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@by.isabellee

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turning your draining 20s into a life you actually love🩰
grew up in chaos, now building peace <3
🔜 Gran Canaria 🌍
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• I removed all distractions (doom scrolling, tv shows, daydreaming , …) and focused on the things that drain me and analysed what would bring me joy instead. This analysis is essential !!
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• this is so underrated but I focused on getting 8-9hours of sleep. I made sure I go to bed & wake up at the same time every day, even on weekends !! My sleep is my priority now
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• I set myself goals and created systems to make sure I’ll achieve them. This makes me ambitious and gives me a feeling of having a worthy mission hehe <3
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• I tried new things & ended up falling in love w Pilates and reading articles on Substack 🩰 now I love reading in general too haha!! :)) this is your sign to try new things even if you don’t think you’ll like them bc I’d never thought I’d use Substack everyday hahaha
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• I started decluttering regularly. Getting rid of things makes my mind feel at ease I LOVE IT :))
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• Practicing being more present and enjoy the 'boring' moments !! Don’t start scrolling in those moments TRUST ME YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM NEEDS BORING MOMENTS 💌
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• I limited my screen time & how much I watch YT videos and tv shows/ movies & focused on going outside more + solo dates !! I didn’t fully remove it bc I still enjoy watching vlogs and my tv show and I think it’s a healthy balance :)
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• eating more fruits !! My body LOVES it <3
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• 💌 save this as a reminder & follow @by.isabellee for more growing and self love content <3
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#slowliving #softaesthetic #selflove #selfimprovementdaily by @by.isabellee

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4 months ago

Slow mornings in Croatia
where time feels slower,
the wind warmer
& the world feels a little more peaceful.
Let this moment remind you to embrace the beauty in your own mornings -
wherever you are. 💌🌎
• What’s one thing about your mornings that brings you peace? Share it below 💗
#slowliving #softaesthetic #healing #emotionalgirlies #slowmorning #croatia #croatianvibe by @by.isabellee

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a year ago

My 10 obsessions 💌
Little things that make life feel like mine.
♡ Double tap if you relate to any of them
#1girl10obsessions #deeptalk #softgirls #aesthetics #sunrise #sunsets #softliving by @by.isabellee

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a year ago

I‘m pretty sure this song will shape my next months hehehe <3 making a lot of money so I can see the world yet keeping a soft life tho ❣️
#slowliving #softceo by @by.isabellee

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Every time I feel like giving up I just end up thinking about what will happen when everything works out exactly the way I want it to <3
Unfortunately we human beings are just pretty impatient and I guess that’s the main root of why things don’t work for some of us.
But nobody thinks about that part.
I’m sure it’ll all work out for us if we keep doing it out of love :)
• Send this to someone who needs to hear this & follow @by.isabellee if you’re building your dream life too 💜
#slowliving #softaesthetic #emotionalgirlies #selfimprovementdaily #selflove by @by.isabellee

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5 days ago

Turns out people didn’t lie when they said everything we need to change is already within us!! 💘💘
It’s all about us. Our values, our surroundings, our attitudes. & they don’t cost any money AT ALL!! So if you’re trying to get your spark back TRY THESE 💌
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Save this as a reminder & follow @by.isabellee if you want a simpler life and your spark back 💌💌
#slowliving #softaesthetic #emotionalgirlies #healing by @by.isabellee

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11 days ago

Tbh fall is my least favorite season (upsi) but I try to make the best out of it hehe <3
Something about my October habits makes me feel like I’m reconnecting with my inner child :)
• if you have more ideas, feel free to comment them <3
#slowliving #october #softaesthetic by @by.isabellee

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Trust me when I tell you to do these for a week & I’m sure (!!!) your life will be wayyy more peaceful than you imagine <3 Give yourself 7 days and see your life changing for the better :) You have nothing to lose !!
• Save this as a reminder 💌 & pls lmk know if you’ve tried them for a week :))
#slowliving #softaesthetic #emotionalgirlies #selfimprovementdaily by @by.isabellee

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21 days ago

Sometimes the habits you have keep you from finding your spark <3 Here are some:
• dwelling on the past all the time. It’s okay to talk about, heal & reflect it, but don’t let it consume you. Don’t dwell on it for too long. At one point you have to look forward.
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• I’m saying this all the time but hanging out with people who drain you. Don’t be scared to change your environment or be alone for a while. It’s okay to outgrow people you love, but it is not okay staying with people who clearly drain you.
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• Waking up late. Unless you work night shifts or have any other important case, you should definitely get in the habit of waking up early. When you wake up late it feels like the day is almost over and you won’t take much time to be productive :)
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• Having your phone next to you all the time, whether it’s when you study, read, cook or anything else. Having your phone makes you more likely to scroll & it makes your brain partly focus on whether you get notifications or not. Put your phone away :))
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• Overconsumption!! Buying lots of new clothes & stuff will occupy your mind. You may not realize it but owning a lot, spending lots of money, taking care of those things is just gonna take lots of your energy and will drain you.
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💌 Sometimes it’s the small habits that keep us from finding our spark. And if you try to get your spark back then follow me @by.isabellee & let’s connect 💜
#slowliving #softaesthetic #emotionalgirlies #healing #selfimprovementdaily by @by.isabellee

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22 days ago

I may cry a bit first, but then I’m back 😎
• save this as a reminder that you can literally change anything if you want to!! 💜
#slowliving #softaesthetic #selfimprovementdaily by @by.isabellee

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a month ago

Here you go <3
• saving more money & tracking my spendings !! Pls this is so important
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• practicing standing up for myself even more <3 my goal is for my voice and body not to shake when I do so heheh (I’m always getting anxious)
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• keeping my boundaries more confidently. Boundaries are SO important!!! I wish someone told me this sooner so I’m telling YOU now :)
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• going on more solo dates to gain more confidence and trust in myself. Can you believe I’m scared to ask for the bill in a Café/restaurant?? lol
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• more time in nature & maybe even hiking ??? I love trying new things so yes let’s try this :)!!
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• reading even more !! I LOVE the knowledge I gain there 🥹🌷
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• more weekend trips bc there’s so much more to see out there 🗺️ I bet you haven’t discovered all cities next to yours so join me heheheh!!
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💌 this is your sign to steal my habits and take them into 2027 too heheh!! So save this as a reminder & follow @by.isabellee !! Let’s connect 💕💕
#slowliving #softaesthetic #2027 #selfimprovementdaily by @by.isabellee

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Sometimes your brain won’t believe you’ve changed until you show it proof! & here’s my proof <3 I’m just a retired overthinker who craved a peaceful & simple life 💕 #slowliving #softaesthetic #simpleliving

If you know me, don’t ask 🫣

Best decision I have ever made was letting go & letting God <3 #godisgood it’s like I was set free from overthinking !! 🌷

I’m happy I left my overspending era & entered a more meaningful one :) simple life requires simplicity also in what we own :)) #simpleliving #softaesthetic #minimalism

I can’t wait to show you the books I’ve read!! Who’s excited ?? 😊😊

Just know you are very welcome here <3 @by.isabellee
Make yourself comfortable cuz we’re about to positively change your life 💌
#selfimprovement by @by.isabellee

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