Kyla Penner

Men are not seers.

They are not biogenetically created to be seers like women are.

Nor can they create from a space of chaos. Men try to fix the chaos when the chaos is not there to be fixed.

We’re able to pivot, move, adapt, and create from the chaos within the abyss of the unknown.

We’re able to do this because we see and accept when what we’re being led to doesn’t make sense, because our sensing understands the language of the unknown when we surrender to it. Something not to be fixed but to be received, to be felt, and to be led by - only feminine surrender can do this.

But men can witness this magic that occurs in the field of a woman, and they can receive the wisdom and abundance that comes through a woman that thrives through and with the unknown when their ego isn’t in the way and when they have reverence for womanhood.

My husband has witnessed the proof of what my ability to see has provided for our family, and because of this, he has unwavering trust.

The ranch that we now live in, my husband never saw before the decision to purchase it was made. He never saw the land.

We moved through this big process of relocating our family from the other side of the province, starting a new life in this new space, doing new things we never did - he just trusted. And when he set foot on the land for the first time, all he could do was look at me, hug me, and said, “Wow, good job babe.”

Yes - it is my job to be the seer, the matriarch of my family.

This is going to happen again, and because the evidence of my relationship with the darkness and chaos of beginnings has been steadfast - he will continue to allow me to lead us through the unknown as the seer of my family.

He doesn’t need to make the final decision. He doesn’t let ego get in the way.

He sees how I align to my own standards and respects it. He sees the depth of my integrity and stabilizes in it. He trusts me because I trust myself.

I see through the unknown. He sees me. This is why we thrive as a team.