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Laura Lee, Psychologist & S3×ologist

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Hey hello hi! I'm so enormously grateful you've found your way here, here's a little about me 💖 by @lauraleesexology

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a year ago

This can be a really tough gig sometimes, but never in my career have I felt more sure that I'm right where I'm supposed to be 💖 by @lauraleesexology

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a year ago

OK I'm realising now why it explains 20 minutes for me to answer when people ask what my job is!! But honestly the variety is so fun, I wouldn't have it any other way 💖 by @lauraleesexology

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a year ago

If you're wondering about this, DM me & let's chat about your Christmas party, team offsite, workshop- whatever you have in mind, let's see if it's a good fit ✨️ by @lauraleesexology

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10 hours ago

I was so glad I got asked this question because it really made me think about how NORMAL it is to go through the changes in connection and feeling and desire.

Sometimes even in the same day, or the same hour!

These 3 things are simple, but they make a huge difference and they become more natural with practice 🩷💛

#psychologist #relationships #connection #sexologisttips #communication by @lauraleesexology

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Santa!!

Be back here tomorrow for a sneak peek inside the @wildsecrets.official advent calendar 🔥🫦 by @lauraleesexology

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I used to think number 8 with a myth 🥰 by @lauraleesexology

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6 days ago

Tickets are on sale for our last Melbourne event for 2026! 👀😈

12.11 at @younghearts.melbourne - get your tickets now ❤️‍🔥

#whatsonmelbourne #trivia taken in younghearts.melbourne by @lauraleesexology

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7 days ago

Picture this:

You're having one of THOSE days. Everything is hard, work goes wrong, boss is a nightmare, traffic hideous, kids challenging.

You go to your partner in overwhelm, pour your heart out, feeling so sad & overloaded & frustrated & alone.

And they respond something like:
'It'll be better tomorrow' or
'I get it, my day sucked too' or
'Can I make you a tea?'

None of these responses are objectively bad, but in them you might notice a sense of being... missed somehow. Like your pain wasn't heard. Like your partner can't be with you in your difficult moment. It feel like it's the end of the conversation.

Now imagine if beyond saying one of those things your partner first replied with something like:
'I'm so glad you told me, that sounds so overwhelming. I can see how much you had on your plate today.'

THIS is the power of responding first with a validating statement. Something that conveys 'I see you, you matter, and I can hold your emotions, we don't have to rush away from them.'

Can you feel the difference?

#psychologist #relationships #communication by @lauraleesexology

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8 days ago

🚨NOT A DRILL 🚨

📢 Cliterally Trivia merch has arrived!!!!

We have:

💖 Daddy tees available for pre-order in 2 styles

AND

💖 3 keyring designs - including buying all 3 in a bundle (because why choose?)

Shop our store now via the link in our bio, or drop a little 🔥 below & we'll send you the link 🌶 by @lauraleesexology

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11 days ago

I say these things a lot because, quite simply, they are so important for people to hear.

It is totally game changing for the lower desire partner to hear, perhaps for the first time, that their desire is doing exactly what we'd expect it to do.

It makes sense.

YOU make sense. by @lauraleesexology

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15 days ago

Good advice.

#smut #sexybookclub #sistine by @lauraleesexology

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