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You know it’s like you buy yourself a Kinderbeuno egg and it comes with a toy. Asaph’s the chocolate and Joseph’s pretty much the toy. 
Both brings us different kinds of joy. We got to expand our energies both ways, and never been more tired. But they amaze us in their own ways, it’s so strange watching how they grow so differently yet together at the same time. Every night I go to bed exhausted and frustrated that I haven’t conquered all my to do list because the boys demands so much of us at this stage but I wake up all ready to do it all over again. What crazy days but in a crazy way, I kinda love it.  #asaphsiaw #josephsiaw #raisingsons by @dear.philly
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4 years ago
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Sorting out my album, I came across this photo taken by our good friend @josho1981 a few weeks before Joseph arrived. Despite knowing he had a high risk of Down syndrome, we chose not to undergo detailed scans because our decision about keeping him wouldn't change. However, it wasn't without anxiety and worries. Years of being a special needs educator couldn’t prepare us for this moment either and we could only pray for our hearts to be prepared for whatever He gives us. 
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This is my favorite photo of us. When Josh asked Jeff to share his feelings about the uncertainties ahead, Jeff didn’t say a word, but I felt everything when he put his hands on me. I knew then that we could face everything as long as we did it together.

Thank you for creating a safe space for us to feel and be ourselves in that vulnerable moment. 

Shot by 
@thebeautifullifephoto 
@thebeautifulmomentphoto by @dear.philly
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3 years ago
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On our 10th year anniversary, about 3 years ago, we decided to do a quiet vow renewal. We wrote each other a vow to exchange while our friends @sonofadroid and @shesatigerlily helped with a shoot. I wasn’t expecting it to be emotional but when you forced yourself to put a promise down on paper after living (surviving) 10 years of marriage and reading it before your life partner it humbles you because you learnt the hard way how heavy the vows weigh. It makes you think deeper and realised so much more because at that moment every word is a promise made for a lifetime together. 
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My friend @candy__t did my make up that morning and after two kids, feeling pretty was the last thing I cared about but she made me felt everything but. 
We asked our friends from @floralmagic_ to help us with a small bouquet and a set up to commemorate that day and it was just perfect. 
With our newly written vow in hand, we walked down raffles hotel and read it to each other at the end of the stone pavement and what I thought was just a simple gesture turned out to be more than I expected. The promises made at the alter and then on stone pavement carried the same weight if not even more, it was ultimately the foundation of our marriage  that we have been building with God. 
On Christmas last month, @verniecia came bearing the most beautiful hand calligraphed scroll with our vows written on it. It took her 3 years and alot of patience to complete this beautiful piece and it will be hanging on our home and in our heart for a very very long time.
The logo, designed by Vanessa, reflected our proposal story, armed with our boys initials at the sides it frames the beginning of this entire chapter in one visual. 
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It’s way pass our 10th year but that little vow renewal wasn’t so little after all because of all the people that came together to make this promise a way more meaningful one.
Photography @androidsinboots 
Make up @candy__t 
Flowers @floralmagic_ 
Vow written @verniecia @theletterv.stationer 
Logo by Vanessa C. 
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❤️ by @dear.philly
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3 years ago
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And either sides can co exist ✨ 
Sit in your discomfort and do it anyways, you guys got this! ♥️ 

#sgentrepreneur #creativedirector #sgstylists by @dear.philly
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a day ago
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Measure up 📏
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#weddingstyling #sgweddings #weddinginspiration by @dear.philly
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11 days ago
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Your lazy 5 days (not very girly kinda) girls trip guide to Seoul part 2 🇰🇷 
Anguk > Gangnam > Seongsu 

#seoul #korea #girlstrip by @dear.philly
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15 days ago
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Your lazy 5 days (not very girly kinda) girls trip guide to Seoul part 1 🇰🇷
Myeongdong > Mangwon Market > Iksangdong > Anguk 
Tips: I booked my hotel via @bookingcom via @heymax.ai for convenient and effective miles accumulation #korea #seoul #girlstrip #catchtable #heymax by @dear.philly
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16 days ago
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Missing this ✨ by @dear.philly
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17 days ago
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I invest in scents because they do so much for a space  and I love how they can set the tone for your day.

They leave a subtle impression and somehow change the way you feel about yourself. At least, that’s what they do for me. Here are 5 scents I’ve been reaching for these past few months. 

ROOM SCENTS:

@official.nonfiction LAPSANG SONG - imagine sitting by the fireplace, enjoying whisky on ice  and soft jazz playing in the background. The smell of dark leather, smoked tea and subtle sweetness from cardamom 

@tamburinsofficial ROOM MEOK - it carries a very interesting scent of ink. Chinese ink, bitter at first but fresh and soft right after. I love the juxtaposition of a hard scent that turns soft when it lands. 

BODY SCENT: 
@pleuvoir.sg - MORNING SOIL. I bought mine from @hinorie.select 
Earthly, woody, not overly musky yet fresh and clean. I love how it blends in with my work outfits and how it makes me feel before I get out of the door. That grounding feeling and the warmth helps make me want to conquer the day. 

@officialbyredo BLANCHE - the label’s a little wonky because I’ve had it for a long time. It starts off sweet and maybe a little overpowering but it settles soft and powdering. Imagine fresh laundry, a friend coming over to hang and a nice warm hug. When I need a pick me up or when it’s mentally heavy week, I go to this to help me feel more refreshed and energised. 

@decortesg AQ EAU DE PARFUM 
Power and musk, with a woody base yet leaves you feeling feminine because of the subtle rose magnolia shines through right after. The scent changes through the day and leaves you feeling fresh and clean even after a long hard day. by @dear.philly
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18 days ago
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Counting my blessings with boring days cause boring is also a luxury. by @dear.philly
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a month ago
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Jeff found @mallang__beauty on socials and suggested I do a profile shoot there for my 40th. I’ve done family shoots, campaign shoots etc but never one of just me so wasn’t sure at first.

But the space was nice and cosy. And it helps that Jeff’s cousins came along and all decided to do this together.

We got our make up and hair done - they asked for make up reference before hand so do abit of research before you go!

Waited for our turn because there’s only one studio and one photographer.

The studio space was big and spacious and most importantly, the photographer was very friendly and cheerful.

My fav shot out of all because I have my face covered

Best part was I was just laughing at a comment he made and he took this photos so naturally.

Fully dressed in @goodaddition for this shoot ♥️ but ruined by my tan lines 🫠 by @dear.philly
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a month ago
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I’m extra about gifting because growing up, my mum always emphasised the importance of giving. She ingrained in me the art of remembering, thoughtful giving, and sharing.

Till this day, I have a habit of buying little gifts for my friends whenever I’m travelling and if I can, I’ll personalise them too.

I found these cute little charms in a random shop and thought it would be fun to match each scent and charm to the friend I was buying for. Just a little way to bring a piece of the vacation home with me.

I had so much fun putting these together and thought I’d share the idea with you guys too! ✨ by @dear.philly
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a month ago
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