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I gave the girlies the assignment of “black and sparkly” before we even saw @celinedion take the stage - A GOOD CALL! This lewk serves c-ñ! and I own it and take credit for the vision although I had tons of collaborators.

I love to collab on art and this lewk is iconique. It made me feel like a star! I was recently called the c word in a sense other than a compliment, and you know what; I SERVED IT RIGHT TO THE PERSON WHO ORDERED IT. I know who I am and if that makes me anything to you that you don’t like, that’s your opinion and I respect it and I also respectfully don’t give a damn.

I will always live my life authentically and if you think copying and pasting this to someone who has blocked me is helping them that’s up to you to decide, but I’d wager a no on that.

There is one Dr. Dave and I have nothing to hide. I’m a good person and act in good faith. Say what you will; preferably to my face, but I’m sick of hearing it from bitches who need to focus on themselves. Please block or unfollow me if I don’t bring you joy. Bless.

Vision - Dr. Dave
Pants - custom by @viixviisewingstudiollc
Shoes - @aomishoes
Necklace - @amazon
Nails - @amazon
Lenses - @prada
Bag - @nastypig
Hood/crown - @deliciousboutique
Shirt - @differio
Jacket - custom on Etsy; SuhkesBySukhbir

AI was used in a photo editing manner. Message me for the original pics if you’re curious. I consider it part of the art and acknowledge if you feel it’s inauthentic, but difference is mainly for mise-en-scene and same thing photo editors have done for years in magazines. 2ns and 3rd photos did not use AI, Just insta and iPhone edits to remove trash etc.

🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 by @laphamda

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Predicting a beautiful day for y’all
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#GayMen #MensStyle #FitOver40 #TattooedMen #GayFitness by @laphamda

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18 days ago

Climbed a lot of mountains in my last 40 years. Had a lot of landslides. And let me tell you - I’m all about the landslides because every one has brought me closer to who I really am, which is also constantly changing.

Some people fear landslides. They can be scary; let me tell you. But I’d really lean into them as they are changing the landscape because the universe is ultimately clearing unstable terrain to make way for something more beautiful. Let it happen. taken in Fire Island, New York by @laphamda

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23 days ago

A Pool Party I’m Proud To Post:

I’ve never believed we’re supposed to stay inside the boxes we were born into.

I love being surrounded by people of different races, cultures, ethnicities, nationalities, genders, sexualities, ages, and backgrounds. I want the table big, the dance floor packed, and everyone invited. 🌎❤️

I feel especially at home in Latino culture—and deeply connected to Mexico: the warmth, the passion, the family, the celebration, the way people love loudly and live fully. 🇲🇽

That connection is part of my cultural identity, even though it isn’t my ancestry. I definitely have Mayan in my soul lineage.

Different backgrounds. Different stories. Different ways of loving and living. Same dance floor.

Thanks to all these beautiful humans for giving me the best pool party I’ve ever attended.

Much love from your local queer, homo-flexible, polyamorous, cis white man; beach boy, trauma surgeon on the side. Mexican-identifying and Latino-adjacent; Dr. Dave. There’s only one of me, and there’s only one of you! CELEBRATE IT!

More cultures. More connection. More love. More life. 🪩🌈 taken in The Summer Club NYC by @laphamda

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24 days ago

I did not labor yesterday! Back the the real world today. Thank you to all who served to keep us a free and beautiful country 🩵
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#gaysofinstagram #fashionista #menswear #brooklyn #mensswimwear taken in The Summer Club NYC by @laphamda

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25 days ago

Pool party? I guess I’ll stop by.

Style by @kristinstangl_
Photo by @soph.wein
Venue @summerclubnyc

Vision: Dr. Dave by @laphamda

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25 days ago

Feeling my orange oats today! by @laphamda

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a month ago

The Tattoo - Celine Dion

@celinedion is making her comeback! When I saw her on The Eiffel Tower in 2024 at the Summer Olympics I was so moved and inspired that I now have the tattoo which symbolizes my midlife metamorphosis. I was moved to quaking sobs; even though I didn’t speak French, I knew exactly what she was saying. She sang to my soul and I’ve come to listen to my soul through my life experiences.

I actually used AI (@googlegemini) to help me design the tattoo. I sent a photo (me on the surfboard in Panama, in this post) and described how I wanted it. I then brought it to the artist who stuck it on exactly how I wanted it. The Panama trip (brought to me by the amazing @capi.taco) was also life-changing and soul-feeding.

Now I can’t stop thinking about seeing her in 2 weeks to fulfill the vow I made when I saw her perform in the tower. WHEN she comes back, I’ll be there to witness this superpower in real life. To be in her presence is going to be life-changing. And that’s a definite theme of year 40 for me!!!

I am adding a link to the whole story in my bio - Please give it a read and spread my love if you feel inspired! taken in Paris, France by @laphamda

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a month ago

Caption downloading….

Those who know me know I love a story, so enjoy this video of me in pure bliss while I write it. Or should I film it?

💙Dr. Dave💙 taken in Fire Island, New York by @laphamda

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a month ago

I celebrate you all! ✨ by @laphamda

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a month ago

Daddy’s little mermaid
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#angel #daddyslilgirl #waterdogs #boatday #frenchie by @laphamda

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2 months ago

🚨HOT SUIT ALERT🚨

if you’re looking for a conversation or statement piece – looking no further. You guys know I have the best recommendation for a WOW suit. This thing is for special occasions (or when you’re just feeling yourself!)

Check out Pim’s suits @calaswim.forhim and @calaswim.thelabel (thank you for gifting these beautiful suits!) and tell her Dr. Dave sent you!

🎥edit by @regioinpv5
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#swimwear #mensswimwear #handbeaded #fashionable #mensbeachwear by @laphamda

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