Melissa Adcox

I feel like this can help a lot of our young adults. I see and hear this alot. Almost committed.
Almost secure.
Almost what you were praying for.

But “almost” can quietly keep you from the relationship God is actually preparing for you.
Not every connection is meant to be pursued. Some exist to teach you the difference between temporary attention and intentional love.
God doesn’t call us to confusion. He doesn’t ask us to settle for mixed signals, inconsistent effort, or relationships that never require commitment.
You deserve someone who isn’t afraid to choose you.
Someone who doesn’t make you question where you stand.
Someone who loves you with honesty, clarity, and intention.
If you’ve been holding onto a situationship because you’re afraid nothing better will come along, remember this:
God has never needed uncertainty to accomplish His plans.
Sometimes the hardest prayer is, “Lord, if this isn’t from You, help me let it go.”
Because what God ordains brings peace, not constant anxiety.
If you’re waiting for a relationship built on purpose instead of confusion, don’t lose heart. God’s timing has never been late, and His plans have never required you to chase what He hasn’t called you to. Always listen to what God says first.