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NYC’s Premiere Lazy Queen 🧔🏽‍♀️ 🇵🇷🇧🇧
1/4th of The Big Girlz💛 @thebiggirlz.nyc
1st Alt Northeast Bearded Queen

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Let’s wake it up… no tea, no shade to these specific NYC divas (I tagged them), but this brings up a bigger conversation about bearded drag and drag in general. I also hate lazy drag. But laziness isn’t exclusive to beards.

We’ve had this conversation forever about “MEN” in drag who don’t pad, don’t wear tits, nails, or earrings, and still claim “female illusion.” It’s the same when queens don’t learn the lyrics, call themselves dancers with no training, or make drag content/podcasts not even in drag. That’s not a beard issue…that’s an effort issue

All tea, all shade, I watched the full clip. And honestly, white and white-passing people pushing this take is tired. Some cis women have hormone imbalances and have beards or body hair…doesn’t make them any less of a woman.

As a fulltime queen who is booked, blessed, and BEARDED, and who’s been getting this in my DMs, it felt like my civic duty to respond. Let me be clear cuz yall like to be messy…no resentment toward these girls, I’ve worked with them and probably will again. But this take is as hot as “Manhattan girls don’t like Brooklyn drag.” It’s tired.

That said… I will still side eye a blonde ponytail, a clear Pleaser, and a crunchy windmill despite the presence of facial hair!

#drag #rpdr #beardeddrag #dragqueen taken in New York, New York by @fridacoxny

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5 months ago

HAPPY FOURTH?! 🇺🇸 🎇 Do not fret because we have something worth celebrating this Fourth of July: FRIDA COX MERCH NOW AVAILABLE ON DRAGQUEENMERCH.COM 🤩🧔🏽‍♀️

Merch supporting The LAZY Queen herself is now available worldwide! Do not walk, RUN to the website to grab yourself some merch. Somebody’s birthday is coming up? Buy some Frida merch. Feeling down and need a pick me up? Order yourself Frida merch! Feeling LAZYYY?? Have somebody else order Frida merch for you! 😝😜 taken in Worldwide by @fridacoxny

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21 days ago

Meet us tomorrow Saturday July 25th for a Special Edition of Chicas con Carne!!!!

@fridacoxny and @mountolympia are taking over this monthly only the Show Stoppers (hosted by @thevanitylavain and @theebiancastar slot as they are away)

Brunch starts at 2pm and it’s guaranteed to be a KI with these too - make your reservation at 347.808.7338 or walk on in!!!

This is the First of Monthly Chicas con Carne now hosted at the OG - @frescoscantina … we hope to see you here!!! by @fridacoxny

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Shows shows shooowwwsss! LINK FOR TICKETS IN BIO!

TOMORROW (Friday, July 24th): 10PM at 3 Dollar Bill in Brooklyn, NY, Frida Cox will be doing two numbers for my favorite, Meatball’s famous FAT SLUT party! 🌭 Every FAT SLUT is wild, sexy and stupid so of course I’ll be there. 😜

Shows shows shooowwwsss! CALL to make a reservation now before we’re booked up!

SATURDAY (July 25th): 2PM at Fresco’s Cantina (the little one not the big one) Frida Cox and Olympia will be making our debut at the OG Fresco’s location for brunch! Come get drunk, and full off of great food and numbers. 🍹 🍳 You won’t want to miss this!

Shows shows shooowwwsss! LINK FOR TICKETS IN BIO!

MONDAY (July 27th): 8PM at C’mon Everybody, Frida Cox will be in an ALL BLACK SHOW hosted by the Broadway star, viral sensation and Trans Icon, Anania! The theme is DISCO 🪩 and baby we are bringing ittttt! It’s my last show before my trip to Chicago so don’t miss out and see what this amazing cast is bringing 💃🏽 taken in New York, New York by @fridacoxny

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Baby, I was soaking wet at Paradise in NJ for Tea Dance, hosted by the current reigning Miss Paradide, Vanity LaVain! 💦 😌
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👗 : @tenyardsclothing
👠: @burjushoes
🎥: @chrisatethesun @hausofpancake @kevin_drake_jersey @themimisashimi taken in Paradise Nightclub, Asbury Park, New Jersey by @fridacoxny

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2 days ago

Tea Dance 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

- VanityLaVain
- Lady Keyante
- Nikky Sky Blake
- Frida Cox
- Venus Mystique

📸: @misfitofcreation

#paradisenj #asburypark #dragisnotacrime #lgbt #teadance taken in Paradise Nightclub, Asbury Park, New Jersey by @fridacoxny

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4 days ago

#NEW MIC DROP! ✨🎤
A Monthly Themed Karaoke Party!
(Every 2nd Tuesday) Sign Up at 9PM

Hosted by @fridacoxny
Behind the Bar @rafaelsvsanchez

JULY THEME: POP DIVAS!
**SING A SONG ON THEME, GET A FREE SHOT!** taken in ICON by @fridacoxny

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11 days ago

Our final performer spotlight is for none other than our hostess with the mostest:

🧔‍♀️ FRIDA COX (she/they) from QUEENS, NY🧔‍♀️

Frida Cox is THE bearded bimbo of NYC. With a beard fuller than any man’s and more curves than a fresh BBL shawty, Frida is ready to shake the table. Frida Cox is all about body positivity and loving the skin you’re in. This Black Boricua weaponizes her BFA to bring you well rounded performances. After going viral for her response about bearded drag being LAZY, Frida Cox knew she wanted to put together an all bearded show showing exactly why that negative thinking is wrong.

LAZY is only 3 (THREE) days away! Have you gotten your tickets yet? If not, what are you waiting for?
9 BOB NOTE on July 15th at 7PM to see FRIDA COX grace us with some LAZY drag! *LINK IN BIO*
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🖼️ : @itslolowrld & @chrisatethesun by @fridacoxny

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13 days ago

A hair consultation with the lazy drag queen herself @fridacoxny !
Book your appointment today 👏🏽🚨
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#dragqueensofinstagram #dragqueen #pride #funny taken in New York, New York by @fridacoxny

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25 days ago

THIS SUNDAY, JUNE 28th!! NYC PRIDE 2026!! 🌈 🤩

I, FRIDA COX (@fridacoxny ) , will be performing at Pridefest, the number one spot for performances hosted and sponsored the actual NYC Pride (@nycpride ). 🤯😍 Great artists such as @breerunway , @riconasty and so many others will be performing as well so do not miss out!

For more details head to NYCPRIDE.ORG and remember it’s FREE and open to the public so get your plans for NYC Pride figured out now! 👀 👀 👀
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👗: @tenyardsclothing @crystalsbypreciosa
👀: @ttd_eye @ttdeyeofficial
Makeup: @dermablendpro @hauslabs @nyxcosmetics @madebymitchell @rcmamakeup @skindinavia @alconeco @wardrobesupply
💄: @fentybeauty @juviasplace
Body: @thedragstop_
Tights: @capezio

#nycpride #pride2026 #freethingstodoinnyc by @fridacoxny

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a month ago

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THIS BLACK, BORICUA, NEW YAWKUH!! 🇧🇧🇵🇷🗽🏳️‍🌈
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👞: @timberland
🧥: @yankees
📸: @meowpurrduction

¡SALUD! Cheers to 32 years of living, surviving and thriving to have the best life I can have! 🥂 🍸
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📸: @srq_entertainment_talentagency

One of the best birthday gifts ever!! Thank you to my man (@chrisatethesun ) for getting us VIP tickets to see my favorite band (@evanescenceofficial @amylee ) at @jonesbeachtheater !!
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Just a day before my actual birthday, @evanescenceofficial posted me and my man on their official instagram page. THE FIRST TWO SLIDES OF ME AND MY WORLD!! What a birthday gift!! 🎁 🎂 🎉

For my 31st year on this planet, I got to travel to Japan, San Francisco, LA, and so many other places. I got to truly live my life and be with the one I love while doing it. I am so excited for what this new year has for me!
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Hair: @handcraftedbyolu_
🧥: @hypland
📸: @chrisatethesun

To many more thong tanning sessions at the beach with friends!! 🏖️
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I hope my man gets to eat more goldfish off my butt in this new year! 🤞🏽
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📸: @josejacobphotography by @fridacoxny

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from attending the festival every year to being apart of it😭😭 🇵🇷😍‼️
what a dream to reality and such a blessing. Thank you for everyone who pulled up and to everyone who was apart of the set 🫂😍😭‼️ you beings are everything and more thank you for all your hard work and commitment to help making this BORI BRAT’s dream of reality♥️💋♥️💋♥️💋
@danielreina, @fridacoxny, @bandrestrujillo, @thestylishmuse, @dianab06_, @challenges_inlife, @jdmorganxx, @esencia_divina_xo @meowpurrduction I 🩷 YOU ALL.. I can’t wait for our next projects 🤭🤭👀✅ until then, Mi Gente Latino 😂🇵🇷
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#explore #festival #puertorico #pride #independent taken in El Barrio by @fridacoxny

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