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Pattie Ehsaei

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Author: Never Date A Broke Dude 📕
Founder/ CEO: Get Your 50 💪🏼
Protect yourself financially before you have to! 💰 Go get your 50! 🏃🏻‍♀️

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Thirty years ago today, I lost both of my parents. My mother had no money of her own and no way out of an abusive marriage. When I was 10, she told me: whoever controls your money controls you. Everything I do is so no woman ends up where she did.

Mom, this one's for you. ♥️

If you're in an abusive relationship: National Domestic Violence Hotline, 1-800-799-7233, or text START to 88788. In crisis: call or text 988.

#financialabuse #domesticviolenceawareness #financialindependence #immigrantstory #getyour50 by @duchessofdecorum

Pattie Ehsaei, financial expert and author of "Never Date a Broke Dude," shares her four finance red flags to look out for while in relationships. 🚩 @duchessofdecorum by @duchessofdecorum

I’m so grateful for every single follow, like, and share. This has been a labor of love and I’m so happy to finally bring NEVER DATE A BROKE DUDE to you! Pre-order now at the link in my bio. #booktok #reaction #pov #author #creatorsearchinsights by @duchessofdecorum

You may THINK you walked away with nothing, but the law says otherwise. Stay diligent and get what's yours!

#getyour50 #Finance #Divorce #FemaleEmpowerment #SocialSecurity by @duchessofdecorum

NEVER put your signature on something until you've inspected the hell out of it!

#Finance #FinancialIndependence #RealHousewives #Marriage #GetYour50 by @duchessofdecorum

GRWM to be hot and successful and make dusty broke dudes seethe 😂😘

#GRWM #FemaleEmpowerment #womeninbusiness #PattieEhsaei #GetYour50 by @duchessofdecorum

New love can be nice, but you need to be diligent. Make sure you check that beneficiary page!

#Marriage #Finance #FemaleEmpowerment #Divorce #GetYour50 by @duchessofdecorum

What happy, healthy women know that you should know ✨

It’s not about doing more. It’s about building a life that supports you: your mind, your body, your relationships, and your money. 💰

Watch the full conversation in The Financial Wellness Masterclass, AVAILABLE NOW. Link in bio 🎬

#Everwell #WomenWellness #HolisticWellness #FinancialWellness #WomenAndWealth #MindsetShift #WomenSupportingWomen #WellnessJourney by @duchessofdecorum

If you've sacrificed your career and earning power for your family, you can still have your own 401K and here's how. Make sure you're protected in EVERY stage of life!

#Finance #Retirement #401k #SAHM #GetYour50 by @duchessofdecorum

Rebuilding your life after an abusive relationship can feel impossible, especially when you’re starting with almost nothing. But you don’t have to figure everything out at once. Start with one thing. One idea, one small income stream, one step toward financial independence.

You may have been made to believe you aren’t smart enough or capable enough to survive without him. That isn’t the truth. You are more capable than you realize, and you can rebuild your life one step at a time.

Listen to the Real Talk: Relationships Uncensored episode, “The Dangerous Side of the ‘Provider’ Man” with Pattie Ehsaei, for the full video.

#FinancialIndependence #AbuseRecovery #WomenSupportingWomen by @duchessofdecorum

At the end of the day, YOU are responsible for making sure you're protected! A policy he can take you off of at any time? No way.

#finance #marriage #insurance #LifeInsurance #GetYour50 by @duchessofdecorum

He can’t cut you out of his 401(k) without your signature. So why are you signing forms you haven’t read?

Under federal law, a spouse is usually the default beneficiary of most 401(k)s and pensions. For him to name someone else, the plan generally needs your written, notarized (or plan-witnessed) consent. A prenup usually doesn’t cover it. IRAs don’t follow this rule at all.

“Just sign this, babe” is not a reason. Read it. Ask for the beneficiary page. Keep a copy. There is zero shame in protecting yourself.

Comment FREEDOM and I’ll send you access to my free live Masterclass on October 29th.

Send this to her: the friend who signs whatever gets put in front of her.

(Rules vary by plan type and state. This is education, not legal advice.)

#GetYour50 #Finance #FemaleEmpowerm by @duchessofdecorum