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Happy 22nd birthday Max. I love you so muches! I like to ask other mom’s of sons, I may have as friends or clients throughout my life all the things about raising boys/men and what happened through all the stages of their experiences. Any advice I felt was worth keeping in my memory bank was stored. One thing most of them told me was that once sons become adults, the mother/son bond comes back in a different way. We lose you as teens, cuz it’s not cool to show how much you love your mom at that age, but the comeback is worth it. I love our mother/son deep conversations, and I will always stop what I’m doing or was going to do to take those moments with you. I feel like anything else can wait, and I want to have these moments of conversing with each other. I love that we can take a mother/son trip by ourselves and create experiences and memories together. I did that a few times with your grandpa, and I cherish those memories, so I feel it’s important for us to have those. Especially since your grandpa’s life was cut very short, I regret I don’t have more memories with him. It’s hard to turn a blind eye to a lot of things you are doing and places you tend to travel, cuz I fear for your safety, but I realize that I did a lot of those things at your age, and was fine. It’s part of making the most out of your life, and I’m glad you take those moments. I’m still here for the ride of parenthood, will always be, and am thankful for it. Being your mom is the best part of my life. Whatever my purpose on earth is for, I feel like it was meant to be your mom. Enjoy the energy of 22.
Love,
Mom by @mlrockot

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Kicking off my bday week with a night filled in Lavender and fun with my mom and sister. @123farmorganics has their Lavender Nights going until October 25.

Tip: Wear good walking shoes, you’ll be walking over mulch most of the time.

To do: There’s so many cute little boutiques to pop into and fields filled with lights and plenty of opps for great photos and video.

There’s even a tractor that gives you a tour if you’re not in the mood to walk everywhere. But I suggest the walk to get the full experience.

The mocktail lavender mojito is super refreshing and the Matcha Room has delicious drinks and desserts. Try the matcha flight to try 4 different flavors.

We preferred the tacos over the brisket sliders and I bet the smashburger is incredible we just didn’t have room in our stomachs.

Tip #2: So many places to buy all the lavender gifts you’ll ever need. There are mosquitos out, but a good repellent is the French Lavender lotion in any of the gift shops. It really works!

123 Farms also has a Christmas Nights starting in November.

Stay Savvy! taken in 123 Farm by @mlrockot

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I never thought I’d try heels classes, and here I am. Barely keeping up with the choreography. This class is Saturday nights from 7:30-9 in Poway. @siren_heels is an amazing instructor taken in Poway, California by @mlrockot

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a month ago

Weekend wedding getaway to San Luis Obispo. Yes please, and with my favorite person to road trip with. taken in San Luis Obispo, California by @mlrockot

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a month ago

@sportsstop this month Saturday, September 19th. This time, we got the time right, so let’s party Canyon Lake!
#alanismorissettetributeband
#90saltrockband
#lillithfair
#jaggedmachine taken in The Sports Stop by @mlrockot

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a month ago

Uninvited, but not uninvited
#alanismorissettetributeband
#jaggedmachine
#socaltributeband
#beachlifevibes
#femalealternative90s taken in The Camp Store by @mlrockot

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2 months ago

This heels class is Saturdays from 7:30p-9p in Poway taught by @siren_heels one of my clients/old neighbor wanted to try it as well. We did the thing and we liked it. We forced ourselves out of our comfort zone tonight. For me, this is how I like spending my Saturday night. Fitness and cognitive function. Just do the things people, life is way too short, and I like doing things that will benefit my longevity and health cuz I’m 51, and I can kick and stretch
#heelsdanceclass
#dance
#choreography
#momsofpoway
#momsofranchobernardo taken in Poway, California by @mlrockot

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2 months ago

We love playing @thecampstorecarlsbad it’s what you would imagine San Diego is all about. Live music right on the beach. See you then♥️🤘🏻 taken in The Camp Store by @mlrockot

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2 months ago

Upcoming shows for the rest of 2026 by @mlrockot

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2 months ago

Pvolve 3 times and week, and Pilates 3 times a week. I started some changes once the lunar new year happened, they say it takes 30 days to start a habit/routine. At age 51, there’s no turning back now, and I only want to move forward in this direction. My health and mental health are thankful.
#midlifejourney Pvolve by @mlrockot

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3 months ago

Today I turn 51, and the United States is 250. 51 got here fast, and it isn’t super cool sharing my birthday with such a big holiday cuz anytime I’ve ever tried to have a birthday party, people double book themselves with other festivities, so my birthday gets cut short and is an after thought. I have come to learn to enjoy my birthday doing things on my own. I’ve learned to do many things on my own and enjoy my own company from a young age. I’ve always been the outcast who never fit into a box, I don’t fit into big friend groups cuz I’m not a follower, and being Wasian with my Chinese name that nobody can pronounce because they can’t get past the spelling instead of the pronunciation, Mei-Li pronounced May Lee, well that throws another wrench in the fit in slot. So I have people call me May, not preferred, but I have accepted that I’d rather be called May than Miley, Me-Lie, etc.

Last year when I turned 50, I thought I’d have this profound enlightenment on my birthday about joining this club, and I didn’t. That came as the year progressed. I re-evaluated some of the things in the way I was living and spending my time. I’ve realized that 50’s is our last decade to do all the preventative maintenance to help live out the rest of our lives, so re-prioritized what I was giving my time to, and who. Quality time is my top priority in my love language, even if it means doing things for myself, by myself. Once the lunar new year came, it was time. I started taking ballet, jazz, Pilates, and now have added Pvolve. I already eat clean, so adding these activities help not only strengthen my body, but my ability to get up out of bed and start my day by pushing myself, and I’m liking it. Happy Birthday USA, and today I will eat a Dodger dog at Dodger stadium cuz you can take the girl out of LA, but you can’t take the LA out of the girl 💙⚾️ by @mlrockot

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3 months ago

Day trip to Catalina Island with bandmates. Next time I’m going to make sure we all go on this adventure.
#26milesacrossthesea
#santacatalina
#jaggedmachine
#musicians taken in Avalon, Catalina Island, California by @mlrockot

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