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Heaven Espada

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Former server + Esthetician → Future HTS closer 📊
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Day 33 of Becoming HER 🦋

Today was all about building—not just creating.

🎧 Had a role play for my job and exchanged notes so we can both continue improving.

🎙️ Batch-created some podcast episodes for Butterfly Circle.

📲 Downloaded Buffer, connected my Instagram, and started building a system for scheduling my content.

✂️ Edited some content I’ve already filmed.

And honestly, I’m realizing something…

Building the life you want isn’t just about working harder.

It’s about learning how to work smarter.

Creating systems.
Getting feedback.
Improving your skills.
Batching your work.
Making things easier to manage.

Little by little, the ideas in my head are becoming actual systems, content, products, conversations and opportunities.

And THAT is what becoming HER looks like for me.

Not overnight.

Not perfectly.

Just one day at a time. 🦋

Day 33. We keep building. #becomingher #buildinginpublic #entrepreneurjourney #personalbrand #butterflycirclepodcast by @heaven.espada

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a month ago

Day 32 of Becoming HER. 🦋

My favorite kind of busy day is the kind where I can look back and say…

I actually moved my life forward today.

Today I:

✨ Had a work meeting
✨ Batch-created content for Instagram
✨ Worked on my Butterfly Circle product
✨ Had my accountability group chat call
✨ Scheduled a NEW guest for my butterfly circle podcast 🦋🎙️

There was a time when all of these things would’ve just been ideas in my head.

Now I’m actually putting them into action.

And that’s what Becoming HER is really about for me.

Not becoming someone completely different.

Becoming the version of me who actually follows through.

One meeting.
One post.
One product.
One conversation.
One opportunity at a time.

Day 32. 🦋

We’re building MY DREAM LIFE. ✨🙏🏻❤️ #becomingher #buildinginpublic #entrepreneurjourney #personalbrand #highticketsales by @heaven.espada

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Day 30 of Becoming HER 🦋

Today wasn’t one of those days where I felt like I had everything together.

I went to the doctor, worked, and then joined our offer owner’s webinar so I could experience the offer from the prospect’s perspective.

And at work… I failed again.

I kept a prospect on the phone for way too long. 😅🫠🥴

I started doubting myself when the prospect wanted to have a deeper conversation.😅🥺🙄

My blood pressure dropped and my vision became blurry and spotty.😟🫥🙄

And THEN I caught myself saying words I knew I had specifically been told to stop using. 🤦🏽‍♀️😂

Old me would have wanted to hide this.

But I’m doing something different now.

I’m documenting the process.

Because becoming HER isn’t about becoming someone who never fails.

It’s becoming someone who can say:

“Okay. What did I learn from that?”

Then get back up and try again.

30 days down.

And I’m still becoming HER. 🦋

What did you learn from one of your failures this week? #becomingher #failure #personalgrowth #highticketsales #setter by @heaven.espada

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A reminder for my ambitious people. 🙏🏻👩🏻‍💻📲💪🏼

Lunch time. Eat something. Get some movement in. Drink your water. Take a breath.🍚🥤🚶🏻‍♀️🧘🏻‍♀️

And most importantly… listen to your body.

You can be ambitious.
You can be hardworking.
You can have BIG dreams.
You can want to change your life.

But none of it matters if you’re running yourself into the ground trying to get there.

Sometimes taking care of yourself means pushing forward.

Sometimes it means slowing down.

And sometimes your body will make the decision for you if you refuse to listen.

Take care of your body BEFORE your body puts you to rest.

Send this to someone who needs the reminder today. 🦋

What’s one thing your body has been asking you for lately? #takecareofyourself❤️ #worklifebalance #personalgrowth #ambitiouswomen #becomingher by @heaven.espada

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a month ago

Day 29 of Becoming HER 🦋

Today was one of those days where I got to practice what I’ve been preaching.

I had 2 work meetings, one before my shift that went longer than expected, worked for over 9 hours, and then jumped into another meeting afterward.

And today… I failed.

I failed to handle 2 objections properly.

I also failed to correctly assess where a prospect came from, which meant I was following the wrong framework/flow for part of the call.

And honestly, my tone wasn’t great for a portion of the call either—and it threw both me and the prospect off.

Then the sales team, including the offer owner, listened to the call recording.😅😭🥴🫠

And I received constructive criticism in front of everyone.🥰🙏🏻

Old me probably would have wanted to disappear. 😂

But today, I was proud of myself.

Because I stayed.

I listened.

I took the feedback.

And I chose to learn instead of letting embarrassment make me quit.

Especially because I’m already playing catch-up after being sick and missing 2 weeks of work.

This is what Becoming HER looks like.

Not getting everything right.

Not pretending I’m perfect.

But being willing to be uncomfortable, be corrected, try again, and become better because of it.

I also joined my accountability group call, scheduled a call for Friday with a woman I met at @shelby.sapp @womenandwealthcon , caught up with friends I haven’t spoken to in a long time, and spent time with my family. 🥰

A full day.

A humbling day.

A productive day.

And honestly?

A great day.

Because failure didn’t stop me, discourage me, or embarrass me. I learned a lot and I grew a lot learning not to dwell.

#becomingher #failures #personalgrowth #growthmindset #setter by @heaven.espada

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a month ago

Day 28 of becoming HER 🦋

Today was supposed to be a 12-hour workday.👩🏻‍💻📲

Instead, I worked 6.

And I’m actually really proud of that decision.

One of the things I’ve been grateful for in remote high-ticket sales is the flexibility my role gives me to adjust my schedule when I need to.

Today, I had to.

I made some doctor’s appointments, including an upcoming heart echo and ultrasound of my legs. My endometriosis pain medication left me extremely groggy and exhausted.😴 😵‍💫

At one point, I was literally falling asleep standing up.😅🥴

So I had a choice:

Push myself through another 6 hours because that’s what I originally planned…

or listen to my body.

I chose my body.✨🥰💪🏼

I’d rather work a shorter day and be safe than push myself until I get hurt just to say I completed a 12-hour shift.

So I slept for the rest of the afternoon.

And honestly?

I don’t see that as giving up.

I see it as learning how to build a life and career that can work WITH my circumstances instead of constantly fighting against them.

Becoming HER isn’t always about pushing harder.

Sometimes it’s knowing when to stop. 🛑

What does listening to yourself look like for you lately?

🦋 #becomingher #remotework #highticketsales #chronicillness #personalgrowth by @heaven.espada

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a month ago

I disappeared for two weeks. 😅🙄😭

Not because I quit.

Because I was sick, in and out of the hospital, and my body needed me to slow down and heal.

And honestly? I had to learn that resting doesn’t mean I’m falling behind.

While I was away, I still tried to stay connected to the things I’m building. I joined work meetings when I could. I reviewed onboarding. I worked on my digital products. My mom and I painted my office. I built my new sit/stand desk. My niece and I started working on something really exciting together. And most importantly, I listened to my body when it told me to rest.

Today was my first day back at work.🙏🏻🙌🥳

My first day, I made 71 calls and had 7 answers.

Today?

93 calls.
10 answers.

And I’m proud of myself. 🙏🏻🥰🙌

Then I had my Monday night Zoom call with @shelby.sapp , took a ridiculous amount of notes 😂, and reminded myself that I’m still learning.

And because this is Becoming HER, I’m also being honest about my failures.

I failed to properly connect my MacBook to my monitor. (Learning how to become more tech savvy, I am also learning how to ask other people for help when I don’t understand something.)

And I failed to stay completely caught up with my Slack communications while I was in and out.( Learning the importance of staying up to date with communications and active in our messages There are no stupid questions)

But here’s what I’m learning:

Failure doesn’t mean I’m failing, it means I am learning and growing. 🙏🏻💪🏼

Sometimes becoming HER looks like pushing forward.

Sometimes it looks like making mistakes.

And sometimes it looks like putting everything down, listening to your body, and giving yourself permission to heal.

I’m not behind.

I’m becoming.

🦋

What’s something you’re proud of yourself for doing lately—even if it seems small?
Tell me below. I want to celebrate it with you. #becomingher #personalgrowth #setter #shesells #growthmindset by @heaven.espada

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I’m officially challenging myself to FAIL more. 👀

Not because I want to lose.

Because I’m tired of letting the fear of failure decide what I’m willing to try.

So I’m starting a Failure Challenge.

I’m going to intentionally do things that scare me, try things I might not be good at, put myself out there, and share the wins AND the failures along the way.

And I want YOU to join me.

Your failure could be:
✨ Posting the video on the wrong account
✨ Reaching out to the wrong people
✨ Not having a clear vision
✨ Not asking enough questions
✨ Always waiting for the right moment
✨ Incorrectly putting information in for an LLC
✨ Calling leads out of the wrong funnel

There is no prize for playing small.

So let’s collect failures.

Because every failure means you were brave enough to TRY.

If you’re joining me, comment “I’M IN” and tell me what you’re going to fail at. 🦋

Let’s see what happens when we stop being afraid of failing.

#failurechallenge #entreprenuermindset #fearoffailure #growthmindset #becomingher by @heaven.espada

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Becoming HER — Day 26 🦋🤍

Today looked a LOT different than I imagined.

After yesterday, my biggest priority was simply taking care of my body and giving myself permission to REST. 🫶🏼

I took my nausea medication, drank lots of electrolytes and water, and stuck to very bland foods like white rice while I gave my stomach some time to hopefully settle down. 😭😂

So if you have any home remedies, tricks, or things that have helped you when your stomach is NOT cooperating… PLEASE send them my way! 😂🙏🏼 I’m all ears!

And even though today was mostly about resting, I still had a few little moments that meant a lot to me.

✨ I shared a post about the Women & Wealth Conference because it has officially been a month since that experience—and I’m still SO grateful for the opportunity. That conference opened doors, introduced me to incredible people, and genuinely helped change the direction of my life.

✨ I talked with some friends about business ideas and ways we can hold each other accountable.

And then… I rested. 🙏🏻❤️

I’m learning that becoming HER doesn’t mean pushing myself until there’s nothing left.

Sometimes becoming HER looks like working.
Sometimes it looks like building.
Sometimes it looks like showing up scared.

And sometimes… it looks like getting in bed, drinking electrolytes, eating white rice, and letting your body breathe. 😂😭🥰

Rest is still part of the process.

Still learning.
Still building.
Still healing.
Still becoming. 🦋

Day 26/??? #becomingher #day26 #lıstentoyourbody #restday #setter by @heaven.espada

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2 months ago

ONE MONTH since Women & Wealth.

It’s honestly crazy to think about how much my life has changed because of one opportunity.

But the biggest lesson wasn’t just what I learned — it was actually implementing it.

Here are some of the lessons that have stuck with me the most:

@annemahlum : Expect excellence. BURN THE BOATS. Fear and excitement feel the same — change your perspective.

@hothighpriestess : Messy makes millions. Money loves SPEED!

@iamdrsonja : Let your past versions go with love. Find mentors who push you toward excellence(catching Kayla). Nobody does this alone. If you did not come from wealth make sure a wealthy family comes from YOU!!

@jasminestar : What you believe, you become. You can only become the highest version of your limiting belief!! 🤯🥺

@thearielpryor : Your current situation is NOT your final destination. Make a decision & find a way to make it you’re reality.

@elenacardone : Hire slow, fire fast. Invest in yourself because you are your greatest asset.
@lorigreinershark : All it takes is ONE incredible idea. Patent everything. Hire character and train skill. Stay humble and take care of the people who help build your vision.

@shelby.sapp : Take risks on yourself. Use the Bezos technique.

@officialsofiasmiles : Helped me recognize my natural gift and inspired me to create my own podcast. 🎙️🦋

@theafnankhalifa : On social media, it’s not just WHAT you say — it’s HOW you say it. Grab their attention.

@alicialyttle : AI should be more than a Google search. Hire and train AI to help you build your business. 😂

And then there was a moment in the hallway that I’ll never forget.

@forbes_riley : helped me identify one of my core limiting beliefs — and understand where it came from.

One month later

I’M IMPLEMENTING.

I’m building.
I’m creating.
I’m taking risks.
I’m investing in myself.
I’m becoming.

And if this much can change in 30 days…

Imagine what the next 30 will look like. 🤯🥰🙏🏻

Thank you to everyone who poured into that room — on the stage AND in the hallways. ✨🙏🏻🥰

I’m just getting started. by @heaven.espada

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2 months ago

Becoming HER — Day 25 🦋

Today looked very different than I expected.

I started my morning with my 5AM walk, and then I worked for about an hour to an hour and a half before I had to listen to my body.

I’m extremely sick with a stomach bug (feeling like I got poisoned), and honestly… today has been ROUGH.

I took my nausea medication and electrolytes to try to help, but I’ve been incredibly weak and shaky, my body has been hurting so much, and I could barely see(blurred vision and also black with spotty lights).

So for most of the day…

I slept.

And you know what?

I’m learning that resting is not failing.

Sometimes becoming HER means getting up at 5AM and chasing your goals.

And sometimes becoming HER means recognizing that your body needs you to stop and rest.

I still managed to submit my commission tracker, which I’m proud of, but today wasn’t about how much I could accomplish.

It was about doing what I could…

and giving myself permission to let the rest wait.

I’m so used to feeling like I have to keep pushing, but I’m learning that taking care of myself is also part of building the life I want.

So today, I rested.

Tomorrow, I’ll try again.

Day 25 of becoming HER. 🦋

Not every day is a breakthrough.

Some days are simply about making it through.

And that counts too. ✨🥰#becomingher #day25 #growthmindset #setter #listentoyourbody by @heaven.espada

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