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DEAFinitely Not The One Podcast

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🎙️ Unfiltered 30s real talk: boundaries, growth & culture
👯 Hosts: @bictoriaa & @beelovedcherie_
🗓️ New episode every Tuesday
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"I want to... but I don't know if it's appropriate for me."
When you're white-passing with a Black grandmother, navigating hair culture is a tightrope walk. Is experimenting with protective styles and wigs cultural appropriation, or is it claiming your own roots?
We're pulling back the curtain on hair privilege, multi-racial identity, and unlearning eurocentric standards in Part 2.
👇 Where do you draw the line between hair privilege and ancestral heritage? Drop your thoughts in the comments below.
Watch the full unfiltered debate on YouTube now! Link in bio.
#WhitePassing #AfroLatina #ProtectiveStyles #HairTrauma #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #PodcastClips #CulturalIdentity by @deafinitelynottheone

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In our recent episode Taja and I talk about the shade we have experienced during our single girl era.

Okay, seriously can we please let go of the phrase “what’s wrong with you?” 🙄

Nothing! Absolutely nothing is wrong with us! But goodness, people love to make being single feel like some kind of group project we’re failing. In this chat, we’re keeping it so real about the exhaustion of fielding those nosey questions and actually learning how to love our own company.

How do you usually react when someone asks why you’re still single?

Let’s vent in the comments or slide into our DMs we’ve got your back! 💕✨

#SingleEra #girlchat #womenpodcasters #singlelife by @deafinitelynottheone

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If this week tested you, let this be your reminder: as long as you have breath in your body and your right mind, you still have purpose 🤍✨
That is an official wrap on SEASON 2 of DEAFinitely Not The One! We have cried, laughed, unpacked hard truths, and grown together over these past 12 episodes. Thank you to every single person who listened, shared, commented, and showed up for us.
Whatever is sitting inside of you waiting to be created, spoken, or birthed—turn that fire up. We need you here.
👇 Drop a 🥂 in the comments to celebrate Season 2 with us!
Stream the complete Season Finale on YouTube now! Link in bio.
#deafinitelynottheone #seasonfinale #sundayreset #purpose #faithandinspiration #blackpodcasters #latinapodcasters #PurposeDriven #Resilience #InnerStrength #Motivation #Inspiration #MindsetMatters #ReelsInspiration by @deafinitelynottheone

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You pick up your phone to escape real-world stress... only to end up doomscrolling through more trauma 📱😭
We use social media as escapism because reality feels overwhelming, but when your "escape" starts draining your spirit, it's time to set a boundary. You didn't even get time to process the LAST news cycle before the next one hit.
Give yourself permission to put the phone down and protect your peace this weekend 🤍✨
👇 Drop a 🛑 in the comments if you're taking a social media break this weekend.
Catch our full Season Finale on YouTube now! Link in bio.
#doomscrolling #newsfatigue #protectyourpeace #mentalhealthmatters #escapism #deafinitelynottheone #podcastclips by @deafinitelynottheone

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Everyone is screaming about national political news today, but let’s talk about where your REAL power lives 🗳️⚖️
It’s easy to get overwhelmed by what happens in Washington or during press conferences, but local District Attorneys, Sheriffs, and Judges directly impact justice and safety in your neighborhood every single day.
Don't let national noise distract you from your local ballot.
Full Season Finale live on YouTube now! Link in bio.
#localelections #districtattorney #civicengagement #politicalnews #deafinitelynottheone #podcastclips #CivicDuty #Vote #YourVoiceMatters #Democracy #Vote #YourVoiceMatters #Election #Democracy #MakeADifference #BeHeard #Activism by @deafinitelynottheone

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Demanding transparency shouldn't be exhausting, yet here we are. 💔
In today's Season Finale of DEAFinitely Not The One, we address the weight of recent headlines, institutional responses, and how we protect our mental health while standing up for truth.
Full episode streaming now on YouTube and Spotify!
👇 Save this post as a reminder to check in on your friends who carry the weight of the community.
Tap the link in our bio to watch the full Season Finale!
#DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #SeasonFinale #SystemicAccountability #MentalHealthMatters #BlackAndLatina #PodcastLife by @deafinitelynottheone

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That’s a wrap on Season 2! 🎬✨

We are closing out this chapter with a heavy-hitting, necessary conversation. This week’s finale gets into some sensitive topics, but it’s real, raw, and needed.

To every single person who has watched, liked, followed, shared, and pulled up for us week after week we see you, and we appreciate you more than words can say. Your energy is everything. 💛

Tune into the Season 2 finale this week!

drop a comment below letting us know your favorite moment from this season.

We’re taking a tiny breather, but trust us
Season 3 is brewing we hope you are ready what’s coming next. Stay tuned! 👀🔥

#PodcastFinale #Season2Finale #RealTalk #PodcastLife #ContentCreators by @deafinitelynottheone

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Sunday Homework for all my overachieving, busy academic girlies! 📝✨
Set a timer today for 15 to 30 minutes and read something purely for your own enjoyment. No textbooks, no career development, no emails. Just you and a good book.
👇 Are you committing to 15-30 minutes today? Type 'LOCKED IN' in the comments!
Listen to the full episode on YouTube & Spotify! Link in bio.
#SundayReset #SelfCareSunday #BookTokChallenge #ReadForYou #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #Podcast by @deafinitelynottheone

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Ever sit back and genuinely ask yourself: "Why can't I get my stuff together?" 🫠
You are not broken, and you are not falling behind. So many of us are silently carrying the weight of unrealistic expectations—trying to excel in our careers, maintain a social life, stay healthy, and keep it all together without breaking.
Instead of sitting in self-pity or feeling like a failure, give yourself permission to rest in God's truth. You don't have to perform for anyone, and your worth isn't tied to your productivity.
👇 Save this video for a moment when you need a mindset reset this weekend.
Watch the full episode on YouTube or listen on Spotify! Link in bio.
#FaithAndMindset #RestInGod #GraceNotPerfection #ChristianMillennial #PodcastClips #SelfCareMentalHealth #UnrealisticExpectations #OvercomingPerfectionism #SelfHelpReads #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #PodcastForWomen by @deafinitelynottheone

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Let’s be honest: sometimes we binge romance books because real life just isn't delivering. 🫠📚
Getting lost in a story where love actually works out is the ultimate safe space when the outside world feels chaotic or lacking.
Part of our BookTok breakdown is officially live on YouTube & Spotify!
👇 What’s one book that completely ruined your expectations for real-life romance? Tag the author or book below!
Stream the full episode today! Link in bio.
#RomanceBooktok #BookBinge #KennedyRyan #Escapism #BookLover #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne #PodcastClips by @deafinitelynottheone

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Trying to work or read at home with ADHD is a trap. 😭☕️ That’s why "body doubling" at coffee shops works so well—being surrounded by other productive people puts your brain in focus mode.In this week’s episode, we’re talking BookTok, reading slumps, and our favorite productivity routines.👇 What’s your go-to spot when you need to actually lock in and get stuff done?Watch the full episode on YouTube now! Link in bio. #ADHDProductivity #BodyDoubling #StarbucksHack #WorkFromHome #BookTokCommunity #DEAFinitelyNotTheOne by @deafinitelynottheone

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