Posted On: September 22nd 2026, 03:32 am
You’ll never fully understand why I am the way I am unless you’ve lived what I’ve lived.
You didn’t see the years of questioning myself.
You didn’t see the things I had to normalize just to survive them.
You didn’t see how much of myself I had to rebuild.
So no, you probably won’t understand why certain things changed me. Why I have boundaries. Why I walked away. Why peace means more to me than keeping people comfortable.
And that’s okay.
Because I’m not here to convince anyone of what happened to me.
I know what I lived through.
I know what it took to get here.
And considering where I came from?
I’m doing pretty damn well.
You don’t have to understand my healing to respect the person it created. 🖤