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Happy 1 year, Dakota!💚 Has it only been a year? Things really can move fast and feel like forever at the same time. This past year has shown me how resilient I am. When I started transitioning I was incredibly naive to the ways my life would change. All I knew was I liked looking feminine and never really felt present as a man. This is what led me to being curious about starting HRT. About 6 months on HRT, i decided to live as Dakota. I was so driven and so in love with who I was becoming. 9 months into HRT, my parents found out I was no longer living as a man. This simultaneously happened when I found out I was getting a divorce. Which simultaneously happened while I was recovering from MPOX. A week or so later a certain TV show I was on would come out. My life was flipped upside down. Some days were unbearable. I gave myself grace. 15 minute cry times were allowed twice a day for awhile. Slowly I healed. Everyday i got to connect with myself. Discover more. Reconnect with the joy and beauty in the world and my life. My friends are an incredible support system. I would be lost without them. Thank you for loving me and seeing me for who I am.I am so proud of myself. One year putting myself first. One year choosing me. One year chasing peace and happiness. I’m sharing some moments that I feel we’re important to me being Dakota. There’s so many more than this. Without drag, I do not know if I would have realized I’m trans. So i guess we can ultimately thank @mrmsadrian who helped me see the art of drag and fall in love with it💚If you think you’re trans, take the risk. Choose yourself. Doors will close, but many will open. This was the most difficult decision I’ve ever had to make, but it is the most rewarding. I love you all 💚 Happy Pride 😇 by @dollya.black

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Life has felt like a fashion show lately 😌 New fits, new shoes, and attempting to draw again🙂‍↕️Hope everyone is well!💚 by @dollya.black

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This week’s Life update 🥳Been helping take care of a kitty recovering ❤️‍🩹 I chose Adara as a middle name👸🏼 thank you @venusenvydrag for helping me decide and giving input 💚 i love you smI’ve really reconnected with my whimsy for going on trails. It’s how i like to spend my weekends now🧝🏻‍♀️ this most recent one was not shaded and i kept taking the wrong way. I thought i was dying by the end but I still had a great timeGonna start sewing for some upcoming events🤭🥹 I hope life is being kind to you all😇 by @dollya.black

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Finding trails and perpetually doing my hair 💚 by @dollya.black

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I really REALLY love being a girl 🥹👉🏻👈🏻Baby’s first time in a swimsuit (she bought months ago)Been doing new stuff with my hair👸🏼Can’t believe it’s turning silver and white 🧝🏻‍♀️Hope everyone is doing well💚 by @dollya.black

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Just being a goth fairy princess angel baby 😇 by @dollya.black

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I will always be me 💚Existing as a woman has been a beautiful journey. There has been much pain but there has been a tremendous amount of good. I am resilient, resolute, and whole .So with that i think im gonna get my belly button pierced. by @dollya.black

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Been figuring out my style and throwing peace signs whenever i get the chance ✌🏻 I love our adventures @impgirl666 💚 by @dollya.black

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3 months ago

Reading books, making lists, and sorta eating better😌Protect your peace 💚 by @dollya.black

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3 months ago

DollF*G 4 Life💚😌I will continue to exist, maintain my peace, and live relentlessly proud of who I am and who I will become👸🏼Excuse me, did my sneeze get 🚂🚂🚂🚂 on you? You’re welcome😘 by @dollya.black

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Just floating thru life 💚 finding myself more everyday by @dollya.black

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