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Happy birthday to the man I love!!! I made this wildland firefighter painting for my favorite firefighter <3

The best cheek to kiss! I love your dimples.

You’re welcome ❤️😛

I look like my brother! This is us as William Dafoe.

Morning before his modeling shoot so Bonita! by @its_lady_rayc

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Successful white boy Fourth of July thanks to Patrick! Partied like a real American 🦅 Fun time with friends 😊 #longestroadtripever taken in Big Bear Lake, California by @its_lady_rayc

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730! I adore you @basnightmmiv
You’re the Lord to my Ray. (Get it because we’re two things that go together??) thank you for being patient and kind and growing with me these last two years. 💞💕💋

You’re the best bun-dad a bunny mom could ever ask for. I love you!! <3 by @its_lady_rayc

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9 months ago

taken in New York, New York by @its_lady_rayc

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I love my bunny!!! by @its_lady_rayc

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a year ago

M.I.L.M.B.P (Man, I love my boyfriend’s photography!) 🔥 by @its_lady_rayc

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a year ago

Acting as of late ⏰
⚠️TW 3&4th slides A BEAR🫣‼️
⚠️slide 5,7,8 fake blood ‼️ by @its_lady_rayc

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Yay OMSI exhibit! We saw Jurassic World by Brickman, and got to make our own Lego dinosaurs. Cool. Brother sister date. 😊 by @its_lady_rayc

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2 years ago

For many black women, including myself, hair is an opportunity for self-expression. It’s an opportunity for artwork. Laura Perez believes everyone is an artist! There are so many ways to wear our hair and so much deep history behind many styles. Growing up in a white community as a mixed kid was difficult. I was the only black kid in my elementary school, which was a regular-sized one. My mom always had relaxers in her hair and my dad was bald. My mom wouldn’t let me get relaxers because she said they ruined her hair, so I wore my natural hair to school every day. It was long, almost down to my waist at one point, and a beautiful light brown with natural highlights. But I felt ugly. I wished I could do a braid chain with my friends and that I could wake up from a sleepover and not have bedhead ( curly girls know). I felt most beautiful when my mom would flat iron my hair every few months. I felt like I fit.
During COVID, my mom quit keratin treatments and started her loc journey. I remember I judged her for it and secretly thought it looked messy- what would people think when we went out? They always seemed to stare. Her hair didn’t fit everyone around us anymore.
I grew older, and looked inside myself and reflected on the hatred for my hair- and the idea it had to be perfect at all times, sleek, gel’d, straight, white. Making face, and making heart involves a labor of deconstruction and reconstruction. ( an idea by Laura Pereź- Making Face is a term assigned to the idea of how WOC have to endure expectations (usually oppressive or unfair in some way), and allows us to recreate ourselves, inside and outside.) I have deconstructed the idea of what I have to look like- what the right kind of Black woman has to look like and reconstructed a new version of myself. This March ( Today!) I will have had my locs for a full year:) I may not have them forever, but I know if I unloc it will be going go back to my curls and use them as my art form and tool of self-expression. by @its_lady_rayc

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The first and second pictures are from two different days but we wore the same outfits! 💕🤗

@morgans.digi by @its_lady_rayc

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