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Maturing in singleness, posting random thoughts & conversations with my Future Wife. Wherever she is... Hopefully Praying for me!
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Dear Future Wife,I hope your October is starting off well. It's vacation season for me. I recently got off a cruise and I was just loving seeing all the love. New relationships. Relationships celebrating decades. I'm here for it!Before my cruise I had a great conversation with my therapist.I'm thinking that I should always have a session to clear my mind before a trip.I'm writing you to stress community again. How are we doing with that? Hopefully very well!How many avenues do we have to get wisdom and messages from God?This journey after my last relationship has really been fulfilling. At first I kept asking the Lord why He granted my prayers... Just for it to not be you.Was it too soon? Do I spin the block with my new knowledge?The answers started slow, delivered with peace. But baby, this current phase! He has been going in and letting me know that He was always with me and had to bring me to the breaking point.The Lord has been speaking to me through these people of valor!One of my new brothers in Christ sent me this video from Pastor YPJ the other day.I came into my last relationship with boundaries and threw them all out 😂People shouldn't use other people... But when someone makes it easy I can see it unintentionally happening.I may not have come across this video any other way.Having Kingdom focused people around you / us is really important.I needed this message.I get my prayers (in time, as our Heavenly Father sees fit).And that's why I pray for you, I pray for myself, and I pray for us. There have been some gaps in these prayers but I do want to get more consistent.I'm praying for energy for the both of us throughout this continuous Christian improvement.#christiandating #christiansinglesdating #christiansdating #christianonlinedating #christiandating101 #christiandatingblog #christiandatinggoals #christianliving #christianity #christianlife #worththewait #christiansingles #godlydating #godlymarriage #christianmarriage #godlyrelationships #godlywife #christianwife #godlywomen #godlycourtship #godlylove #godlyrelationship #datingwithpurpose #waitingongod #kingdomdating #godlymen by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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3 years ago

Dear Future Wife,This year started very differently. At the beginning of the year for the last 10+ years, I would start off by fasting from food and social media.I didn't feel like it this year. I think I fasted for like a week from food 😂. This wasn't necessarily a spiritual or religious fast. Just the way I would reset at the beginning of the year.This has been such a long time personal tradition, I restarted seeing my therapist after taking a long break because I wanted to make sure that I wasn't falling into a depression. I actually think my mood has been pretty stable since my last relationship 🥴I do feel like the Lord has been putting on me that I'm getting older and I need to start investing in my body now. I actually saw something on social media that said something like you can take care of your body now before you're forced to do it later. So I feel like all of these things about the body I've been seeing in the new year is definitely a hint. I have purchased all this workout equipment over the years and never used it... This is the year!Can't believe I'm about to turn 39 tomorrow - single. I really thought I was going to be married a couple years ago.It's still a desire that I am making sure I'm prepared for and a desire that I leave at the Lord's feet. Maybe we'll meet this year? As always I'm praying for you, I'm praying for me, and I'm praying for us! #christiandating #theythatwait #marriage by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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4 months ago

Dear Future Wife,Boundaries!"If you don't have boundaries, you are not ready to be a partner"This gave me CHILLS at Church. Previous I wouldn't hear from the Lord so clearly... Jeremiah 33:3 says to ask - so I did. When I asked if He thought I was ready to start dating He basically replied "ARE YOU?" I heard that 🫣Like I'm not even using an ounce of the wisdom He gave me.I'm challenging myself to take some time and check myself by checking my boundaries.Are my boundaries blocking what the Lord has for me?Are they even of God?I started this year so strong! I started doing Bible in a year again and actually making it through... Started eating better and lost like 15 pounds... Asked the Lord to help me stop indulging in lust... Literally, Jan 1 implemented all these changes and was going good until after the summer and BOOM fell off. So I'm just starting to get my head in the game because 2026 will be better than 2025!This evening I'll be praying for me and I'll be praying for you. It's actually been sometime since I've prayed for you... I know it doesn't make any sense to put things off until the new year but somehow it usually works for me... My brain is able to compartmentalize that this a new year and there needs to be changes.Maybe I'll see you next year 🙌🏾#love #christiandating #prayer #godlydating #church #datingadvice #happy #dating #relationshipgoals #courting by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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8 months ago

"The person who courts sin marries trouble" Proverbs 17:19 MSGDear Future Wife,I believe that doubt is natural. You can pay an influencer hundreds of dollars for a seminar on how to not doubt yourself... I promise it's still going to happen. I'm so tired of having to have a conversation about why I'm not interested in anyone that uses zodiac signs or crystals.My mind always starts thinking "I never had to have these conversations with my ex" 😂 but then I have to remind myself that there's a reason why we're not together. There were other areas where we were not on one accord... Where we were not living righteously...While studying Proverbs last month with my abstinence group I came across Proverbs 17:19There's no such thing as a victimless crime. I remember this ex telling me "you got to do what you got to do and then say a prayer after" 🚩🚩🚩 (I spoke about this forgiveness abuse on a previous post)You can't go around stealing and then just praying for forgiveness before bed... You also cannot have a sinful courtship and expect to receive the blessing that comes when two become married.She would share with me how her best friends were in bad relationships. I'd tell her she needs to tell them to stop! We'd laugh... Like our relationship was any more Godly.In this new year, I'm still fine-tuning myself from all the growth I experienced in the last year. I also need to check in with my therapist.I'm praying for you, I'm praying for me, and I'm praying for us.God says He has better and I'm not going to doubt it!#godlymarriage #dearfuturewife #christiandating #proverbs1719 #kingdomdating #godlycourtship by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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A couple summers ago I was visiting New York and finally got to meet my Godson who was born during the pandemic. We had went to a street fair in New York and he started acting up. My friend just wanted to leave, so we did. And the drive back she kept telling him how embarrassing his actions were.I wasn't sure he was even old enough to understand LOL! She was so upset her Jamaican accent was super thick and I was trying not to laugh. Now I think about how embarrassing I had to appear to the Lord during my last relationship. Lukewarm would be an overstatement. I knew what was going on wasn't right and every time I tried to get back on track I would get pushed back for my ex. If I was the man of God I thought I was I would have been contempt with pushing forward alone. Dear future wife... I'm praying for you, I'm praying for me, and I'm praying for us to have a union that is a MINISTRY and not an embarrassment to the Lord... Not an embarrassment to our Faith.Our marriage won't always be rainbows and butterflies but I don't want it to just appear great I want people to see us and know the Lord is working. I want atheists to see our love and realize there must be a God. By the way, I am so blown away that this Page's analytics says that under a thousand comes here monthly. Lol, hello!#christiandating #christiansinglesdating #christiansdating #christianonlinedating #christiandating101 #christiandatingblog #christiandatinggoals #christianliving #christianity #christianlife #worththewait #christiansingles #godlydating #godlymarriage #christianmarriage #godlyrelationships #godlywife #christianwife #godlywomen #godlycourtship #godlylove #godlyrelationship #datingwithpurpose #waitingongod #kingdomdating #godlymen by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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2 years ago

Processing dating and meeting people since my last relationship, I'm realizing "Christianity" means nothing to me.Let me explain...I've met Christians that believe premarital sex is okay. Christian that told me they curse while praying to God. Christians that want but don't give grace.I disagree with those Christians...Unless your doctrine is "God is a woman" ... I try to understand beliefs. Not everyone had the benefit of attending a Christian school or had parents bring them to Church like me - even with all that I've read the Bible and come to my own conclusions.The ultimate goal is, can we take our feelings and confirm they are Biblical?Are we fitting the definition of Christian? Do people look at us and see a Christian relationship? I hope both are true!Loving God is not the same as being a Follower of God. We would keep His commandments if we truly Loved, Followed, and Feared Him.What He needs from us is understanding... (Inappropriate secular reference, 😂)I know I need to be in the Bible more. If I can take time for youtube, I can take time to read it.I'm working on the fruits that produce, I hope you are too.Dear future wife... I'm praying for you, I'm praying for me, and I'm praying for us to continue to fight the flesh and seek the Lord as we navigate our way to each other.-----#christiandating #worththewait #godlyrelationships #godlywife #godlycourtship #godlylove #godlyrelationship #kingdomdating #godlymenImage via @luthando_xoyana by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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2 years ago

All things work together for the greater good. One thing I think that should be stressed before getting baptized is all of the spiritual warfare that is going to come. God's will, will be done! The enemy is going to build mountains... And throughout the ups and downs we can't forget that we serve a God that can move them! 🙌On my way to Church a little early this morning to assist other volunteers for a fundraising event for kids in Africa. I can't wait until we're volunteering together and maybe even leading committees. Dear future wife, I'm praying for you, I'm praying for me, and I'm praying for us 🙏I'm praying that...For every mountain He brings us overFor every trial He brings us throughWe will give Him praise, Amen!I came up with that all by myself! 😬😂😂😂-----#christiandating #christiansinglesdating #christiansdating #christianonlinedating #christiandating101 #christiandatingblog #christiandatinggoals #christianliving #christianity #christianlife #worththewait #christiansingles #godlydating #godlymarriage #christianmarriage #godlyrelationships #godlywife #christianwife #godlywomen #godlycourtship #godlylove #godlyrelationship #datingwithpurpose #waitingongod #kingdomdating by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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2 years ago

Dear future wife, We are almost through 8 months of fighting the flesh. I hope it's going better for you than it is for me 🥺Anyways like I mentioned in this video I've been having just thoughts of a wedding... Even looked at rings today. 💍💒Either wedding that has been on my mind is a great step in the right direction. Dear future wife, I'm praying for you, I'm praying for me, and I'm praying for us... I just know I'll see you soon 🙌#Christiandating #theythatwait #abstinence courtship #Godlydating #Godlymarriage #Kingdommarriage #Kingdomspouse by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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2 years ago

Dear future wife, As I prepare for you I'm in this weird state of embarrassment knowing how disappointed the Lord had to be with me during my last relationship. HAD TO BE!I went into my last relationship, and what I thought was being on fire for the Lord, but now that I look back... It was so lukewarm. Actually it was cold. I understand that all things work together for the greater good and it was in preparation for you...I believe I spoke about it before but I learned so much about heart posture. You cannot just do something ungodly and then pray about it. Your heart has to change.If you think you can just walk into a store and steal and then ask for forgiveness in your car ... That is just the ultimate abuse of Grace. And we do that unknowingly. That's why we pray for forgiveness of our sins of commission and omission. It's second nature to our flesh to falter... Depending on the sin, might be first nature 🤣The Lord has every right to take this Temple back... I really think my depression at the end of my relationship was a warning and also major divine intervention for me to reconsider a future Union. It hurt. It hurt a lot. For years I would tell my friends to just get over their relationship... I learned it's not that easy. I HAD TO FREE UP THAT SPACE IN MY HEART FOR MORE OF THE LORD. It was empty anyways 🤣I'm happy I can use the gift of being in the right mind to help others... I'm always talking about therapy and things to get your mind off any type of previous situation.Dear future wife I'm praying for you, I'm praying for me, and I'm praying for us as we continue to prepare. I would love to see you this year though but God's will be done. #futurewife #christiandating #blackdating #relationshipgoals #growth #christian #datingwhilechristian PS... I'm shocked I haven't posted in so long and the shares and views are still here 😂😂😂 I wonder what people that share my videos talk about... I'm still not turning on comments though 😂😂😂😂 by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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2 years ago

Dear Future Wife,I'm praying for you... I'm praying for me... And I'm praying for us 🙌-----#christiandating #christiansinglesdating #christiansdating #christianonlinedating #christiandating101 #christiandatingblog #christiandatinggoals #christianliving #christianity #christianlife #worththewait #christiansingles #godlydating #godlymarriage #christianmarriage #godlyrelationships #godlywife #christianwife #godlywomen #godlycourtship #godlylove #godlyrelationship #datingwithpurpose #waitingongod #kingdomdating #godlymen by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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2 years ago

I am always excited to make content when I'm avoiding some yard work. 😏April was rough... Because I made it that way. I took the lessons the Lord taught me from my last long-term relationship and threw them right out the window.I don't think that dating is difficult when both people are TRULY INTENTIONAL. I was so confident before my last long-term relationship, it's pretty unbelievable how quickly I started settling... How quickly I forgot God's plans for me... How quickly I forgot how I wanted my next and final Kingdom courtship to be.There's a bigger lesson in the eviction of Adam and Eve!I don't worship money but I truly believe the Lord knows that if He needs to raise a flag He's going to hit my finances.That relationship was expensive... And in April, instead of waiting for confirmation from Him. I thought I would pursue Taiwan's will and fly out for a date.I feel sorry for the other passengers on the plane but I really feel like the Lord canceled that flight for me. To travel all the way to the airport and find out at check-in that the plane was canceled, WHILE HAVING NOTHING BUT PEACE, was only God.I'm eager to find my helpmate. The conversation wasn't here, and I kept making excuses for it. Even after texting her that the flight was canceled I mentioned "it gives us more time to talk."I asked the Lord to confirm the reason for me not making it to her state and He clearly dissolved everything. Dear Future Wife, conversation is really important to me... But you know that! I'm praying for vision. Clarity for you, clarity for me, and clarity for us.All of my previous relationships had great dialogues... But without wisdom, words aren't going to advance anything. 🙏#christiandating #christiansinglesdating #christiansdating #christianonlinedating #christiandating101 #christiandatingblog #christiandatinggoals #christianliving #christianity #christianlife #worththewait #christiansingles #godlydating #godlymarriage #christianmarriage #godlyrelationships #godlywife #christianwife #godlywomen #godlycourtship #godlylove #godlyrelationship #datingwithpurpose #waitingongod #kingdomdating #godlymen by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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2 years ago

"Tell me who I have to be, To get some reciprocity" - Lauryn Hill. Dear Future Wife,You don't have to be anyone but yourself... But for our relationship to mature, we need to have an understanding about meeting each other's needs.If I mentioned something is missing, we need to figure out how to remedy that. I want to make sure that I am creating a space for an unbreakable marriage. How can I make sure you have everything you need to never feel like you need to go to another man for satisfaction? Like in my last post, communication is so important.God has been working in me and blowing my mind. I've heard Him in the last month and I was ignoring Him.I'm going to let go and let God 🙌The hunt continues for you. I'm also using this time wisely to make sure I am prepared. Lord, let her come healed and with the understanding of reciprocity. Lord, make me the same.Forgive me Father, and thank you for showing grace to me and my wallet. I don't want an expensive lesson like my last relationship again 😞 As always, I'm praying for you, I'm praying for me, and I'm praying for us. ---#christiandating #christiansinglesdating #christiansdating #christiandatingblog #christiandatinggoals #christianliving #christianity #christianlife #worththewait #christiansingles #godlydating #godlymarriage #christianmarriage #godlyrelationships #godlywife #christianwife #godlywomen #godlycourtship #godlylove #godlyrelationship #datingwithpurpose #waitingongod #kingdomdating #godlymen by @dearfuturewifepfyn

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2 years ago