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A very emo photo diary by @fembought

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Terry and Ten were endgame. by @fembought

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12 days ago

Just a grid post for my life resume by @fembought

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6 days ago

Date night.

It’s the lack of lace where the nipples should be for me. by @fembought

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a month ago

Typing while I cry:

Dolly was a huge inspiration to me. She wrote the most romantic love song of all time and I’m just so sad she’s gone. Who she was was truly inspirational to me, as a blonde, as a woman, and simply as someone I wanted to be a little more like.

She was loving, caring, giving, joyful, and believed so deeply in beauty and love. I’m a lot like that too. I just have a mile-high wall around my heart trying to protect it from pain, and sometimes, in trying so hard to protect myself, I think I end up blocking my blessings too.

It’s time to move differently, don’t you think?

I won’t sit here and pretend that being a bleach blonde is some great societal hardship, but sometimes it is difficult to be jeered at, sneered at, underestimated, or reduced to a stereotype because of the way you choose to look. There is a very real stereotype surrounding bleach blondes; especially when it comes to being taken seriously, professionally or romantically. If you haven’t read about it, type it into Google. The rabbit hole is there.

And while you’re reading this, I don’t want you to conflate “bleach blonde” with whiteness. With nuance, I can understand why someone might make that comparison, but for me, it has never been about whiteness.

Being bleach blonde is almost a way of life. It’s femininity turned all the way up. It’s camp. It’s glamour. It’s walking into a room knowing somebody might have already decided who you are before you’ve even opened your mouth and choosing to be exactly who you are anyway.

Dolly chose that life. She never backed down from it, apologized for it, or made herself smaller to be taken more seriously.

And in a lot of ways, neither have I.

So, in conclusion: yes, sometimes it’s tough watching the brunette always get chosen. Yes, I’m tired of the stripper comments. And yes, I will still be bleaching my roots.

But I don’t think the lesson isn’t to become less soft, less blonde, less loving, or less hopeful.

Maybe it’s to stop building walls around those things just because the world occasionally makes them hurt.

RIP in peace, Queen. 🤍

I will always love you.

Swipe for my favorite pics of being blonde lol by @fembought

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a month ago

Ordered black. It came red. by @fembought

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a month ago

I still have bpd ty for coming by @fembought

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2 months ago

I miss when my only job was to wake up to head in Paris and look gorgeous for brunch by @fembought

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2 months ago

Me atm by @fembought

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4 months ago

🐰 by @fembought

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5 years ago

My best carousel yet.

1) a grid pic so for when you’re like “i know this binch iris lemme show you- here look.” and it’s this stunning selfie and the person you’re talking to can be like “ok she’s pretty but it’s a filter🙄”

2) I found two of these beautiful crystal lamps they’re just so perfect and teenie they make me so happy

3) the humongous Louis Vuitton neverfull I got at a vintage market. Is it real? Idc it’s old there’s wars going on pls I do not care about literally anything

4) me

5) this late night 🌱snack plate slapped so hard

6) we were trying to out mog eachother but tbh we’re gay

7) I’ve been depressed lately bc like, our cat died amongst other things happening in the world, I’m sensitive I retreat, anyway I’ve been thinking about how the sticky socks were kind of comforting during my stints in… treatment 😂

8) just ass. That’s all

9) I debated on getting this orig Jessica Simpson Murakami but I couldn’t justify it. I had this whole plan of getting rid of all my unworn fabulous designer clothes to this designer consignment and I was gonna use the credit to get this bag and pay for the rest myself but the buyer really said girl your old clothes are just that, rags. But the more I stared at the bag the more I hated what it represented: the past.

10) we hiked the mountain we live on which I’ve never done and it’s really beautiful and it really just made me feel really lucky and blessed to be where I am like it really could be worse. I’m bodied and beautiful but I’m crying about the news? Like let’s get it together, queen

11) my cat Wolfgang. He’ll be ten next year. He always cries too but that’s bc he is an Aquarius ♒️

12) the time I had a recorded interview with an AI bot for a job that had no business using AI honestly please fck AI right to hell

13) wanted to try these Dippin Dot things and I hated them. The texture! Omg hate.

14) also me

15) my friend Andy introduced me to this Pore Sucker by Patrick Starr and I have incredibly oily skin. It surpasses glass or dewy skin to just having a wet face. And I will say that the Pore Sucker really works. Do recommend.

16) so cute I could watch over and over again

17) me @ me by @fembought

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by @fembought

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3 years ago