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Just a few visions leaked out over time
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#fyp #photography #xybca #adobe #canonphotography by @deepnovel

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+1 🎂 Another chapter written by @deepnovel

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Memories

#westcoast_exposures #eastcoast #fypシ by @deepnovel

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a year ago

𝓮𝓷𝓽𝓻𝔂...

You determine what's a lesson and what's a repeated mistake. Remember that..
#kaizen #encouragement #tatakae #motivational by @deepnovel

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2 years ago

Sometimes it's the right effort, just the wrong crowd 💭
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Listening to Understand in Friendships and Relationships

1. Empathy and Connection: When you listen to understand in friendships and relationships, you’re prioritizing the other person’s experience. This fosters empathy, helping you to see the world from their perspective. It builds deeper connections because the other person feels heard and valued. Vs.
When you listen with personal feelings, your emotional responses might cloud your ability to understand the other person fully. For example, if a friend shares something that makes you feel defensive or upset, you might react based on those emotions rather than fully hearing their message.

2. Open-Mindedness: This type of listening requires being open-minded and putting aside your own thoughts or feelings temporarily. You're more focused on understanding the other person’s emotions, thoughts, and intentions without immediately reacting or responding from your own perspective. Otherwise you're practicing "Misinterpretations". This type of listening can lead to misunderstandings because you’re interpreting what the other person says through your own emotional lens. For instance, if a partner is expressing concern, but you’re feeling insecure, you might interpret their concern as criticism, which may not be their intention.

3. Listening to understand improves communication because it encourages more honest and open dialogue. When friends or partners feel they are being truly listened to, they are more likely to share openly, leading to healthier, more fulfilling relationships.

4. Conflict Resolution rather than Conflict Escalation will occur if listen to understand which will help de-escalate situations. By showing you are willing to understand their point of view, it can create a more collaborative environment for finding solutions. On the contrary, listening with personal feelings often leads to escalating the situation. If you are focused on defending your own emotions rather than understanding each other, the conflict will intensify.
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#motivation #foodforthought #viral #thoughts #philosophy #mentalhealth #fypシ #fyp #viral #motivationalquotes by @deepnovel

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2 years ago

Refresh session ✍🏾
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#selfie #pixelphotography #pixel6pro #weddingphotography by @deepnovel

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