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Jaime Alejandra

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Sometimes we don’t choose what’s healthy….we choose what’s familiar. You can meet an amazing person who loves you well and still feel pulled toward the kind of love you grew up believing was “normal.” Healing is about becoming aware of those patterns, grieving what you didn’t receive, processing what you’ve carried, and slowly teaching yourself that love doesn’t have to hurt, confuse you, or keep you chasing by building that kind of loving relationship with yourself. This is also why I believe being single after a relationship can be so important. Give yourself time to understand what happened, what was yours to heal, and what you refuse to carry into the next relationship. And before we judge someone for the love they choose, remember, there’s usually a story underneath the pattern 🫶🏼

#healingjourney #attachmenthealing #relationshippatterns #innerchildhealing #selfawareness by @jayalejandra222

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Omg ladies…..Dale cuarentona is US now 🥹🙈🙊🐒

#fyp #reels #dalecuarentona #40 #humor by @jayalejandra222

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Welcome to my new followers 🫶🏼❤️🤗

Glad you’re here ✨

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He was super nice and friendly. When we arrived to D.R., staff were treating him with such honor and respect. He’s also a Senator in his town (Bonao City). An honor to have met him 🙏🙌🏼 Glad he wasn’t a talker during the flight 🤣 I had already had a horrible experience with a talker on my way to the airport 🥹 by @jayalejandra222

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Since apparently having standards is asking for too much, I decided to lower mine. How did I do? 🥴🤣

All jokes aside, there’s a difference between having unrealistic expectations and knowing what you value in a relationship. Nobody is perfect, and not every preference needs to be a deal-breaker. But there’s just things none of us should settle for such as kindness, respect, honesty, emotional maturity, and willingness to grow because those are qualities that contribute to healthy relationships.

And before anyone gets offended, remember that compatibility is personal. Someone not sharing your religious beliefs, interests, or lifestyle doesn’t make them a bad person or an unworthy partner. It simply means they may not be the right match for YOU. We all value different things, and that’s okay. The goal isn’t to find someone who checks everybody’s boxes. It’s to find someone whose values, character, and lifestyle align with yours.

Stop encouraging people to settleeeeeeeee damn it. Being in a relationship isn’t the goal. Being in a healthy, fulfilling relationship is and we need standardssssss for that ❤️😬 okay bye ✌🏼

#datingstandards #healthyrelationships #selfworth #fyp #reel by @jayalejandra222

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If you’re ready for love, let’s get intentional! ❤️ Stop focusing so much on what’s wrong with the dating world and start focusing on what YOU want to experience in a relationship. Get clear on the qualities you value in a partner, how you want to feel in that relationship, and how YOU plan to show up for your person. And please, don’t let other people’s negative experiences become your beliefs. Healthy, loving relationships exist. Know what you want, believe it’s possible, and make sure you’re embodying the qualities you’re looking for. Stay focused! ❤️

#intentionaldating #healthyrelationships #selfawareness #fyp #reels by @jayalejandra222

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Ghosting someone because you don’t want to sit with the discomfort of disappointing them doesn’t mean you’re avoiding hurting them. You’re actually creating more hurt. When you suddenly disappear from someone’s life, especially when things seemed to be going well, you can leave them feeling confused, anxious, questioning themselves, and wondering what went wrong. Your avoidance has an emotional impact on someone else. It’s okay to disappoint people. It’s okay to change your mind. But learn to sit with uncomfortable emotions and communicate like an adult. You can be honest and still be kind ❤️

#ghosting #emotionalmaturity #selfawareness #fyp #reels by @jayalejandra222

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Sometimes God will make you uncomfortable in situations you’ve become too comfortable tolerating. I ignored the signs, the discomfort, the anxiety, and everything within me telling me it was time to move on. Eventually, the life I knew and felt so comfortable in, fell apart. I lost my relationship, my home, my car, and my job. But what felt like everything falling apart was actually my life coming together in ways I couldn’t have imagined. I gained back everything I lost and so much more. I learned that sometimes the life we’re holding on to is the very thing standing between us and the life we’ve been praying for. The biggest lesson I learned was my own capacity, faith, courage and MF strength to get through tough times. Uffff#This is something rock bottom can’t take from you and its the thing that’s going to help you get to the other side of where you was always meant to be. Trust the processsssss pleaseeeee, even when you can’t see where it’s taking you✨

#trusttheprocess #spiritualgrowth #fyp #reels by @jayalejandra222

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#fyp #reels #spirituality #spiritual #health by @jayalejandra222

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What if your ancestors are trying to communicate with you through your dreams? ✨

What started as something so random led me down a beautiful journey of exploring my connection to my ancestors and the messages that may be coming through at 3 in the morning.

Sometimes guidance doesn’t come in the way we expect it to. Sometimes it’s through things that make absolutely no sense at first. If you’re into this kind of thing, I encourage you to set an intention to be open to receiving guidance. Ask for it, be open to receiving it, and pay attention to the signs. You can even ask for a specific sign ❤️

And if this is something that scares you, ask for the courage to receive it without fear. Maybe ask for the guidance to come through your dreams. That’s how I’ve connected with my dad. Although I’m not afraid of connecting with my ancestors, I don’t want to SEE anything because that would freak me TF out lol - I prefer to feel the energy of their protection, guidance, and love 😍

And when I say ancestors, I’m not just talking about loved ones who have recently passed, but the many generations that came before us. Something my therapist taught me is to be intentional about calling upon the ancestors who come from a place of love, protection, and guidance, rather than opening yourself up to energies you don’t wish to invite into your life ✨🤍

Such a great feeling to know we’re not navigating this journey alone. Life is harddddd. We can’t do this alone.

#ancestors #ancestralhealing #spiritualawakening #fyp #reels by @jayalejandra222

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If you keep attracting and choosing emotionally unavailable people, perhaps it’s time to explore how emotionally available you are to yourself 💥 I know you’re shocked. I was shocked too and said “meeeeee, I am the most emotional person I know.” 😆 Let me explain…

Do you allow yourself to feel your emotions, or do you suppress them? Do you acknowledge your needs, or do you dismiss them? Do you give yourself permission to be fully vulnerable, or have you learned to protect yourself by disconnecting from your feelings? We do all of these unintentionally and subconsciously. This is how you protect yourself because at one point you learned, “it is not safe to feel.”

Sometimes we become so focused on why someone else can’t show up for us emotionally that we forget to explore the ways we aren’t showing up for ourselves. Sometimes, emotional unavailability feels familiar because it’s what we experienced growing up. I know I did. We may consciously desire intimacy, connection, and vulnerability, yet feel uncomfortable when someone is actually capable of offering those things.

This isn’t about blaming yourself for someone else’s emotional unavailability. It’s about becoming curious about your own patterns. Ask yourself, “Why am I drawn to this person? What feels familiar about this dynamic? What am I avoiding within myself by continuing to pursue someone who cannot meet my emotional needs?” Uffff you’re going to discover a lot that’s been chilling beneath the surface.

The healing journey isn’t just about learning to recognize emotionally unavailable people. It’s also about learning how to become emotionally available to yourself 🫰🏼🙌🏼👌🏼🫶🏼💕

#attachmentstyles #emotionalavailability #selfawareness #healingjourney dating by @jayalejandra222

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Choosing a partner is one of the most important decisions you’ll ever make, so why wouldn’t you be intentional about it? We’ve been there, done that, and most importantly, we’ve LEARNED from those experiences! We know better now, and that means making more conscious decisions about who we allow into our lives.

Women do NOT lose their value with age! With age comes wisdom, experience, self-awareness, boundaries, and discernment. If you know who you are, what you bring to the table, and what you deserve, STAND ON THAT! Do not lower your standards because you’re older or because you’re a mother. Raise your level of intentionality, stay committed to what you desire, and do not settle! 💪🏼❤️

#selfworth #intentionaldating #knowyourworth #fyp #reels by @jayalejandra222

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