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Posted On: December 21st 2025, 11:07 am
3 things I’ve realised about having a healthy love life:

1. Choose a partner truly aligned to you, not your family. It’s so easy to succumb to the pressures of external expectations and stories about the partner we “should” choose. There is a difference between doing whats right for you vs whats expected of you. Choose a partner aligned to YOUR values.

2. Have the hard conversations early on and continue practising vulnerable communication. Many couples talk, but are they really sharing their truth? It’s less about quantity and more about quality. Creating the space early on for discussing what you’re struggling with lays the foundation deep conversations in the future to happen regularly. When two people meet they are two diverse and individual stories that are colliding. It’s important we unpack those together and create a safe space to discover each other deeply. The depth of your conversations will reflect the depth of your love.

3. Kiss, hug, and say ‘I love you’ every single day. It’s easy to forget the little moments of connection each day as time goes on.

#Love #Couples #Relationships #Vulnerability #RelationshipGoals
Comments (14)
michelle_dixon_writer 10 months ago

michelle_dixon_writer

❤️❤️❤️

bigupcoffee 10 months ago

bigupcoffee

Yes yes yes and Bigup

hayley_eszti 10 months ago

hayley_eszti

❤️❤️❤️ goals

indigo_sacred_creations 10 months ago

indigo_sacred_creations

Most wonderful couple ❤️❤️

thehannahwallace 10 months ago

thehannahwallace

Love you ❤️

jbone89 10 months ago

jbone89

You guys 😍 but @thehannahwallace is perfect 💁🏼‍♀️😆

shake_it_with_sheida 10 months ago
vipulphoenix 10 months ago

vipulphoenix

What have you learned about love and relationships?

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