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You watch a woman go silent in a meeting and your brain writes the story in half a second. Arrogant. Cautious. Insecure. Three different women, same exact pause, three completely different verdicts, and every single one came from you, not from her.

That’s the part we don’t talk about. Every behavior you witness passes through a filter first, your history, your fears, your own definition of what “strong” or “difficult” even means. You think you’re seeing them. You’re seeing your version of them.

Decoding is not interpreting with extra steps. Interpreting is still you, projecting. Decoding is observing without labeling, asking without assuming the answer, listening for what someone actually means instead of the cue that confirms what you already expected.

This isn’t about excusing everything either. It’s about accuracy. You cannot lead, negotiate, or truly connect with a person you’ve already rewritten in your own image.

Decoding them starts the moment you stop deciding what they mean and start finding out.

Chapter II. Decode.

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