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julia stochaj | personal growth

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🎥 documenting my journey to the life I want
✨ sharing mistakes, lessons & little wins
🤍 follow along as I figure it out
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a creative, traveller, hobbyist, true crime enthusiast, dreamer, hard-worker, survivor, actor, photographer, content creator, hiker, family person….

the list goes on and on…

i’m not just one thing, i’m many

I’m chaotic, I can’t make up my mind, so i’m all of it!

i’m sure there’s many people who can relate to liking more than just one thing.

let’s unite here 🤍 by @jstochaj

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6 days ago

I have standards

I respect myself

I won’t work twice as hard to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t match the energy

I won’t fall for someone who doesn’t go above and beyond

I won’t fix anyone

I won’t wait for nothing

I won’t play the “dating guess game”

We are adults, we can act like adults

The key is to not ghost but confront

Communication and loyalty is the first step in right direction

#dating #standards #relatable #lovelife relationship #relationship relatable love life single by @jstochaj

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3 months ago

if there’s one thing i’ve learned it’s this:

there’s no perfect timing. there’s no way to please everyone. there’s no one right way to live a life.

i’ve tried to make everyone happy and in exchange i got really anxious, was overthinking a lot, questioned myself and eventually had a breakdown…

then i started making choices for myself and my life got better!

i’m not waiting for anything anymore

because i know it’ll happen when i don’t expect it! by @jstochaj

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8 days ago

no because what do you mean corpo life is the life?

why do we let economy drive us?

why don’t we go out more?

why are we being sold the idea that you’re only successful if you have money?

yes, i get. money gives you freedom. but is it worth spending your whole life in that small office room?

life should be about balance, not 65 years of hard work just to MAYBE enjoy 15 of it…

remember, we’re not getting out of this al!ve so might as well enjoy the process! by @jstochaj

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12 days ago

i used to say “i’ll start on monday” or “this is my new years resolution”…

i understand how stupid that sounds now

there is never a good time to start, i just had to do it…

and that was the hardest part, changing my routine,

but once i got into a habit of it, it became so much easier

now i can’t imagine my life being different from what it is right now

it’s just one small step at a time, but works miracles…

trust the process, it’s worth it! by @jstochaj

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18 days ago

I wish…

1. I focused on myself. I started going to the gym, ignoring other’s opinions, wearing what i wanted, focused on hobbies i liked and with time i build confidence. I don’t think negativity about myself at all.

2. I always wanted to be an actor and after i moved that’s what i tried. I started submitting my self tapes to projects in my area and funny enough, they let me be part of them! So now I’ve starred in few short films and couldn’t be happier!

3. As a kid i was scared. As a teen i was insecure. Now, i’m happy the way i am. After removing myself from the negative environment that broke me, I’ve learned that living peacefully is what i needed!

4. I used to have so many friends. But when i moved only 1 stayed in touch with me. I met people after that, but we’re not that close. They’re all supportive and really nice! And those are exactly the people i need in my life!

5. Experiences over money. I live by that. I don’t want to have regrets at the end of my life. I want to make sure that i lived, that i traveled, that i went to shows, that i tried new hobbies…

It’s all possible!! 🫶🤍

What’s the thing you’re most proud of?

#storytellingcontentchallenge #storytelling @jun_yuh @creatorcollege_ by @jstochaj

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a month ago

Few facts here:
- i only got my AA in Business
- I’m international student
- have no connections

So yeah I’m limited to just business field. But luckily, business is pretty broad. And yet it was hard!

“We loved you’re resume but at this time we can’t sponsor you”

I’ve heard this soooo maaany times

But I wasn’t looking for sponsorship, I was looking for a job?!

And thanks to that experience I figured out what I want to do in life… have something on my own…

I’m not sharing it yet, but you’ll know about it soon enough!

So, hang in there everybody! Someone will see the potential in you!

#storytellingcontentchallenge #storytelling #immigrant #job by @jstochaj

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a month ago

for a long time i was emotionless. i was on autopilot

but one day i decided i didn’t like that…

i moved across the world to find some peace…

and i did!

i met people who encouraged me to be myself, to express my emotions, to say what i thought…

and eventually i started trying doing the things i always wanted as a kid…

going places on my own, pottery, acting classes, photography walks, acting and now content creating! (and more!)

it was weird at first but with time i learned to be happy and free…

i found the piece of myself i thought was missing

but it was only surrounded by people who didn’t want to see me succeed 🥹🤍

Day 16/21

#storytellingcontentchallenge #storytelling @jun_yuh @creatorcollege_ #creatorcollege by @jstochaj

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a month ago

for a long time i thought i was behind…

not having as many milestones by that age as my family did

but i did my life differently than my family altogether.

i took risks, moved out across the world, got a degree in different language, got a job related to my studies…

yet it took me longer to get there than i thought

i really thought i’d have my life all figured out by now, but I’m figuring it out as i go!

Day 15/21

#storytellingcontentchallenge #storytelling @jun_yuh @creatorcollege_ #creatorcollege by @jstochaj

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a month ago

Dating in 2026 is not for the weak…

Like why is it so hard to find a decent person?

Not perfect, just right

Someone who actually would like to be interested in building life together?

Where are all these people? by @jstochaj

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2 months ago

Just went to the screening of my very recent short film! @seattle48hfp

Directed by @stuntindus for @teamspitting

It was so awesome to work with all these amazing people tagged in the photo!

Also, this music is my new favorite! So check it out on Spotify!

“Bumpin” by Jen and Dusty for @wishmission

And all the other films in my screening group were so creative and good! Jeez I love it!

Oh and if you comment “TRAILER”, I’ll post it later!

PS. One of the actresses from a different tram in my screening group, happens to be an actress I’ll work with later this month on another project!

#acting #moviepremiere #seattle48hfp #fashion acting movie premiere seattle 48hfp fashion taken in Seattle, Washington by @jstochaj

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3 months ago

Mind of a serial killer! Seattle! 🙌

How do I even start?!

I am a crime junkie, love all kind of crime things

And this was just AMAZING!

I was able to : get my youth bl00d bath

Go through the “Dexter” vibe doors multiple times

Feel like a criminal

Drive Ted Bundy’s car

Cook a meal like Jeffrey Dahmer

Watch some de@d bodies swinging from the ceiling

Turn into toxin

Sit on the railroad

Be video taped in bed (kinda OF vibe)

And finished with solving the VR crime

What an experience!

Go visit @mindofakiller.experience

Thank you @ale__motomami for taking my photos 🫶

#crime #truecrime true crime taken in Seattle, Washington by @jstochaj

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