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These are techniques to use when in acute traumatic shock or any time you’re feeling overwhelmed. They helped me a lot personally and may help you process what has happened and what is happening to you by @haecnicola
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After the inauguration, I said NEVER AGAIN to Meta. The first time I bent on this was when I had to decide whether or not to download WhatsApp so I could communicate with new friends in Gaza whose internet was often difficult to access. It became obvious that in this case, a hardline boycott would be missing the forest for the trees.

I’ve known for a long time now that Bluesky is just as bad as Meta but with a smaller corporate reach. They continue to facilitate genocide & silence Palestinian voices—which leads me here. For me to boycott Bluesky at this point, where I have 3 Palestinian families that rely on me to be their voice because I have a privileged skin colour and IP, would again be missing the forest for the trees.

So here I am, back in Instagram for the first time in many years. I will soon be archiving all the pictures and videos of my kid then opening up my profile. 

Being mostly housebound with MECFS etc. nobody wants to see 100 pictures of my living room but I will be bringing over my mini book reviews from Bluesky (including the 2025 backlog) and even the occasional absurdist dream recording. But I’ll also be posting about my loved ones in the hope that my IRL friends will get to know and fall in love with them too. Not just as stranger faces in a genocide, but as whole human beings.

Bearing all this in mind, I’m actually excited to be back. I’m still undecided on crossposting to facebook because it’s such a cesspit but I’m thinking about it. by @haecnicola
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9 months ago
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‼️ Oct 16 Fidaa update:

❌ 💌 Fidaa is a single mom of 4 relying on grocery debt in a genocide. She’s very chronically ill to the point of frequent hospitalization & is still trying to find work to feed her kids but can’t

donate: https://bit.ly/save-fidaa

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‼️ Oct 16 Rana update:

❌ 💌 Rana is nursing student in Gaza who just wants to keep her family sheltered & fed until this all ends. They have had everything taken away from them, including their beloved father

donate: https://gofund.me/046b328a0

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‼️‼️ Oct 16 Fathi update:

✅ 💌 We haven’t made any progress in 3 days on the cooking gas issue, idk how to express this urgency, they need it to feed their baby!

$25/$400 USD

donate: https://gofund.me/4f9407199

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✅️ Butterfly Effect Project 1431 by @haecnicola
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So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed by Jon Ronson (2015)

This is a v important book, even more so today than when it was published. I grow increasingly disturbed by how our culture uses shame for dominance & control, driven by social media & traditional media. 

One thing Ronson doesn’t talk about (unsurprisingly) is that this is not just a corporate profit thing. It’s also a top-down social control thing. It’s not just normal ass human beings, we are operating in an environment guided by culture & authority & experts & algorithms & clicks & bot farms & insiders.

Shame is the social currency used to guide us toward & away from certain areas of thought & it’s incredibly powerful. I grappled with it myself when I decided to start orienting around my own intuition & eyeballs, I had to unpack so many layers of shame around certain topics when the fog began to lift.

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‼️ Oct 15 Fathi update:

✅ 💌 Fathi’s dad is feeling better after his fall but the cooking gas still needs are still URGENT!! They need to boil water for formula

$25/$400 USD

donate: https://gofund.me/4f9407199

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✅️ Butterfly Effect Project 1431 by @haecnicola
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‼️‼️ Oct 15 Rana update:

❌ 💌 Rana’s family has been at a standard that’s even below hand-to-mouth, they just barely raise enough to stay sheltered and somewhat fed every month... 6 people. Help them eat if

donate: https://gofund.me/046b328a0

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4 days ago
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‼️ Oct 15 Fidaa update:

❌ 💌 I haven’t heard from Fidaa for a bit, I know she’s been dealing with some medical problems on top of her usual ones and her mental health has been v low, please support her through this

donate: https://bit.ly/save-fidaa

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Lord John and the Private Matter by Diana Gabaldon (2003)

This is sort of your run-of-the-mill Georgian murder mystery but with a seedy little slutty underbelly (I mean this in the best possible way) and enchanting characters. It is here that we meet Percy Beauchamp for the first time. Unpopular opinion, but these are the first sparks of one of the greatest and most tragic love affairs in the Outlanderverse. Just a brief moment, a first glance, the touch of a hand on a doorknob, that returns to dormancy only to engulf itself in flames in Brotherhood of the Blade.

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‼️ Oct 14 Fidaa update:

❌ 💌 TYSM Richard for $26!! Fidaa is a chronically ill single mom of 4, she has no other income other than this donation link. Please help her family survive until this is over. She’s in so much pain

donate: https://bit.ly/save-fidaa

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✅ Molly Shah
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5 days ago
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‼️‼️ Oct 14 Rana update:

✅ 💌 Mahmoud is getting his 🥾! There’s no way we would typically have been able to raise enough for 🥾 & Nov rent in 1 months time, but it’s happened 🥹 Mahmoud’s been wearing slippers

donate: https://gofund.me/046b328a0

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✅ Gazavetters 164 by @haecnicola
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