12 hours agoIt’s called difference in opinion. Most people don’t walk around thinking that they are making decisions that will harm their child. Most people mean well and just have a different opinion on what the right thing to do is.
12 hours agoUnfortunately they dont lose steam they just get way more mad and take the children away
12 hours agoThe position from which she is making this argument makes it sound like she is basing her position entirely on an assumption that the mom is a good parent and is the bar in which he must measure up to
13 hours agoFor the love of all that is holy, STOP SAYING CO-PARENTING. It's a term originating from toxic women to strip men of parental authority. If you're a parent you have full authority to make decisions, but if a man is co-parent, he only has some say. He's not allowed to make any decisions without her input. And I say he only has some say, because we know it doesn't go both ways. I will die on this hill.
15 hours agoWhat's worse is that her feelings of what a good parent is, and the reality of it, often strongly diverge and when that's pointed out to her, she punishes the other parent and the child. I live this with two baby mother's. Both children's central nervous system down regulates when with me and goes wild when with the mother. The mother's hyper emotionality destroys the child when she has more than 50/50 and so the children's emotional safety is dependent on them.
16 hours agoMeanwhile how dare a cheating paternity scamming hood skank make demands of men
18 hours agoThat lady seems to be confusing her personal preferences with 'good'. I bet her spouse never cleans the "right' way either...
20 hours agoYou could also just not communicate. It might be easier to manage the consequences of that.
