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Erin Bachman

@ebach85

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At some point you have to stop asking, “Why is my life like this?” and start asking, “What am I still allowing?”

Same mindset. Same people. Same excuses. Same results.

Changing your life will cost you something, but staying stuck will cost you too. And staying the same will usually cost you WAY more.

Cut the access. Change the mindset. Stop waiting for permission. Be your own advocate and CHOOSE YOUR HARD, friend.

I will forever be grateful for mine and Justin’s coach @jeffery_combs. What he’s taught us is too much to list. We DECIDED what we wanted to achieve that we knew we couldn’t do on our own. We advocated for ourselves, saw our shortcomings and what we needed help with, and decided to invest in a future we wanted. That was Jeffery! One of the greatest decisions of our life.

And let me be clear because I always hear this and it needs to be addressed….well I have to wait until I make such and such money in my business before I get a coach who helps with financial mindset and so much more, to help me make more money?! That makes zero sense and in fact that’s not how it works honey. Especially when you will NEVER OUTEARN YOUR MINDSET. That’s like saying I want the business being successful before you’ve invested in the beginning to launch it. For us we wanted to be better all around and invested into his services for the result we wanted. THE TRUTH…we’ve gotten far more than what we even invested. That’s the thing with investments…you really have no idea what will come from the investment but that’s the risk right?! For us we were broken and extremely teachable and ready for him to mold us. So we’ve always found a way to invest in us FIRST! So that everything we want in life can be achieved. So yes I’m saying…you want better mindset, make more money, fix your life, heal your marriage, break ties with sick people & your trauma bonds, & be a better person all around….call Jeff.
Jeff wasn’t the point of this post but I needed to give credit where credit was due.

We’ve had tons of help along the way to be where we are so my point is there’s nothing wrong with asking for help.

We all need help and can all be better…your ego will tell you otherwise. by @ebach85

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a month ago

For everyone still waiting for the government to save us, or give us permission to be free......they aren’t coming to save us, they are legitimately after us. WE ARE FREE ALREADY and THEY DON’T GIVE A 💩 about us!!! They do not decide what freedoms we get, not even in a plandemic! They work for us plain and simple. They have been given way too much power and are ONLY interested in benefiting themselves. PERIOD!! The but but but excuses are only because its easier for people to make excuses of why they allow their freedoms to be controlled by someone that is supposed to protect our freedoms. I get it you trusted them, but they are showing you they can’t be trusted. Yes the science also supports that statement. If you are listening to any of the BS rules they’ve made up for what you put in your body, over your face, swab up your nose, or tell you who you can and can’t hang out with you have officially given them power that is not theirs to have. They are all in cahoots together laughing at the damage they are creating. It’s kind of like an abusive relationship. While they abuse the victim the victim continues to defend them, meanwhile those trying to Warn you that you’re being abused become the bad guy. I’m not sure about anyone else but they don’t get to decide what I do or don’t do. My best suggestion is to get into action if you want to see changes happen and stop expecting them to do it for you! Now that you know that you’ve been lied to, if you have been so lucky to come to this realization, it’s time to take a stand and stop consenting to this insanity. The time is now! Get into action!!! by @ebach85

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5 years ago

Happy Thursday!

Just a reminder….WE ALL STILL HAVE CHOICES TO MAKE. Don’t think for a second that because things “appear” better that they are, because they’re not. This is how they get us, because they know we’re easily distracted and want things to “just get back to normal.” My “new normal” is consistently taking a stand for what I believe in and not getting swept up into the “oh well it’s going to get better.” I will not Submit to the “new normal” they’re trying to create. They knew we’ve become jaded and their monopolizing on peoples lack of coping skills and trauma. PERIOD!

We create the reality we live in. Let’s not get swept up into a reality or lie they’ve created. It’s never too late to say no more, I won’t be participating in this madness. Just because they make it seem like “everyone” is doing it doesn’t make it real. Your life is your life! You get to choose what you allow in it! If you chose to comply the first go round, you don’t have to this time unless you CHOOSE it. THERE ARE OTHER WAYS!!

My life got better when I broke out of the system. There is much more FREEDOM mentally, physically & financially on the side of standing for your morals and values. They just don’t want you to know that. That’s why they work so hard to keep most people(90%) asleep. Now is the time to make the shift. Don’t wait until the last minute and get swept up. Get your mind, heart, family, and finances right! When someone tells you someone is lying to you, you may want to look into it. If you stay, or brush it under the rug due to your own denial or preconceived judgements, just know you’re saying it’s ok for someone to lie to you and take advantage of you.

Rise up to the challenge of putting you first! You’re stronger then they want you to Think you are! You DO NOT NEED THEM! They need your compliance! They work for us, not the other way around! Start acting like the boss that you are rather then letting them run your life for you!

Also got this super sweet hat over at @shoptherealraisingcubs . Got a towel too that says the same thing🙌🏻

#freedom #standfirm #morals #values #choices #wethepeople #breakingthematrix #entreprenuership #americanfirst #family by @ebach85

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4 years ago

SATURDAY LATE NIGHT THOUGHTS from your favorite former hood rat turned chicken head homesteader-ish. 🐓😂

Isn’t it WILD that I spent YEARS building businesses, making money, and chasing success…only to realize I wasn’t making time for the things I wanted MOST?!

OOOF. 🫠

Somewhere along the way, BUSY became a personality trait.

“How are you?”
“BUSY!”

BUT GURRRLLFFRIIEENNNDDD…

Since when did having no time to enjoy your life become SUCCESS?!

And I’m preaching to MYSELF. BIGTIME.

Bailey recently told me she had my schedule memorized back when she needed my attention and I was always “too busy.”

OUCH. 💔

I’ve built businesses, made incredible money, and worked ridiculous hours. Turns out you can be incredibly PRODUCTIVE while missing the people you’re working so hard FOR.

The goal was never just money. IT WAS FREEDOM.

Freedom to be present with my kids. To homeschool. To spend time with my husband. To go wherever, whenever. To build businesses I believe in. To sit with my chickens without feeling guilty about the 47 other things I could be doing. 😂🐓

If maintaining your lifestyle requires sacrificing everything meaningful, maybe it’s time to reevaluate what you’re building.

Don’t get it twisted. I STILL have BIG goals and believe in building wealth!

But at 40, I’m asking a different question:

“Am I being INTENTIONAL with the life God has given me TODAY?”

Our kids won’t stay little. And someday isn’t guaranteed.

You can be ambitious AND present.
You can work hard AND rest.
You can build wealth without making productivity your identity.

ANYWAY…I’m currently being the passenger princess I was born to be, reminding Justin how to drive properly. 😂

We’re headed to celebrate 18 YEARS of marriage on the 18th at our mini castle! 🏰❤️

Although 18 years feels more like 126 DOG YEARS. 💀🤣 We’ll unpack THAT another day!

For now, I’m enjoying my evening with my best friend. Hope you are too! ❤️

Anybody else learning that being BUSY and being FULFILLED are two VERY different things? by @ebach85

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SOME OF Y’ALL HAVE COMMITMENT ISSUES AND IT SHOWS! 💀😂

“I just don’t want to commit to shopping at one store.”

GIRLFRIEND. AREN’T YOU MARRIED?!

We’re talking about TOOTHPASTE, not wedding vows! 🤣

Meanwhile, you’ve been in a long term relationship with Walmart, Target, and Amazon for YEARS.

And they don’t even know your birthday. 🫠

Here’s the thing…

You’re already buying household essentials every month.

I’m just showing you another place to shop, with member pricing, rewards, and perks worth comparing.

Yes, there’s a monthly shopping commitment, which I love because I get A LOT IN RETURN for that commitment. And NO, you don’t have to buy things you don’t need just to make it work.

The point is to SHOP DIFFERENTLY, not SHOP MORE.

So before you decide it’s not for you, at least find out how it works!

Comment SHOP if you want me to show you! 🛒🔥

#shopsmallbusinesssaturday #shopsmarter #wellnessshopping by @ebach85

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5 hours ago

Some of y’all are calling it “being REALISTIC” when it’s actually FEAR.

FLASHBACK to the season I decided I’d rather risk what I’d built than keep showing up as a watered down worldly version of myself.

I had a LOT to lose. LIKE A LOT!

And I was scared SHITLESS.

But I did it anyway.

“Courage isn’t having nothing to lose!
It’s deciding what you’re unwilling to lose YOURSELF for!”

And here’s the kicker…

You can desperately WANT a different life while refusing to let go of the habits, beliefs, and versions of yourself keeping you stuck.

OOOF.

Sometimes the breakthrough isn’t when your circumstances change.
It’s when YOU CHANGE!
Because let’s be real, circumstances change because you make them change and take responsibility and power over YOUR PART IN YOUR LIFE!

DO IT SCARED 💩less🔥

What’s one decision you’ve made that required you to choose courage over comfort?

#sayingitoutloud #doitscared #faithoverfear #personalgrowth by @ebach85

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2 days ago

One of the hardest things you’ll ever do is refuse to become the very thing that hurt you.

Because when you’ve been lied to, betrayed, abandoned, or broken by people you trusted, becoming cold feels a whole lot safer than staying soft.

BUT HERE’S THE THING…

Your pain may explain your behavior, but it doesn’t excuse passing that pain on to somebody else.

At some point, you have to decide that what happened TO you doesn’t get to determine who you BECOME.

And no, healing doesn’t mean you stop having boundaries. It means you learn to protect your peace without punishing innocent people for somebody else’s choices.

You can have a soft heart AND a strong backbone. BOTH CAN EXIST. 👏🏼

The world has enough people bleeding on others because they refuse to address their own wounds.

BE THE ONE WHO BREAKS THE CYCLE.

Stay soft, friends. The world needs your light. ✨🤍 by @ebach85

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3 days ago

Everybody wants “COUPLE GOALS” until they understand what it actually COSTS to build a marriage that lasts.

I’m not talking about the cute pictures, date nights, vacations, or anniversary posts.

I’m talking about the seasons nobody sees.

The addiction. The betrayal. The heartbreak. The loss. The painful conversations. The moments when you look at the person you’ve spent your life with and barely recognize them anymore.

The moments when you question everything you thought you knew.

Because here’s something I’ve learned after almost two decades of marriage…

LOVE ALONE IS NOT ENOUGH.

You can love someone with every fiber of your being and still have a marriage that’s unhealthy.

It takes two people willing to confront their own brokenness. To stop protecting their egos and start protecting each other’s hearts.

To take accountability without excuses. To recognize the childhood wounds, unhealthy patterns, and coping mechanisms they’ve carried into their marriage.

And to understand that forgiveness and rebuilding trust are two very different things.

But something beautiful can happen when BOTH people are willing to do the work.

You begin to see each other differently.

Not through the lens of resentment, betrayal, shame, or everything that’s gone wrong.

You begin to TRULY SEE the person underneath all that pain.

And you realize that loving someone isn’t just about wanting them in your life.

It’s about becoming someone who is SAFE for them to love.

Someone who protects their heart, even when nobody’s watching.

Someone who chooses honesty when lying would be easier. Humility when ego wants control. And accountability when excuses would feel better.

Because the goal was never simply to STAY married.

The goal is to build a marriage where neither person has to sacrifice their emotional safety just to keep the relationship together.

And maybe that’s what REAL couple goals look like.

Not two perfect people who never hurt each other.

But two imperfect people who are willing to surrender what was broken and allow God to build something healthier than what they had before.

Not just a marriage that survives. A marriage that� by @ebach85

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4 days ago

Gotta love FB MEMORIES…6 years ago today

I’ve been a multimillionaire.

I’ve driven & owned the cars.
Worn the clothes.
Owned the businesses.
Lived the lifestyle.

And let me tell you something…

Having everything money can buy doesn’t mean you have everything that matters and what matters normally isn’t something money can buy. Just saying.

This picture is from my Nashville days, when by the world’s standards, we were incredibly successful. What’s funny is now when I break out a $500 pair of shoes, or ridiculously overpriced clothing or purses I always preface it with “these are from my Nashville days.”

And don’t get it twisted. I’m PROUD of what we built. We worked our ASSES off for it. Nearly worked our lives away in the process.

But here’s what life has taught me…

Your NET WORTH and your SELF WORTH are two completely different things.

Money can come and go.
Businesses can grow and close.
And life can change in ways you NEVER saw coming.

But the skills? The resilience? The lessons? The person you became along the way?

THAT doesn’t just disappear.

At 40, success looks a whole lot different to me.

Peace. Freedom. Family. Integrity. Being PRESENT for the life I’m building.

And don’t mistake that for a lack of ambition.

I’m not done building. NOT EVEN CLOSE. Some of yall would fall over if you knew the dreams I have that swirl around In my head on the daily😂🔥

I’m just building from a different place these days.

Because you can let go of the lifestyle without losing the person who built it.

And you can redefine success without giving up your dreams.

I no longer confuse the PRICE TAG of my lifestyle with the VALUE of my life.

THAT is a whole different kind of wealth. by @ebach85

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Nobody talks about the season where you busted your a$$ building something, only for God to let it fall apart.

The betrayal. The heartbreak. The lessons. Even the parts of yourself you had to confront, heal, and finally let go of.

But what if none of it was wasted?

What if God wasn’t preparing you for what you were building THEN, but for what He’s calling you to build NEXT?

You didn’t work that hard for nothing.

The season wasn’t wasted. It was preparation. ❤️🔥The infection had to be removed to make room for healthy!
Don’t you ever forget it my girl. Love you tons and I’m so proud of you! by @ebach85

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5 days ago

“I stopped announcing my moves to people who were never rooting for me to begin with. You can just watch what God does next.” by @ebach85

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7 days ago

Riverbend is the best beef around! Seriously. If you’re still getting your beef at the grocery store, you might want reconsider! #beef #beefbox by @ebach85

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8 days ago