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Madison Wheatley

@madiwh__

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ITS HERE 🚨🩷

The guide that changes the way you see dating & relationships and makes you take responsibility for what you allow.

This is the guide I wish I had before I learned the hard way.

It’s built from my own experience of going from an abusive relationship, being cheated on, accepting breadcrumbs and abandoning my own standards - to becoming the woman I am today.

The woman who knows her worth.
The woman who doesn’t chase, beg or settle.
The woman who says no to breadcrumbs and no longer confuses potential with compatibility.

Because dating isn’t just about finding the right man.
It’s about becoming the woman who is no longer willing to accept what isn’t right for her.

Inside, you’ll find:

♡ Mindset reframes that shift the way you show up in dating
♡ The Post Date Power Check-In : so you stop analysing him and start checking in with you
♡ Wounded vs. Healed Feminine frameworks
♡ How to set standards and actually stick to them
♡ Feminine energy & self-worth
♡ Faith-led dating reflections
♡ Journal prompts to help you get honest with yourself
♡ And so much more

If you’re tired of overthinking, making excuses for him, accepting the bare minimum or losing yourself in dating...

This guide is for you.

Stop asking, “Does he like me?”
Start asking, “Do I even like him?” 🪽

Link in bio by @madiwh__

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4 months ago

Reminders for the girls 🪽 by @madiwh__

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6 months ago

He heard & answered 🪽

For years, I worked on myself. I looked at my patterns, grew, evolved and changed my life for the better.

But every now and then, I would slip back into those old patterns looking for validation, drinking, partying, chasing people or trying to fill an emptiness I couldn’t quite explain.

My life looked fun from the outside, but I was so lonely.

I couldn’t figure out what was missing.

In January 2025, I woke up and decided to take a break from drinking.

I had no idea that one decision would completely change the direction of my life.

As I became sober, I started getting curious about faith. I felt this pull towards God, something I had never believed in, never understood and honestly never thought would be “me.”

By May, I asked a friend if I could go to church with her, just to see what it was like.

I cried the entire time.

And I made the decision to know Jesus.

For almost a year, I kept showing up. I kept learning. I kept seeking.

And in April 2026, I made the decision to get baptised. 🕊️

Nothing in my life has ever given me the peace I have found in God.

For the first time, I don’t feel like I’m walking through this life alone.

I know that everything can be taken from me
people, money, possessions, circumstances and I will still have my relationship with God. And I know that will get me through anything this lifetime brings.

No person.
No substance.
No addiction.
No amount of money.

Nothing can satisfy like the presence of God.

My life is now filled with gratitude, meaning and purpose in a way I had never experienced before.

I thought I was living life when I was going out, drinking and partying.

But really, I was living in a loop. Constantly looking outside of myself for something that could make me feel whole.

What started as a “break” from alcohol became a completely different life as today I celebrate 600 days being alcohol free.

And somehow, everything I thought was taking me away from where I wanted to be was actually leading me here.

To God.
To healing.
To purpose.

And ultimately, to help other women heal too. 🪽 by @madiwh__

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In competition with myself 🧚🏼 by @madiwh__

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11 days ago

Angels don’t live in hell 🪽 by @madiwh__

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17 days ago

Feminine energy is not submission. It’s not silence. And it’s not shrinking yourself to make a man feel bigger.

To me, feminine energy is being deeply rooted in who you are as a woman. Strong, loving, nurturing, receptive, intuitive and unapologetically YOU.

One of my favourite descriptions of feminine energy is a leopard protecting her cubs. 🐆
Fierce when she needs to be. Soft when she can be. Protective. Powerful. Intuitive.
Quiet power. Unshakeable.

It’s having the softness to receive without feeling like you have to earn it, while still having the strength to protect your peace, your standards and what matters to you.

You can be soft without being weak.
You can be loving without overgiving.
You can be receptive without being passive.
You can let a man lead without abandoning yourself.

And when you become more rooted in your feminine, something shifts. The need to control softens, the anxiety quiets, and you stop forcing what isn’t meant for you.

You stop forcing.
You start flowing. 🎀

This is just one part of how I define feminine energy. I break this down further through the lens of self-worth, dating, standards, attraction & the relationship you have with yourself in my guide:

“Do I Even Like Him?!” 💌

Link in bio 🎯 by @madiwh__

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🙂‍↕️ @egypt.simone ✨ by @madiwh__

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💅🏼 by @madiwh__

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2 months ago

Permanently out of office 🌴🌺✨ taken in Bali, Indonesia by @madiwh__

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8 months ago

The moment I stopped waiting to be chosen and started choosing myself, everything shifted.
The right people. The right rooms. The right version of my life.
It doesn’t happen by accident. It happens by decision.

If you’re ready to make that decision the link in my bio is your next step. by @madiwh__

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Move like it’s already yours. ✨ by @madiwh__

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