know what the plan is and that I am upright again xD. Thank you for your kind comments, Luna has shown me many of them from you all over the last week, and I really do appreciate how sweet and patient you guys are 🖤. You really do always cheer me up! Hopefully I will be upright for a longer time this time! 😅 thanks for standing by while we figured out what to do!

🖤 I also want to give a big, huge, LAAARGE thank you to Luna for handling BLPD while I was unwell! She did a great job and took so much initiative, I am very proud <3. ✨🌙

🖤Okie dokie my dudes - I am gonna take a few days to get everything around here situated and the plan for September re evaluated , and we should be back to having the website up and posting next week! I am still going to be offline for the rest of this week, but Luna is around and just an email away if you need anything.

Take care!!!! Drink some water!!! You are loved! 🖤🖤 by @borderlinepunkdesign

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20 days ago

Hey guys! Luna here! 🌙 it’s great to see you!

🐈‍⬛🖤Just checking in. We are not sure how long we will be closed for unfortunately :c. Lilith is going to be okay - she just needs to go focus on getting better for a bit!

🐈‍⬛🖤if you have any questions, please don’t hesitate to reach out to me on email! I am also keeping an eye on comments, and I will of course relay any comments for Lilith to her.

🐈‍⬛🖤if you’d like to join our email list to be alerted to when we reopen, there is a story highlight on our IG page, and it’s in the description on our YouTube page! You can also check the website, there is a pop up that will let you sign up. :D

🐈‍⬛🖤 be kind to yourself! We might not be posting and the store might be down for a bit - but don’t forget that we still believe in you and you will always have a place here! We will be back soon.

See you soon! Lilith says take care, and don’t forget to wash your chewelry! 🖤🖤🖤
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🖤we will be back soon friends! Much love. by @borderlinepunkdesign

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a month ago

Hi friends,
:c the wacky health saga continues. Long story short: unfortunately I had an ER trip this morning, and am being admitted to the hospital for acute enterocolitis. It is painful, all of my surgery scars hurt extra bad, and on top of everything i have had Stayin Alive stuck in my head for hours lol, I cannot wait to go home lol. I am very overwhelmed 😅.

🖤🦛Hillary has been providing excellent bedside care and expert snoot to face contact, so I am in good hands! (Fingers? She doesn’t really have hands.) I am not sure how long I’ll be here or what the plan is, but hopefully won’t be too long. In Hillary we trust!

🖤luckily I got all orders in the Que packed yesterday, so that is good. The website is currently down and we are gonna close for a bit. Luna is on emails and keeping an eyeball on everything, so if you need anything just email customer service! I will be getting offline after this post, gotta go figure things out <3 but she is still here (we love Luna!!!)

🖤I had said earlier this week that our free care packages would go out whether I was here or not, unfortunately our plans for if I was down were more “if I am stuck in bed and unable to pack them myself” and not “if I am admitted to the hospital”, so those will likely be delayed a bit, I am sooo sorry! :c this was unexpected, I was expecting at the worst I’d be on bedrest but still home, so I had not made a plan for if things were like this. I am very bummed. They’ll still be released, just probably a little later than anticipated.

🖤I’ll be back soon my dears! Until then, be kind to yourself, be nice to your brains, and don’t forget that you are a loved and important individual!!! Hydrate and feed yourself!!! 🖤🖤🦛 by @borderlinepunkdesign

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2 months ago

hey friends, it’s good to see you!! 🖤

🖤I don’t typically work on the interwebs on sundays, but I thought I’d give you a little sneak peak of the next round of free care packages that I’ve been working on, made with our friends who are going back to school!!

🖤So there will be these cute little stationary sets, along side some free chewelry, fidgets, and communication cards! I will post an update when I know an exact date that these will be listed, it’ll be within the next week and a half ish.

🖤I am so excited!!! I hope you guys like these, and that they’re helpful! Whether you are feeling stressed, excited, or a mix of feelings about going back to school, don’t forget that we’ve got your back! (Hillary is emitting good vibes into the universe for all of our scholarly friends xD)

>:D I am gonna go back to assembling now. I’ll see you guys soon! Be kind to yourselves!! by @borderlinepunkdesign

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🖤✨👀why hello there my dude!!!! I am glad to see you today, and I am proud of you for getting through the day! Just a gentle reminder to give your chewerly a good cleaning if you haven’t lately! BE KIND TO YOURSELVES!!! Speak nicely to your braaaain, it’s doing its best! 🧠🖤

🧼washing your chews thoroughly with soap and warm water frequently is a super important part of chewelry hygiene! Allow ito to fully dry after washing, then you are all set 🖤

🖤things like chewelry spray and pacifier wipes can be helpful for a quick refresher to keep your chew clean on the go, but still should not be used to fully substitute soap and warm water. :D

✨🖤 FAQ About Chewelry

🖤We use BPA-free, phthalate-free, third-party tested food-grade silicone to craft every chew!🖤

🟢 Why use chewelry?
Chewelry can be used for:
🖤stimming & self-regulation (especially popular in autistic, ADHD, and neurodivergent communities!)
🖤redirecting nail/cheek/lip biting
🖤general chewing urges

I personally live with autism, ADHD, anxiety, bipolar, and PTSD - and for me, chewelry has been an amazing tool for self-regulation. 🦇

🖤 Many people - especially sensory seekers & neurodivergent folks - have strong chewing habits. Chewelry offers a safer, durable outlet for those needs 🖤

🟢 Where can I get it?
👉 Borderlinepunkdesign.com 👈

🟢 Cleaning & Care
🖤Wash frequently with soap and warm water.
🖤Always check your chew for wear and tear, replace at the first sign of damage.
🖤Use moderation when necessary.
🦇 Not a medical device, just sensory support. :D 🦇
#borderlinepunkdesign by @borderlinepunkdesign

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