Posted On: March 17th 2023, 03:36 am
Reflections from Houston
▫️Time is slipping through our fingers much faster than we realize. Nearing the third decade of my life, I’ve had to sit with a deep knowing that the hours spent in contemplation will never carry the same weight as any action step towards what I want. Even if you end up having to redirect or shift your focus (which I’m certain we all have), it’s immensely important to create momentum. The more you follow through on the promises you make to yourself, the more confidence and trust you build in yourself to figure it out even when shit hits the fan.
▫️ Conversely, the importance of patience is becoming increasingly apparent. This goes without saying for most, but I can look back on many ventures in my life where I wonder — “What could have unfolded if I just gave this more time?” This isn’t a helpful frame of mind to live in though. Many don’t delay gratification long enough to see the fruits of their labor. I’m no exception. It takes a long time to build something meaningful and worthwhile — especially if it’s in alignment with our mission and values.
▫️Presence is an ever-fleeting state of being. My last four days were spent with my parents, who for the first time in my life are more than a twenty minute drive up the road. 1200 miles is a bit different. When I have the opportunity, I try to truly “be here now.” Do you feel like you really connect with those you’re spending time with? It’s hard to put the phone down. I’m as guilty as anyone. But we owe it to ourselves and to those who give their time to us to embody presence the best we can — to disconnect in order to reconnect.
These reflections may carry a somber undertone, but if you really sit with them then they can serve as an invitation to simply go forth with more intention. Every moment counts my friends ✨