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I help midlife girlies reconstruct their identity & reinvent their lives from the inside-out! 🔥
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SIZZLE SERIES: EVENT ANNOUNCEMENT:

🔥 It’s finally here.

For the past several months, I’ve been working on something that’s been incredibly personal to me—something that’s been on my heart for a very long time.

Today, I’m so excited to officially introduce Own Your Bold Fire™ | A Midlife Reinvention Experience.

This isn’t just another event.

It’s an invitation.

A BOLD invite to rediscover your identity...
Reconnect within yourself
Reimagine what’s possible...
And step boldly into your next chapter with greater confidence, clarity, purpose, and personal style.

If you’ve been asking yourself...

✨ Who am I now?
✨ What’s next for me?
✨ Is there more to this season of my life?

...I created this experience with you in mind.

Over the next several weeks, I’ll be taking you behind the scenes, introducing you to what’s in store, and sharing why I believe this experience will be unlike anything I’ve ever created.

I can’t wait to share it with you.

🗓️ September 12

🎟️ Reserve your seat today!🔥 #sizzleboldly  #midlifewomen  #reinventyourself  #fyp by @demiaustinthomas
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Hey S-I-Z-Z🔥

For my new friends—Welcome.

 I’m Demi Austin-Thomas.

I’m a wife of 26 years, a mama to three adult kids, and a corporate girly who travels a lot… which means if I’m in your city, I’m probably in somebody’s store 😂 

Outside of work, I’m a former NBC Lifestyle Correspondent, Speaker, Author, and Midlife Redefinition Coach. I curate transformational wellness and lifestyle experiences for women—because midlife isn’t about slowing down, it’s about reinventing yourself & redefining your now chapter- unapologetically!

Here on my page- im pretty much an open book and you’ll find:

• Honest & Relatable conversations about midlife evolution, self identity, marriage, Faith and overcoming Fear - and a little girly fun along the way!

If you’re over 45 and feel like something in your life is shifting or missing, you’re in the right place.

Pull up, get comfortable, and introduce yourself in the comments.

I’m really glad you’re here. Welcome to a safe space🥰♥️🔥 

Earrings: @tjmaxx/ Connecticut/  Las Vegas/ DallasI have them in black, red, baby blue and light lavender- — they were $12.99 and you might be able to still find them. They are SO much fun!!!🔥

Makeup Details:
Lip Liner/ NYX - plum
Lipstick @mac Ruby Woo
Highlighter Glow & Bronze Powder by KISS/ Medium- I like to look like a disco ball🪩- so you might have to go lighter💃🏾

Eyeliner— Turquoise Girllll from @walgreens Cuz Baybeee it’s 🔥 that’s where I get all of my eyeliners!😂 I ain't shame!!!! 

#explore #fyp #coachlife #corporatejetsetter #midlife

Work fit:  @ullapopkenusa ( search) Long sleeve zebra pattern stand up collar sweater comes in Snow White and hibiscus pink and it’s currently 30%percent off by @demiaustinthomas
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Listennn… you can’t keep saying “I’m not happy” and then tucking yourself back into the same life just because it feels safe.

You’re not stuck, Sizz — you’re comfortable. Comfortable staying in what’s familiar and acceptable to everybody else, even though it doesn’t even fit who you are in this chapter anymore.

One of the hardest lessons I had to learn was this: I get to redefine what happy and fulfilled looks like for me now. Not for the old me. Not for my family. Not for friends. For me.

We were raised to play it safe, shrink a little, and be palatable so nobody else gets uncomfortable. That right there is the lie I decided to burn down when I wrote Sizzle Boldly.

This book is for the one midlife woman who is finally ready to stand on the edge of her own life and say, “Yeah… I want different now,” and actually mean it.

🔥 Sizzle Boldly: 7 Rule-Breaking Steps to Own Your Fire and Redefine Midlife

👉🏾 Grab your copy on Amazon – link in my bio/shop.

 📸📹 @otisclayborne

#fyp #sizzleboldly #midlifewomen #midlifecoach #explore #igreels #reels #selfwork #newjourney by @demiaustinthomas
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SIZZLE SOCIAL NIGHT OUT:

Hey Sizz! I thought of you❤️🥰

Your transformation deserves a touch of luxury.

We're honored to welcome Niven Morgan as our Premier VIP Partner & Sponsor for Sizzle Social Night Out.

Known for their luxurious fragrances, home fragrance collections, and premium bath, body, and facial care, Niven Morgan is helping us create a VIP experience that's both beautiful and unforgettable.

As a VIP guest, you'll receive exclusive Niven Morgan products in your VIP gift because you deserve to leave feeling celebrated long after the evening ends.

💙 VIP seating is extremely limited, and once these exclusive gifts are gone, they're gone.

Elevate your evening and reserve your VIP experience today at SizzleSocialNightOut.com.

#SizzleSocialNightOut #VIPExperience #NivenMorgan #LuxuryFragrance  #GirlsNightOut DFWEvents by @demiaustinthomas
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You never really know what one invitation can lead to.💃🏾

One conversation that stays with you. One woman who becomes a lifelong friend. One introduction that opens a new door. One photo you'll look back on months from now and smile. One night that reminds you you're allowed to enjoy and experience your life.

That's the heart behind Sizzle Social Night Out.❤️

We'll have music, mocktails, shopping, giveaways, our Signature Fragrance Experience, and all the fun you'd expect from an unforgettable girls' night. But what I'm looking forward to most is watching a room full of women walk in as strangers and leave feeling connected. Those are the moments that last long after the music ends.

So let me ask you... will we see you in the room?👀🦚

✨ Saturday, August 15, 2026
🕖 7:00–10:30 PM (VIP Entry: 6:30 PM)
📍 Sheraton DFW Airport Hotel
4440 W. John Carpenter Fwy.
Irving, TX 75063

Bring your bestie or come solo—either way, we'd love to see you.

🎟️ Get your tickets today at SizzleSocialNightOut.com.

✨ Interested in showcasing your business? We still have a limited number of vendor spaces available. Visit SizzleSocialNightOut.com for more information.

I can't wait to see you there! 💖

#fyp #explore # girlsnightfun #dallas
#ladiesnight #girlsnight by @demiaustinthomas
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She's Back... by Popular Demand! ✨

Last year, you loved her so much... we had to bring her back.

There are people who can command a stage, and then there are people who completely change the atmosphere. Erica Marie is both.

She's bold. She's authentic. She's funny. And she's never afraid to share the real parts of her journey—the highs, the lows, and the lessons that have shaped who she is today.

What I love most about Erica is that every woman who meets her walks away feeling seen, encouraged, and a little more confident than when she arrived. She has a gift for making you laugh, lifting your spirit, and reminding you not to take life quite so seriously.

And honestly... that's exactly the kind of energy we need more of.

So this year, we didn't think twice.

We invited her back to help us create another unforgettable night filled with laughter, connection, inspiration, and moments you'll be talking about long after it's over.

If you've been needing a girls' night... If you've been craving genuine connection... If you've been carrying the weight of work, family, and life...

Sizz, this is your sign.

Come laugh. Come connect. Come celebrate. Come leave feeling lighter than when you walked in.

✨ Join us for Sizzle Social Night Out: Peacock Soirée on Saturday, August 15 at the Sheraton DFW Airport Hotel.

Seats are limited, and we'd love to celebrate with you.

🎟️ Grab your ticket today at SizzleSocialNight.com

#SizzleSocialNightOut #PeacockSoiree #GirlsNightOut #DFWWomen #WomenSupportingWomen MidlifeWomen CommunityOverCompetition TheAtmosphereShifter by @demiaustinthomas
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Happy Friday, Sizz! ✨

As you’re getting ready for the weekend, here’s what I’ve come to understand…

Choosing yourself is hard because many of us were conditioned to believe that being a “good woman” meant putting ourselves last. We became the strong one, the fixer, the people pleaser, the woman everyone could count on. Those identities weren’t fake—they were protective. They helped us survive. But they were never meant to become our identity.

Maybe this weekend looks different.

Maybe you say yes to what brings you joy. Maybe you wear the outfit that’s been hanging in your closet. Maybe you try something new, rest without guilt, or simply make space for yourself.

I don’t think most women have a confidence problem. I think they have an identity problem. And sometimes choosing yourself isn’t selfish—it’s the first step toward living from the identity God gave you instead of the one you built just to survive.

Have a beautiful weekend, Sizz. You deserve to show up and Show Out as the woman God created you to be. 💛🔥

Earrings @andmade_byhand 

#IdentityReconstruction #MidlifeWomen #ChooseYourself #OwnYourBoldFire by @demiaustinthomas
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30 days until we SIZZLE! 🦚✨💖

The countdown is officially ON, and I could not be more excited!

Sizzle Social Night Out is so much more than a girls' night out...

✨ It's about stepping away from your everyday routine. ✨ It's about laughing until your cheeks hurt. ✨ It's about making new friendships and meaningful connections. ✨ It's about creating your own signature fragrance, shopping our curated boutique vendors, enjoying delicious bites and mocktails, dancing, taking beautiful photos, and making memories you'll be talking about long after the night is over.

Whether you're coming solo or bringing your bestie, you'll be welcomed with open arms.

This isn't just another event... It's an experience designed for women who are ready to have fun, feel beautiful, and celebrate themselves.

🦚 Sizzle Social Night Out | Peacock Soirée 📅 Saturday, August 15, 2026 📍 Sheraton DFW Airport Hotel 4440 W. John Carpenter Freeway • Irving, TX

Event Starts at 7pm!🔥💃🏾

 VIP Doors Open: 6:30 PM 

Seats are intentionally limited, and once they're gone, they're gone.

🎟️ Reserve your seat today at SizzleSocialNight.com

Come ready to sparkle. Leave with unforgettable memories... and your own signature scent. 💕 #dfwgirlsnight by @demiaustinthomas
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We're looking for a few more curated vendors for Sizzle Social Night Out! ✨

Are you looking for a fun, engaging way to introduce your business to an amazing community of women?

Sizzle Social Night Out is more than a vendor event—it's an experience. Our guests come ready to shop, connect, discover new businesses, and support local brands.

We're looking for a few more businesses that align with our intimate audience of women, including:

🛍️ Women's Boutique & Fashion
💎 Jewelry & Accessories
💄 Beauty & Skincare
🌿 Health & Wellness
🕯️ Candles & Home Fragrance
🏡 Home Décor & Lifestyle
✨ Women's Services & Unique Brands

As a featured vendor, you'll receive:
✔️ A curated vendor space at the event
✔️ Direct access to women from across the DFW area
✔️ Opportunities to build relationships and grow your customer base
✔️ Social media recognition leading up to the event
✔️ A chance to be part of one of the most anticipated girls' nights of the summer

📅 Saturday, August 15, 2026
🕖 7:00 PM – 10:30 PM
📍 Sheraton DFW Airport Hotel

🎉 Vendor spaces are limited, and our special vendor pricing of $185 won't last much longer.

If you believe your business would be a great fit, we'd love to connect with you.

Register Today
 SizzleSocialNight.com/vendors

Let's create an unforgettable evening together while introducing your business to women who love to shop, connect, and support local businesses. by @demiaustinthomas
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Somewhere along the way, so many of us became so busy managing life that we forgot what it feels like to simply enjoy it.

To laugh without checking the time. To meet someone new. To dance because the music moved you. To try something different. To leave with a memory instead of another obligation.

That’s the heart behind Sizzle Social Night Out. 💙

This isn’t just another night out. It’s an opportunity to step away from the demands of everyday life for a few hours, reconnect, laugh, create, dance, and simply enjoy being in the company of incredible women. Whether you come with your girlfriends or walk in by yourself, my hope is that you leave with beautiful memories and meaningful new connections.

✨ Here’s what we’ve planned for you:
🥂 Mocktails & Light Bites
🌸 Signature Fragrance Experience
💃🏽 Line Dancing & Music
📸 Beautiful Photo Moments
💙 Meaningful Connections

📍 Sheraton DFW Airport Hotel
4440 W. John Carpenter Freeway
Irving, TX 75063

🕡 VIP Doors Open: 6:30 PM
🕖 Event Begins: 7:00 PM

🎟️ Seats are limited, and I’d absolutely love to see you there. Grab your ticket today, invite a friend—or come solo and leave with new ones. I truly believe this is going to be an unforgettable night. 💙✨ 

Limited Space. Grab Tickets 👉🏾SizzleSocialNight.com by @demiaustinthomas
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One of the hardest things for high-capacity women isn’t doing everything… it’s admitting they’re tired of doing everything.

Because they’re used to being the reliable one. The strong one. The one who doesn’t complain.

But strength without space to rest eventually turns into burnout.

And burnout doesn’t always look like collapse, it looks like numbness. 

Disconnection. Going through the motions.

You deserve more than just surviving your own life.

You deserve laughter that feels real. Conversations that feel easy. A night where you don’t have to perform anything.

That’s what Sizzle Social Night Out is for. 🔥

✨ If your spirit has been asking for something different… listen to it.

👉 https://sizzlesocialnight.com/

#BurnoutAwareness #WomenSupportingWomen #EmotionalHealing #SisterhoodEnergy #SizzleSocialNightOut #MidlifeWomen 💫 by @demiaustinthomas
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Get Ready with me and don’t miss this message ….

I think one of the hardest transitions as a parent is releasing your adult children.

You still love them. You still want to protect them. You still wish you could shield them from every bad decision and every painful consequence. But there comes a point when you have to recognize that their journey belongs to them, and their relationship with God has to become their own.

As parents, we can love them, pray for them, and encourage them, but we can’t be their God. Some lessons they have to learn for themselves, and some places only God can reach.

Trust God. Stop stressing. Let Him be their God.

That’s not giving up on your children. That’s trusting the One who loves them even more than you do.🙏🏾❤️🙌🏾 by @demiaustinthomas
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