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What are your boundaries in the storm? What’s your appetite for weathering it, especially now that it’s reaching your own needs?

Because here’s the truth about family trauma: it doesn’t come with an end date. There’s no guaranteed day he’s “healed.” So this isn’t about an ultimatum, “fix it or I leave” doesn’t work here. It’s about centering yourself long enough to ask honestly: how far am I willing to go, and what will it take to keep supporting him without losing me?

When do you start choosing yourself, without losing the one you love? 👇 Out NOW, link in bio

#offtherecord #confessions #relationships #challenges #mjolo by @offtherecordsa_podcast

Before the marriage conversation goes any further, there are things she needs answered.

He can’t heal in the home that’s hurting him, boundaries and distance have to come first, or therapy keeps losing. And they’ve never had the real talk: if his family stays a closed door forever, what does that mean for a marriage, for kids, for uniting two families?

We didn’t fully agree on the why, but we agreed he may need more than therapy. A psychiatrist too.

What would you need to know first? 👇 Out NOW, link in bio

#offtherecord #confessions #relationships #marriage #mjolo by @offtherecordsa_podcast

"He's a good man. I love him. But, I've been starving for three years."

She's about to marry someone who ticks every box but one, and it's the one her whole heart runs on. No villain here. Just an impossible question.

Would you marry him? 👇 Out now, link in bio

#offtherecord #confessions #relationships #marriage #mjolo by @offtherecordsa_podcast

A man using a woman he's ashamed of. Society enjoying sex workers then despising them. Men living off women they won't claim.

Wrongdoing isn't a gender, it's a character. That's the point we kept coming back to.

Agree or not? 👇 Out NOW, link in bio

#offtherecord #confessions #character #sexworkawareness #situationships by @offtherecordsa_podcast

He thought he was confessing about her. He was really telling on himself. We flip the mirror on this one.

Who's actually in the wrong here? 👇 Out NOW on @unscriptednet YouTube and the link in bio.

#offtherecord #confessions #accountability #mentoo by @offtherecordsa_podcast

For weeks, some of you have been loud. "After God, fear women." "This is why we don't marry." A few of you wished worse.

This week, the one who made a mess is a man. So here's the real test: can we hold one of our own to the same standard, or was it never about right and wrong?

We're reading the comments on this one closely. 👇

Episode out TODAY at 3PM. Link in bio 🙌🏽

#offtherecord #confessions #accountability #doublestandards #relationships by @offtherecordsa_podcast

Both of them have to stop avoiding it. For their sake, and for the child.

Can this family survive the conversation they keep running from? 👇

Episode out now on @unscriptednet YouTube or link in bio

#offtherecord #confessions #marriage #menandsilence #relationships by @offtherecordsa_podcast

Two people, one house, and nobody said a word.

She assumed he was cheating and never asked. He found out the truth and stayed silent too. We get into how a marriage dies in that silence, and whether someone who hid an affair this long, and whose child it really was, was ever only hiding one thing.

Would speaking up have saved it, or was it already too late? 👇 Out now, link in bio 🤎

#offtherecord #confessions #marriagestory #communication by @offtherecordsa_podcast

Some betrayals, can you ever come back from them?

Episode 13, out at 3PM TODAY

#offtherecord #confessions #betrayals #cheating #mafs by @offtherecordsa_podcast

#OffTheRecord Is your circle of friends adding value to your life?

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#OffTheRecord This Weeks confession form “Grootman” forces us to really look into our circle ⭕️ of friends

Catch Off The Record episode out now on YouTube - Unscripted Network

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Why is asking for help the one thing we can't do? 👇🏽

Episode 12, OUT at 3PM on @unscriptednet YouTube or the link in bio

#offtherecord #confessions #moneytok #fakingit by @offtherecordsa_podcast