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Ash 💙

@loves_success

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Book enthusiasts, college student #snhu, massage therapist/esthetician, all things neuroscience! Owner of Body Alchemist Co.

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I just want to be the best version of me! Grateful for life and the people I have in it! God is good! 🦋🧚🏾‍♂️😏💙✨✨✨ by @loves_success

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It’s almost time and I can’t wait lol Disney on Ice, Bday baecation, Doja Cat…so much to look forward too! All positive, happy vibes! I transmute anything else! 🦂🦋🧚🏾‍♂️😏✨✨ by @loves_success

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🙏🏽💯🦋🧚🏾‍♂️ by @loves_success

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New adventures! 🥹❤️ I’m so nervous but so excited! After 9 1/2 years of massaging, I decided to step outside my comfort zone and try something new, substitute teaching! All while running my business and going to school. I haven’t signed up for my first day yet because I’m nervous asf 😂 but I’m really looking forward to this new journey! Here’s to trying new things and not being afraid to grow! ❤️ by @loves_success

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I cry and laugh at the same time. Laundry, phone calls, no shows, inventory, paperwork, Marketing! I run every department. It’s the laundry and marketing for me 🙃😩‼️I love it so much but it’s not easy. Bout to build me a solid team tho fr! by @loves_success

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It’s my Dad’s Birthday!!!! Olivolouis dad I love you so much! I know we don’t talk like we should, I’m working on it! My love for you is beyond words! I spent 30 yrs only knowing your name and birthdate! God knew all I ever wanted was to know my dad! I’m so grateful to have you in my life and my kids have a grandfather! I know I don’t know my sister but I’m grateful I look like her cuz she’s half the reason I found you lol The boys and I love you very much! Can’t wait to come surprise you! I know you don’t celebrate, but to me you deserve all the celebration and love!!! I love you dad! 😘🤗❤️ by @loves_success

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Idk why people mock ADHD or think having it is cute or some type of trend. It’s actually very frustrating, and I hate it personally.

Once I was diagnosed with ADHD and autism, I started realizing how much I struggled throughout my life and how much I missed out on simply because I didn’t understand myself.

When my doctor told me it was considered a disability, I felt ashamed. Because in my mind, I’m functioning. I do what I have to do, but behind the scenes I struggle with some of the most basic things. Then add a sprinkle of autism in there and just WHYYYY 😩😂

Everything looks good until you’re actually around me. I either can’t stop talking, I’m too quiet, I’m overly excited, or I don’t want to be bothered. There’s literally no in between with me!

I wish I knew what it felt like to just be sleepy and go to sleep. I can be completely exhausted, but my brain is still going.

Some days I’m stuck for hours, and other days I can’t stop moving. I’m a perfectionist in certain areas of my life, and I wish I could apply that same energy to the areas where I struggle the most.

Friendships, relationships, everyday responsibilities, all of it takes a hit. Sometimes I avoid people because it’s easier than trying to explain myself. And speaking up about it is both nerve wracking and relieving.

Since it’s World Mental Health Day, I wanted to share this part of myself because people really don’t understand what they don’t see.

And PLEASE, when someone tells you they have ADHD or autism, stop responding with “we all have a little ADHD” or “everybody’s a little autistic.” No, y’all don’t. 😩 Having a few relatable traits is not the same as living with something that affects your everyday life.

I’m still learning myself, understanding myself, and unlearning years of thinking I was just difficult or not trying hard enough. I can be high functioning in one area and completely struggling in another. Both can be true. And just because someone makes it look easy doesn’t mean it is. ❤️ by @loves_success

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I need a haircut bad as hell but look at my business shirt!! I’m so excited!! The Body Alchemist by @loves_success

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13 days ago

As I fight the board for a paper I wrote, I loved the reaction when they realized I had actual notebook paper with notes, outlines and structure of how I put my papers together. I don’t use the computer only for research and writing the actual paper. The one thing in life that will carry you through every challenge is authenticity and integrity. They try to make us seem dumb now Ai is around, but they don’t know I use to write the dictionary and bible when I was grounded as a kid. Love a good notebook and pen, Ai could never! by @loves_success

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Sometimes I need to slow down and get my mind right. Raising kids is not easy, running a business is challenging, going to college full time is hard, but everyday I am grateful! Today I just needed fresh air. It was too beautiful not to share with you all! 🧘🏽‍♀️🤗🦋🧚🏾‍♂️🖤✨ #oceanview #oceancitynj #beachlife #peaceofmind❤️ #selflove taken in Ocean City, New Jersey by @loves_success

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19 days ago

My studio ceiling needs a makeover asap! Someone suggested I put clouds with lights. I was going to pop them out and spray paint them. Either way I need a new ceiling look. What yall think I should do? by @loves_success

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