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Girl, go on the date. 😂 Get cute. Try the restaurant. Meet new people. LIVE.

But pleaseeee… somebody needs to know where you are. 🫶🏽

Share your location with someone you trust. Tell them who you’re meeting and where you’re going. Have your own way home. Check in when you get there and when you leave.

Being excited about someone new doesn’t mean we stop being mindful.

And being cautious doesn’t mean we have to be afraid.

We can be outside AND aware.
Open AND discerning.
Having fun AND making sure somebody knows where to find us.

The goal isn’t to live scared—the goal is to live. And I plan on doing a whole lot of that. 😂🔒✨

Errythang locked in… including the location. 📍😂 by @errythanglocdten

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3 hours ago

This has been one of the toughest seasons of my life, and somehow, it has also been one of the seasons where I’ve felt the most surrounded.

For a long time, I think I confused being alone with being safe.

If I could handle it myself, I couldn’t be disappointed.
If I didn’t need anyone, no one could let me down.
If I kept enough distance, I could protect myself.

And I definitely had a vision for myself.

A vision for what my life should look like.
How it should happen.
Who should be there.
What I needed to accomplish.
What would finally make me feel secure.

But if I’m being truthful, my vision for myself could only take me as far as what I knew.

Things really started changing when I stopped asking God to bless the life I had planned and started allowing Him to show me the life He had created for me.

And His vision has required me to unlearn some things.

One of the biggest? That I have to do life alone in order to be safe.

In a season where I thought I would need to become even more independent, God started sending me community.

People to laugh with.
People to celebrate with.
People to check on me.
People who make room for me.
People who remind me that being supported doesn’t make me weak—and being loved doesn’t always have to hurt.

He started filling my life with things I didn’t even realize I needed.

I’m learning that I can be discerning without being isolated.
I can have boundaries and still let people in.
I can choose myself without believing I have to do everything by myself.

So yes, I’m doing this for myself.

But the vision?

That belongs to God.

Because when I finally plugged into what He saw for me instead of only what I could see for myself, my life started moving in a direction filled with the very things I needed.

I still don’t know exactly what the next chapter looks like.

But for the first time, I don’t need to.

I trust the One who does. 🤎

Life lately. 🔒✨ by @errythanglocdten

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a month ago

✨ Skin update! ✨

I finally had my first laser resurfacing treatment, and let’s just say… she was spicy. 😂🔥

I’ve been a Skin Laundry member for the past two months, and I’ve genuinely been loving my experience so far. Seeing my blemishes gradually fade while my skin keeps getting brighter and more consistent has been so rewarding.

My next treatment is an even higher level, and I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t a little nervous… but after seeing these results, I’m excited to keep going.

Healthy, glowing skin has always been the goal, and I’m so grateful to be on this journey.

Thank you, Skin Laundry, for taking such great care of my skin. Here’s to the next treatment! ✨

#SkinLaundry #SkinJourney #LaserResurfacing #GlowingSkin #SkincareRoutine by @errythanglocdten

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4 months ago

Challenging myself to be better especially in the things that aren’t my favorite. Adulting is weird, how are you handling the changes and new unexpected turns? by @errythanglocdten

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4 months ago

His Father’s Day staycation became our vacation. 🤷🏽‍♀️😂

Apparently, Father’s Day staycations are supposed to be about rest and relaxation.

Nobody told me.

So I showed up, claimed half the bed, ordered room service, and made memories.

10/10 experience. Would crash again.

Happy Father’s Day, babe. Thanks for sharing your staycation with me. 💙

Sleep Essentials: Ear Plugs- @loopearplugs
Eyepatches- @dieuxskin

Location- @thekinshotel

#FathersDay #Staycation #CouplesRetreat #LosAngeles taken in Los Angeles, California by @errythanglocdten

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4 months ago

We spend so much of our lives being what everyone else needs.

Strong.
Capable.
Put together.

Holding space.
Carrying weight.
Showing up.

But rarely do we stop and ask ourselves…

Who holds us while we heal?

Healing doesn’t always happen in therapy rooms.
Sometimes it happens at a table.

In conversations that were long overdue.
In laughter that softens something heavy.
In rooms where women feel safe enough to tell the truth.

That’s what Rooted in Love was created for.

A space where women bring their stories, their strength, and the parts of themselves they’re still learning to love.

No pressure.
No performance.
No pretending you already have it all together.

Just women—
gathered, breathing, healing, evolving… together.

If your heart has been craving a room where you don’t have to explain your journey,
this might be the table waiting for you.

March 28.

Come sit with us.
There’s still space at the table.
Rooted in love. 🌿

#WomenHealing
#HealingInCommunity
#WomenSupportingWomen
#IntentionalLiving
#SelfLoveJourney

WomenWhoRise by @errythanglocdten

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7 months ago

Most women aren’t lacking strength… they’re lacking safe spaces.

Spaces where they don’t have to pretend they’re okay.
Spaces where the armor can come off.
Spaces where healing and honesty can exist at the same time.

That’s a big part of why I started creating community spaces for women. Because when women feel safe enough to be seen, something powerful happens — they remember who they are.

Watching rooms full of women connect, laugh, open up, and realize they’re not alone will never stop being sacred to me.

And this is only the beginning. 🤍

#WomenHealingTogether #SafeSpacesForWomen #CommunityMatters #ThePerfect10 #WomenSupportingWomen by @errythanglocdten

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7 months ago

Part 2.

One of the biggest lies I told myself was that weed didn’t control my life—
until I realized how much of my life was planned around it.

When you start choosing locations, timing, moods, and rest around a habit, it quietly becomes the center. Not loudly. Not dramatically. Just… slowly.

This isn’t about shame.
It’s about noticing.

Awareness was the beginning of my freedom. by @errythanglocdten

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9 months ago

158 days clean.

This video isn’t about judgment.
It’s about honesty.

These are seven lies I told myself about weed—not to shame my past, but to honor what I learned along the way.

If you’re considering a major life change, please hear this:
grace matters more than perfection.
Healing isn’t linear. Faith doesn’t arrive fully formed. And growth doesn’t happen through punishment.

I didn’t change by hating myself.
I changed by loving myself enough to ask harder questions.
By bringing my faith into the process without using it as a weapon.
By replacing shame with curiosity, compassion, and truth.

If this stirred something in you—be gentle with yourself.
Awareness is already a form of healing.

You’re not weak for needing coping tools.
You’re strong for re-evaluating them. 🤍 by @errythanglocdten

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9 months ago

The hotel room was a paid actor. Such a good investment ✨

From the ambiance to the details, this stay set the entire tone for our date night. Thoughtful design, cozy luxury, and a space that makes you want to slow down and feel beautiful.

Thank you @sentralgaslampquarter for a beautiful, captivating stay in the heart of the city. This space made creating effortless—and unforgettable. I’d come back in a heartbeat 💫 by @errythanglocdten

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9 months ago

Getting ready to feel beautiful… because I am.
Date night with my husband ✨

#DateNight
#StillDating
#FeelingBeautiful taken in Gaslamp Quarter by @errythanglocdten

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9 months ago

I missed your birthday, but I could never miss you.

My sibster — my only sister — although our journey didn’t find ‘til I was 18, but it feels like she’s been stitched into every chapter of my story. You are my blood by spirit, my kin by grace.

You care for your mama like love ain’t heavy. You heal hearts for a living, building BlackTherapistMatter.com so our people can find the care we deserve. You carry your purpose like a crown — The bald, The bold, and The beautiful.

You’re a Memphis woman through and through — spicy, divine, a little loud, a lotta truth. You talk slick, laugh hard, and love even harder. You dance like joy lives in your bones. You’re brilliant, honest, creative, and kind in that rare, intentional way that leaves folks better than you found ‘em.

You are a masterpiece — God’s favorite kind of art.
And I’m just so blessed He let me find you.

Happy (belated) birthday, Sib.
You are light, love, and legacy. 💛 taken in Jamaica by @errythanglocdten

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a year ago