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In 48 hours, this changes. 👀

We built a system that helped us plan 3 Nigerian weddings in 90 days — traditional, court, and white — with no chaos, no debt, and no wedding planner.

Our wedding reached 1.5M+ views across social media and was featured on BellaNaija Weddings, Sugar Weddings, and ms_asoebi.

Not because we had the biggest budget. Because we had the right systems.

And we packaged every single one of those systems into one bundle:

💰 A budget tracker so no naira goes missing
💻 A full video walkthrough of how we managed guests, gifts, and our wedding website
🎨 A mood board so your vendors actually deliver your vision
📞 A vendor playbook with the exact questions that protect you from being cheated
🛍️ A complete shopping guide for all 4 wedding types
🎥 100 viral content ideas + editing guide to tell your story the way it deserves to be told

Total market value: ₦275,000
Current price: ₦5,000

In 48 hours that price is gone. Forever.

If you want to lock in ₦5,000 — drop your email via the link in bio before the clock runs out.

After that? The bundle launches at its full price and this offer disappears permanently.

Link in bio 👆 or comment PLANNING and I will send it straight to your DM.

📲 Send this to someone planning a wedding. You might just save them a lot of stress — and a lot of money.

#joyshilevlogs by @joyshile

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Just give me 12 minutes of your time 🧎🏽‍♀️

This morning, I woke up and was heading out without my ring… then I ran back inside like, wait—never again in this life. 😂

But like I promised, this is the story from my point of view.

Apparently, while I was doing medical tests and cutting my hair, decorations were going on in the studio. And honestly, I’m so glad we used the studio. I had always wanted just two possible places for my proposal: either my studio or my sister’s house—because my sister and her husband @mrandmrssho have been such a huge part of this relationship. And my studio has also been a catalyst for it.

For someone who doesn’t really go out, it’s hard to convince me to do a proper dinner date or a fancy restaurant. So if he really wanted to surprise me, he had to bring it home—and he understood the assignment perfectly.

How he managed to get my friends and family there is still a shock to me, because I had just one desire for my proposal: that the people I love would be present. And he delivered. Tobi delivered 100% and more.

If they say, “Show me a man of his word,” this is my man of his word—because he always delivers, over and beyond.

That day, I was foolishly playing around, thinking I was just having a normal day with my boyfriend, not knowing I was about to walk straight into my proposal.

It’s a yes now, and it’s a yes forever.
I love you, Tobi. I love you—and I know you know.

Thank you to all my friends. Thank you to my family. Thank you for all the wishes. I have about 700 messages on WhatsApp, and this is probably one of my most viral posts ever. I didn’t know you all loved me like this, but I am truly grateful.

@tolanialli you were a paid actor in all of this right 😂😂

So when people ask if this is a movie or if I’m acting… well, maybe when I’m married, we’ll ask that question again. But hey—maybe I’m just acting in my own movie. Who knows? 🤍✨

Pictures @tee_xclusivephotography
Content @faramadeit_ and co 😂
Book @mrandmrssho
Ring @berahhavensjewelry

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9 months ago

It's still #DyslexiaAwarenessMonth with the theme 'What's Your Story'.

At our workshop last year, @joyshile, a representative of @onewordafrica shared with us her story of how she discovered she has dyslexia and ADHD. She also mentioned some assistive technology like Speechify, Youtube, Grammarly, Notion, Google apps, and other AI tools that helped her a lot in her dyslexic journey.

Dyslexia is not linked to intelligence; people with dyslexia are smart beings. She also mentioned it's always good to ask for help as a person with dyslexia. Catch the replay of her session on our Youtube channel. 🚀

We are celebrating the stories, abilities, and achievements of people with dyslexia.
Now tell us, what's your story?
When and how did you find out you have dyslexia?
How has the journey been for you?
What has helped you so far?
What help have you taken?

Let's know your #dyslexia story, this would help someone out there. We look forward to hearing from you in the comments.

#WhatsYourStory #DyslexiaAwareness #Neurodiversity #SupportDyslexia #DyslexiaNigeria #CodisaFoundation by @joyshile

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2 years ago

Meet my vlogging buddy 🎥✨
You asked, so here are the answers to your questions 👀

📷 What is it?
The DJI Osmo Nano @djiglobal @dji_nigeria @osmo_global , a tiny, lightweight vlogging camera (about 49g!). It shoots up to 4K at 60fps, plus 4K at 120fps and 1080p at 240fps for slow motion. It comes with a magnetic lanyard and a suction mount.

💰 How much?
I paid ₦581k in Oct 2025 😭 Today it’s about ₦413k on Amazon UK. (Excludes shipping to Nigeria.)

🤔 Why did I get it?
I didn’t want a device I have to hold up before I shoot. In public places, holding a phone or a big camera can feel awkward, and sometimes unsafe. The Nano is so tiny that I’m done recording before anyone notices 😌 And the magnetic body lets me stick it on surfaces and go hands-free.

🆚 Why not the Osmo Pocket 3?
It’s a great camera, but it’s more noticeable. I wanted discretion when I shoot in public.

🎨 Can you shoot Log?
Yes! It shoots 10-bit D-Log M, perfect for colour grading.

📲 Where can I use the footage?
Every platform: Instagram, TikTok, YouTube. It’s great for creative shots too 🎬

🙋🏾‍♀️ Who would I recommend it to?
Anyone who’s shy about starting their content creation journey and doesn’t want anything noticeable. Most times, people don’t even know I’m filming, and I don’t get carried away with a big gear setup 🙌🏾

📌 Save this for when you’re ready to start (or upgrade) your vlogging journey!

What else do you want to know? 👇🏾

#JoyShileVlogs #TMGUGCChallenge #UGCWithTheMediaGirl #DJIOsmoNano #OsmoNano DJI VloggingCamera CreatorGear ContentCreatorTips UGCCreator UGCNigeria by @joyshile

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Tell me a simple meal I can add to my meal bank in the comment section

But for me today I think egg sauce is the star of the occasion cause it goes with almost everything 🥹🥹🥹

#joyshilevlogs #TMGUGCChallenge #UGCWithTheMediaGirl by @joyshile

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3 days ago

📌 Save this video so you don’t forget it!

You asked how I mirror my phone to my laptop… here’s how 👀💻

⚠️ Before you start: make sure your Wi-Fi, AirDrop and Bluetooth are turned ON. This activates the connection between your devices.

It’s simple, and if you’re a solo creator, you can use it to see and control your shots while you film yourself 🎥🙌🏾

I hope this helps! 💛

#JoyShileVlogs #TMGUGCChallenge #UGCWithTheMediaGirl #iPhoneMirroring #iPhoneTips MacTips SoloCreator ContentCreatorTips TechTips UGCCreator UGCNigeria by @joyshile

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3 days ago

No light in my house right now… but I still have light to shoot 👀💡

Meet our itel Power Tank, one of our best buys of 2026. And it cost just 450,000 with the solar panel 🔥🔥🔥(minus connection to the whole house)

Honestly? I wasn’t sold at first. I said, “Why the rush? Let’s wait for reviews.” Then we did the math: ₦150k on fuel every month. Three months of fuel already covered the price 😮‍💨

About 5 months later, that’s over ₦600k we didn’t spend on fuel 💰

✅ Powers my softbox, laptop and the workstation
✅ Charges everything
✅ Fan on all night = good sleep 😴
✅ Charges from a solar panel during the day, and fast-charges when there’s light

Honest tip: It’s best for 3 bedrooms and below. Power only what you need at a time. If you overload it, it shows an error and shuts off, so remove the load and it comes back on in a minute.

Was it worth the hype? Totally. 🔥

Shout out to @itelenergy_nigeria @itelnigeria @itelsmartlife for solving our problems

#JoyShileVlogs #TMGUGCChallenge #UGCWithTheMediaGirl #itelPowerTank #itel SolarPower PowerTank NoMoreGenerator LagosLiving UGCCreator UGCNigeria by @joyshile

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4 days ago

Even though I have not cooked every meal, every time I cook my husband always asks what can help me make cooking easier, well I placed my bet on a food processor from @centuryelectronics_ and I can’t wait to try new recipes 💯💯💯

Shout out to @cdcare_ng cause we paid twice but got it immediately 💯💯💯

#JoyShileVlogs #TMGUGCChallenge #UGCWithTheMediaGirl by @joyshile

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5 days ago

Something I picked up from @_themediagirl UGC class: people don’t only pay the most talented. They pay the people who show up.

So I’ve given myself a personal challenge to show up every day. How long? I’m not telling you 🤐 Every time I announce something, life happens. So this time, I’m keeping it quiet and letting the consistency speak.

Today was a busy one in church, so I’ll be catching up on the full service online tonight 🙏🏾

Thanks for spending Sunday with me 💛 How was your Sunday? Tell me below 👇🏾

Have an amazing week ahead!

#JoyShileVlogs #TMGUGCChallenge #UGCWithTheMediaGirl #SundayVlog #ShowUp ConsistencyIsKey UGCCreator UGCNigeria LagosCreator by @joyshile

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3 DAYS LEFT NOW OOOO FAST ACTION IS REQUIRED

If you’ve been holding back, here’s what I want you to know:
✅ Don’t trust it? I started exactly where you are.
✅ Steps too long? I used the link in my bio with Just your BVN and bank details, and you’re done in minutes.
✅ Not a lot of money? The minimum is just ₦5,250 (10 shares).

⏳ The offer closes Tuesday, 13 October.
👉🏾 Click the link in my bio to buy your shares.

Not financial advice. Shares can go up or down. Only invest what you can afford.

#JoyShileVlogs #TMGUGCChallenge #UGCWithTheMediaGirl #DangoteIPO #DangoteRefinery InvestingNigeria NigerianInvestors FinancialLiteracy UGCCreator UGCNigeria by @joyshile

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Budget wedding requires shamelessness 👀👀 who agrees

And most importantly structure to help you keep to your budget and communicate your vision to your vendors

After planning our debt free wedding we realized that it’s possible for everyone to have one too.

So we put in all the materials that we used and created ….

THE NIGERIAN BUDGET WEDDING BUNDLE
11 Resources

TOOLS & TRACKERS

1. Wedding Budget & Expense Tracker (Excel)
2. Interactive Wedding Shopping Tracker (Excel with dropdowns, auto-calculating totals, Buy or Rent options)

VIDEO WALKTHROUGH
3. Personal Video Walkthrough of With Joy (website setup, RSVP, gift registry, guest management)
PLANNERS & GUIDES
4. Mood Board & Vision Planner (Canva editable template)
5. Vendor Playbook (9 vendors, questions + red flags + expert planner voice notes)

CHECKLISTS & TIMELINES
6. 30-Day Wedding Countdown Checklist
7. 12-Month Wedding Planning Timeline
8. 6-Month Wedding Planning Timeline

CONTENT & STORYTELLING
9. Storytelling & Content Pack (100 viral content ideas + filming guide + editing tutorial)

DELEGATION & COMMUNICATION
10. Wedding Day Delegation Guide (bride and groom train roles)
11. Wedding Guest Message Templates (6 real WhatsApp broadcasts Joy sent to her guests)

FREE BONUS

Nigerian Wedding Vendor List (every vendor Joy & Tobi used — names, numbers, Instagram)

Price: ₦25,000

#budgetwedding #joyshilevlogs #weddingplanning by @joyshile

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