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Posted On: July 12th 2026, 10:14 pm
I nearly didn’t post all of these.
Not because of the beautiful places…
But because all I could see was my tummy and all the things I’d change.
Then I remembered…
Whatever size we are, we’re always chasing something.
“I’ll be happier when…”
“I’ll wear that when…”
“I’ll post that when…”
So here I am.
Showing up as I am.
A woman who’s still working on herself.
Who has good days and not-so-good days.
Who deserves to enjoy life exactly as she is.
And it really made me think…
What message are we passing on to our daughters if they grow up hearing us constantly waiting to be happy in our own skin?
Because whatever ‘perfect’ is…
I’m choosing the memories.
The laughs.
The sunsets.
The cocktails 🍸
And a life that’s far too short to spend hiding away. ❤️
#midsize #size16 #menopause #confidence
Not because of the beautiful places…
But because all I could see was my tummy and all the things I’d change.
Then I remembered…
Whatever size we are, we’re always chasing something.
“I’ll be happier when…”
“I’ll wear that when…”
“I’ll post that when…”
So here I am.
Showing up as I am.
A woman who’s still working on herself.
Who has good days and not-so-good days.
Who deserves to enjoy life exactly as she is.
And it really made me think…
What message are we passing on to our daughters if they grow up hearing us constantly waiting to be happy in our own skin?
Because whatever ‘perfect’ is…
I’m choosing the memories.
The laughs.
The sunsets.
The cocktails 🍸
And a life that’s far too short to spend hiding away. ❤️
#midsize #size16 #menopause #confidence
Comments (26)
12 days agogeorgielizziebb
Love this! That mum and daughter bond! I hope me and my girls have times like this when they grow up 🥹🥰
12 days agothe_hormone_goddess
All I see is a beautiful woman with gorgeous views and gorgeous food! ❤️
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