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(1화) 불확실함 속에 날 던져보기로 했다.

#결혼 #첫사랑 by @busyboy______

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10 months ago

그래도 20%정돈 귀 열고 들어야하긴 해 by @busyboy______

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15 days ago

#nike #justdoıt by @busyboy______

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20 days ago

별거없네
물론 내가 ㅜㅜ by @busyboy______

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22 days ago

달콤한 야리끼리의 맛 by @busyboy______

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23 days ago

난 항상 계절이 바뀔 때 쯤이면
순간적으로 바뀐
계절의 온도와 공기가 코에 들어오는 순간
과거의 추억이 향수병처럼 떠오를 때가 있다.

오후에 수영장에 가는데,
갑자기 가을 공기가

3년 전 9월 14일 독일 마르부르크에
도착했을 때의 향기로 스쳐지나갔다.

마르부르크 기차역에 도착했었을 때
좀 춥고 시원한 공기였는데
딱 그 공기랑 비슷했다.

그때 비행기에서 만난 마리라는 친구가
나에게 공짜 투어를 시켜줬었다.
고마운 마음에 그림과 편지도 줬었는데.

수영장 가는 길에 갑자기 아른아른 거리며
추억에 혼자 흠뻑 젖었다.

문득
무슨 용기로 무작정 배낭여행을 떠났던
과거의 나에게 고마워진다.

나이가 들어가도
언제나 소년의 마음가짐으로 용기내어
향수병같은 추억을 만들어야겠다. by @busyboy______

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a month ago

구둣방 기록 by @busyboy______

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a month ago

혼자 놀기의 달인 by @busyboy______

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a month ago

사람은 절대 바꿀 수 없다.

상대가 바뀌길 기대하고
바꿀 수 있도록 노력하지만
결국 우린 바꾸지 못한다.

그런데 곰곰히 생각해보면
‘사람은 바뀌지 않는다’라는 말에서
사람의 주체는 언제나 내가 아닌 타인이었다.

우리는 왜 상대가 바뀌길 기대하면서
내 스스로는 바꿀 생각을 안해보았을까?

나를 되돌아보면
내 여자친구와의 연애에서
여자친구를 바꾸려했던 모습들이 많았다.

그땐 나의 방식이 맞다고 확신했는데,
지금 되돌아보면

상대가 살아온 환경을 싸그리 무시한 채
내 세상에 너도 껴 맞춰 빨리 들어오라고
강요를 한 아주 어리석은 행동이었다.

시간이 흐르면서 여자친구의 당장이 아닌
살아온 삶과 환경을 한번 바라보았다.
그러면서 서서히 받아들이기 시작했다.

아 저렇게 생각할 수 있겠구나?
여자친구도 자기만의 삶의 방식이 있구나?

점점 내가 갖지 못한, 절대 가질 수 없는
여자친구 세계의 장점이 보이기 시작했다.

그리곤 하나가 되려는 욕망보단,
어느정도의 거리를 두고
여자친구의 세계를 존중하기 시작했다.

그리곤 나는 진정한 사랑에 빠지기 시작했다고 생각한다.

사랑은 맞춰가는 것이다.
그런데 그 맞춰가는 것에 중심은
동시에 맞춰가는게 아니다.

무슨 상황이 되었건 간에
내가 먼저 상대를 받아들이고 포용해보도록 노력해야한다.

그래서 사랑은 어렵다.

난 아직도 미숙하게 내 세상을 조금씩 강요하고 있다.
그래도 과거보단 많이 줄어서 다행이다.

사랑은 좋은 사람을 만나는 것보다
자신의 그릇을 넓혀가는 과정이라 생각한다. by @busyboy______

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a month ago

어차피 다 똑같이 죽을거
함께 즐기며 살다가면 될 일이다.

여름 끝 by @busyboy______

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a month ago

That’s what friends are for by @busyboy______

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a month ago

00년생과 58년생의 낭만데이트 by @busyboy______

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a month ago