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And we got married within a year of meeting each other.

One thing I’ve learned from my own relationship is that there’s no universal timeline for knowing when someone is right for you.

I met my husband on Hinge. We got serious, made big decisions, and got married within a year. And no, I’m not saying everyone should move that fast.

I’m saying that your relationship doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s.

Some people know quickly. Some people take years. Some people date for a decade before getting married, and some people meet on an app and somehow end up planning a wedding.

The important part isn’t how quickly it happens; it’s whether you’re making decisions that actually feel right for you.

we’re all just on our own timeline. 🤍

online dating | dating | relationships | marriage | hinge | storytelling by @lyfisharsh

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It wasn’t easy;) but we’re there 🤍

follow for my curly hair journey 🤍 by @lyfisharsh

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For years, I’ve struggled to consistently create content. I’d start, stop, overthink it, get busy, and eventually put it aside again.

But having my husband support me and genuinely make space for me to pursue this has changed so much. I finally feel like I can give myself permission to actually try — without constantly feeling like I should be doing something else.

So I’m starting again, and this time I’m genuinely excited to see where it goes. 🤍

Follow along; I’d love for you to be part of the journey.

#storytellingcontentchallenge by @lyfisharsh

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my mom deleted all my tiktok drafts in 2015

Not on purpose, of course

I started making TikToks when I was 15. Most of them would probably make me cringe today, but sometimes I wonder where I’d be if I’d actually posted them.

I’ve always been the girl who records everything. The videos, the ideas, the little moments. I just wasn’t always brave enough to put them out there.

I even started a YouTube channel and grew it to almost 7,000 subscribers. And then I stopped.

Fast forward to 2026, and I’m trying again. Except this time, I overthink more than I’d like to admit, and creating content doesn’t come as naturally as it used to.

It’s been two months of wondering if I’m even going in the right direction.

But I keep coming back to the same question: what if I’d never stopped trying?

I’ve spent enough years making videos that never saw the light of day.

I’d rather give this a real chance than wonder about it for another 10 years, even if I don’t have a direction whatsoever.

If you’ve been sitting on a dream for years, maybe we can figure it out together? by @lyfisharsh

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Things we’re figuring out around here ♡

✳︎ lifting weights & getting stronger (without obsessing over getting smaller)

✳︎ learning to eat well, fuel our bodies & build a healthier relationship with food

✳︎ low-tox living, decoding ingredient labels & making better everyday swaps

✳︎ realistic wellness, habits & routines that actually stick

✳︎ the inside-out glow-up: confidence, femininity, discipline & personal growth

✳︎ questioning hustle culture & building a life that leaves room for actually living

✳︎ unlearning expectations, figuring out adulthood & becoming ourselves without losing our personalities

Not here to pretend I have it all figured out. Just learning, experimenting & sharing what I discover along the way.

If any of this sounds like your kind of corner of the internet, come hang out 🤍 taken in Windsor, Ontario by @lyfisharsh

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and no, this isn’t just for married couples ↓

It might feel weird calling a date with your partner a meeting, but trust me, your head feels lighter when you’re not constantly guessing, assuming, or trying to figure everything out on your own.

We meet every two weeks to check in on our health, finances, relationship, and personal goals. It helps us turn big conversations into calender events that help us stay on track and make sure we’re actually on the same page.

Would you try this with your partner? Let me know if you’d like me to share more about how we structure our check-ins.

♡ by @lyfisharsh

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best tasting milk of my life btw by @lyfisharsh

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The problem was never discipline.

It was trying to turn my whole life into a routine overnight.

That version of me always looked great for about three days… then real life happened and I’d feel behind all over again.

What changed was realizing I didn’t need a perfect morning, a perfect week, or a completely different personality.
I just needed a life that could hold the habits I wanted to keep.

Start smaller. Stay longer. Build the girl later.

There’s a concept for this: Minimum Viable Process (MVP); making a habit so small and manageable that you can realistically sustain it every day.

Lmk in the comments if you relate a teeny tiny bit

mindset, skills, that girl, crunchy girl, non tox, mvp, healthy habits by @lyfisharsh

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1. A decision can be 100% right for you and still disappoint people you love. and its okay.

2. You are allowed to be proud of a life that would not have impressed your 21-year-old self.

3. Not every version of you deserves to be brought into your future. Bad b*tches keep evolving .

4. Stop waiting for your life to look more and more impressive before you let yourself enjoy it.

5. uncertainty is NOT a warning sign. Sometimes the life you want begins where certainty ends.

5. You don’t need to turn every experience into a goddam LESSON before you’re allowed to move on. Give yourself some grace girl.

7. Being self-sufficient is a strength. But its different from convincing yourself you should never need anyone. Know the difference 🤍

Drop your bad B advice in the comments
lmk if you want a part 2 ?🧚🏽‍♀️

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mindset, growth, girl community, for the girlies by @lyfisharsh

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Sometimes what feels like a detour is just divine timing.

I spent so long trying to force the life I thought I was supposed to have, only to realize that maybe the pauses, pivots, and unexpected chapters were making space for the things I kept putting off.

Maybe the universe really does know when to move things around for you.

moving countries, fun-employed by @lyfisharsh

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for a long time, I thought I was behind because my life didn’t look the way I expected it to.

I thought certain things were supposed to happen at certain ages. But looking back, so many of the things that shaped me happened earlier; and often in ways I never planned.

I’m realizing that maybe there isn’t a “right” age for any of it. You can take a different path, change your mind, start over, or arrive somewhere earlier than you expected.

Maybe being on your own timeline doesn’t mean you’re behind. Maybe it means you’re actually living your own life.

Cr: @kechi.girl

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divine timing, right age, lawyer, unemployed, fun-employed by @lyfisharsh

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eventually all roads back to when you were a kid

curly hair, natural curlyhead, heat damage, curly hair girlies etc etc by @lyfisharsh

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