Lisa Tollison

Most things that men and women do with each other are for the desire of control over another human, not love. Women are notorious for thinking they can change a man into the fantasy version that they want to see. Most people aren’t intentional with their time, this is how they get caught up in things like the new trend of long-distance relationships, which is not a relationship, it’s simply texting pals. Women will go back-and-forth with men for months or even years, trying to force a man to be the performative fantasy storybook version of a man that she wants him to be, wasting her time that she can’t get back. Once you see things for what they are and understand what a person is willing to give and not give, you can move accordingly. Interactions with men and women should be organic and authentic, not forced . Most men are simply trying to gain inventory of women. This is why they never delete a woman’s contact, and pop-up years later. A woman’s time and a man’s time are two different things. If a man obtains even simple conversation with a woman, his time wasn’t wasted, but most women are looking for more or something more substantial, and most men simply are not. You cannot force someone to be what you want them to be. Most women are afraid to have their phone “dry” so they will take anything even though there’s no substance or exclusivity to it. In a lot of ways, women are just as desperate as men. #marriage #fyp #datingadvice #cheating