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I’m not inconsistent.
I just didn’t have structure.

563 days ago, I stopped relying on motivation…
and started building discipline.

Not perfect.
Not easy.
But consistent.

And I know I’m not the only one stuck in that cycle:
start → fall off → restart → feel guilty → repeat.

That cycle ends here.

This space is for people who are READY to do the work.
Even when it’s uncomfortable.

If this hit you… you already know.

Comment “ready” or message me “I’m in” 🤍✨💫
And if someone came to mind while reading this… send it to them. #consistency by @findingherlight

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Today is my second birthday without my mom. On June 17th, 2018, I loss the most important person in my life, my mother. In my worst nightmares, I could not envision losing my mother in my twenties. I thought she would grow old, share her survival stories, and be a living testament of a warrior who beat stage IV cancer. Her journey ended differently, she was indeed a warrior and my hero but her physical journey on this earth came to an end. When my mom transitioned, I was heartbroken, but above all I was angry. Last year, I spent my birthday in so much pain and suffocating in darkness. I didn’t want to celebrate, spent it alone, and ended up sleeping in my car (I will share that unnecessary and painful experience later). Today, I am in a much better space mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. I decided to step WAY out of my comfort zone and share my story, as I live with grief and heal each day. I decided to join youtube for a series of 4-5 videos discussing my journey with grief and finding my light. Discussing grief is painful and uncomfortable but many of us are living with this pain every day. I plan to take up space and discuss this reality, for myself and others like me. Please share with anyone living with grief or caring for someone living with grief. #grief #lossofaparent #cancer #motherlessdaughters #findingherlight by @findingherlight

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3 years ago

THEE babygirl is having a babygirl. 🥹✨💖🎀 by @findingherlight

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6•17•2018 🤍✨🕊️

The day my life changed forever. The day my favorite girl took her last breath in my arms.

Eight years ago, darkness overcame me. I felt alone, broken, enraged, and lost. My mom was my world. It was hard to accept her transition and the reality that she wouldn’t grow old, that we wouldn’t create new memories, and that I would never hear her laugh again.

I thought grief would overcome me forever. I didn’t see a world where I could heal, live a life without her, feel seen, or feel loved.

Yet, here I am.

A reflection of her, holding onto our best memories and seeing the world in a new light. I hold space for my grief every day while also embracing my new life and all of the good that has come.

That’s the real duality of grief: acknowledging it all.

Although I have had really tough years, moments where I feel like I’m drowning in grief and the reality of experiencing life without her. I also know that without her unconditional love and unwavering belief in me, I wouldn’t be here experiencing all of the beauty that’s come in these past eight years.

It’s a reminder that there is no light without darkness, that the impact someone has on your life can live far beyond death, and that unconditional love can stay with you for a lifetime.

My mother is timeless. I am forever grateful and honored that I got to experience her in my lifetime.

My favorite girl forever. Eight years later, her love is still in motion. 🤍

Forever 48. 🤍✨🕊️ #grief by @findingherlight

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3 months ago

A birthday baby 🤍✨💫 by @findingherlight

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5 months ago

Oh look at me posting in real time ✨ Guys, can you help me with a caption?!🤍 by @findingherlight

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6 months ago

Day 568 progress! Took these pics this morning and was pretty pleased 😜

Also surpassed my waist goal, sitting at a 26” 💅🏾 #fitness #fitnessmotivation by @findingherlight

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6 months ago

#POV : You missed last #MardiGras and you promise your family you’ll be on your worst behavior this year 😂

Unfortunately my phone was in the chair all Mardi Gras 😫 by @findingherlight

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7 months ago

Gem of the night 💎✨💫🤍 #mardigrasseason by @findingherlight

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8 months ago

It’s an AKA holiday 🤍💫✨💞💚 #AKA1908 #J15 by @findingherlight

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9 months ago

Day 500 ✨🥹
New year, same consistency.

My body isn’t perfect, but my commitment is intentional. I’m showing up every day, working toward my healthiest self: mind, body, and discipline.

2026 is about nutrition + sculpting, and I can’t wait to see how far consistency takes me this year …..new body who dis 🤏🏾

100 Days of Her Vol. 2 Phase 2, lets go ✨💫🤍 #transformation #fitness #healthylife #100daysofher #fitnessjourney by @findingherlight

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