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Quincy Martin

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🙏🏾God | Motivation | Inspiration
🫱🏾‍🫲🏻Bringing people back together w/ Love & Understanding
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Men are more than just a paycheck💰 A man should always be Pursuing, Protecting & Providing for his woman👸🏽👸🏻👸🏼 Pursuing her heart constantly & consistently. That means constantly getting to know her, finding different ways/opportunities for fall in love.❤️🏃🏾 Protecting her not only physically but mentally, spiritually and emotionally. Protecting her heart at all times so she knows she is secure in her safety with you.💪🏾 Providing her with direction, support, reassurance, financial provision & peace in her life. You solve her problems and make life overall better with you in it.🔐 A real man cares for these things in his woman’s life and should strive to get as many of them right as he can. Men vs Women must END! We need each other. Always have, Always will. Credit: @trippfontane Follow: @in_his_control for more daily content💯 #dating #datingadvice #datingcoach #datinggoals #relationships #relationship #relationshipgoals #marriage #marriagegoals #marriagecoach #menandwomen #emotionalintelligence #realmen #men #women #together #reallove #love #provider by @in_his_control
Yea we do like that too😏 I’ll just speak for myself but if she ain’t loving on me like this, I don’t want her🙅🏾‍♂️ That’s it…..that was the post💯 Men vs Women must END! We need each other. Always have, Always will. Speaker: @love.khadijah 👈🏾 go follow her Follow: @in_his_control for more daily content💯 #dating #datingadvice #relationships #relationshipgoals #marriage #marriagegoals #love #reallove #men #women #menandwomen #together #togetherforever #reciprocity #goodwoman by @in_his_control
Ladies he says y’all all look alike💃🏻💃🏽💃🏼👀 I don’t agree with the some of the language he’s using, but he does have a point. It can be hard at first glance to tell the difference from a good woman and a bad one. Looks can be deceiving. This is where we as men need to use discernment and make sure we’re using the head on our shoulders not the head between our boulders😏 Credit: @thedesirabletruth Follow: @in_his_control for more daily content! #dating #datingadvice #relationships #relationshipgoals #marriage #marriagegoals #reallove #love #menandwomen #together #understanding by @in_his_control
I’ll just speak for myself... There were times I felt abandoned. Times I felt overlooked. Times I felt like I was carrying the weight of the world by myself. But every single time I looked back, God was there. When people walked away... He stayed. When doors closed... He made a way. When I couldn’t see what He was doing... He was still working. The enemy wants you to believe you’re alone. You’re not. God has never left you and He never will. “Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.” — Deuteronomy 31:6 💯 Movie🎬: The Shift Follow: @in_his_control for more content 💯 #jesus #god #faith #christian #christianity bible scripture jesuschrist holyspirit gospel trustgod faithoverfear christianreels christiancontent christianmotivation christianinspiration deuteronomy316 godisfaithful neveralone godwithus biblicaltruth kingdommindset eternallife dailyencouragement streetpreacherspod philipamitchell inhiscontrol reelsinstagram viralreels christiancreator by @in_his_control
One thing God has really been showing me lately is that we’re getting way too comfortable here. We’re building bigger houses, chasing more money, worrying about what people think, stressing over things that won’t even matter 100 years from now... But the Bible is clear. This world is not our home. We’re passing through. I think that’s why so many people feel empty after getting everything they thought they wanted. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t quite fit in, like something is missing no matter how much you accomplish, maybe it’s because your soul knows what your flesh keeps forgetting... This world is not your home. Speaker: @philipamitchell 👈🏾 go follow @streetpreacherspod 👈🏾 go follow Follow: @in_his_control for more daily content 💯 #jesus #christian #faith #god #bible jesuschrist gospel christianreels kingdomofgod eternity heaven eternallife biblestudy scripture holyspirit christianliving faithoverfear trustgod discipleship biblicaltruth christianmotivation christianinspiration streetpreacherspod philipamitchell inhiscontrol reels viralreels christiancreator dailyencouragement kingdommindset by @in_his_control
….I thought i was tripping🤣 by @in_his_control
Love is found with alignment and with alignment comes assignment from God.🙏🏾 Finding someone who’s aligned with your purpose matters because life feels lighter when you’re walking in the same direction. It’s not about perfection, it’s about understanding, support, and choosing growth together instead of working against each other. When purpose aligns, there’s less friction and more flow, and you’re reminded that this journey was never meant to be a battle between genders, but a partnership rooted in respect and unity👩🏽‍🤝‍👨🏾 Men vs Women must END! We need each other. Always have, Always Will. Credit: @talktomekittiecouples Speakers: @trippfontane, @kittiejrose Follow: @in_his_control for more weekly content💯 #marriage #dating #relationships #datingadvice #marriagegoals by @in_his_control
Stop being a weak man🙇🏾‍♂️🙇🏼‍♂️🙇🏻‍♂️ Yes, as a man I strongly believe we should have your sh*t together before you start focusing on trying to be in a relationship, but some men (myself included once upon a time ago) define themselves based on them having it all together. The things you have should not be what defines you as a man. You should be defined by: Your character💯 Your values💯 Your actions💯 If your woman has to pretend that you are paying for the sake of your pride, ego, whatever…you’ve got A LOT of work to do and you need to do it ASAP because you have a good woman that is willing to do that in order to cater to your ego. That won’t last forever and at some point that will become a problem. If you lost all of your materialistic things that shouldn’t change foundation-ally who you are as a person. Men vs Women must end. We need each other. Always Have, Always Will. Speaker: @trippfontane 👈🏾 go support Credit: @tonightsconversation 👈🏾 go support Follow: @in_his_control for more content💯 #dating #datingadvice #couples #couplegoals #relationships #relationshipgoals #money #ego #egodeath #pride #menvswomen #men #women #marriage #together #togetherforever #healthyrelationships by @in_his_control
Stop running from your emotions🏃🏾🏃🏽‍♀️ So many relationships and people are hurting because they have childhood trauma that they are running from. Be brave enough to challenge yourself instead of just accepting things as “this is just who I am”, especially if you keep having failed relationships one after another. At some point you have to start looking at the common denominator. Yes, it may be painful Yes, you may need professional help in figuring it out Yes, it will take some time Yes, it’s ok to forgive yourself and them But most of all give yourself some GRACE while you begin healing through that trauma. And if you have someone that is willing to still love you through you working on healing, HOLD ON TO THEM!! Navigating trauma is not a game and you should take all the love and support you can along the way. Men vs Women must end! We need each other. Always have, Always will. Speaker: @trippfontane 👈🏾 Go follow Credit: @tonightsconversation 👈🏾 Go follow Follow: @in_his_control for more content💯 #dating #datingadvice #emotions #emotionalintelligence #emotionalhealth #trauma #childhoodtrauma #relationships #relationshipgoals #marriage #men #women #menandwomen #selflove #love #reallove #grace #together #togetherforever by @in_his_control
If he don’t value you another man will💯 Ladies yall don’t have to settle for the bullsh%t. People change for who they want to change for and when you are in ANY relationship,there is going to be a degree of change required. If he’s not willing or able to do what you need from him, MOVE ON! There are men out there that are ready to find a good woman, who are ready for peace, who are ready for a partner to do life with and know how to love a woman properly. Stop wasting your time with these men that are purposely choosing to not do what you need from them AND THATS OK! Not everyone is for you. So go make yourself available for the man that is for you to find you. Men vs Women must end! We need each other. Always have, Always will. Speaker: @trippfontane 👈🏾 Go follow Credit: @tonightsconversation 👈🏾 Go follow Follow: @in_his_control for more content💯 #dating #datingadvice #relationship #relationshipgoals #couples #couplegoals #marriage #men #women #menandwomen #together #togetherforever #love #reallove by @in_his_control
Every MAN needs a MAN in their life✊🏾✊🏻💯 I can’t tell you how many times when I was younger and really ready to throw it all way, that a man of wisdom came and saved my life just by simply listening and giving me sage advice. I’m thankful that I was even in the right mind to be able to receive what he was telling me but it ultimately saved my life because he introduced me to a group of men who forever changed my life. There’s a time and a place for everything. There’s a time for venting and getting it out but once you do that it’s time to change what you have the ability to change. No more sulking or complaining about your circumstances. As long as you are breathing, it’s not too late! The twist to this story is…a WOMAN introduced me to this wise man that brought me into this group. Her compassion and desire to help me changed everything for me. That’s why I say.. Men vs Women must END! We need each other. Always have, Always will. Speaker: @lewishowes 👈🏾 show some love Credit: @thepivot 👈🏾 show some love Follow: @in_his_cont rol for more content!💯 #mens #men #mentalhealth #safespace #emotionalintelligence #love #realmen #women #menandwomen #healing #healthy #relationships #therapy #suicideawareness #pain by @in_his_control
Be careful what you ask for cus we out here😏 If you’re not ready for an emotionally intelligent man, then stick with Tyrone, Chad or whatever you want to call them immature males. There’s a new breed of men stepping forth who are no longer remaining silent as society has painted all men as predators, misogynistic, abusive or narcissistic. We’re not allowing ourselves to be categorized and group with these type of men any longer. So that means you’re dealing with real men who know how to carry themselves, take accountability, lead effectively and build up the people around them. Healthy relationships, communication , peace, good health and financial stability is what the norm is for us. We’re only interested in women who can contribute to these things, not take away and I know all my good women are out there looking for these kind of men as well so speak up ladies because we need our Queens! Men vs Women must END! We need each other. Always have, Always will. Speaker: @trippfontane 👈🏾 show some love Credit: @tonightsconversation 👈🏾 go follow Follow: @in_his_control for more content!💯 #dating #datingadvice #relationships #relationshipgoals #couple #couplegoals #marriage #marriagegoals #men #women #menandwomen #reallove #love #healthy #together #togetherforever by @in_his_control

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