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Posted On: October 16th 2026, 06:54 pm
[NEW EPISODE] Men, Stop Trying to Please Us it’s Not Sexy ✨❤️✨
The number one thing that I wish all men knew about sex is
….. Please stop trying to please us, and to avoid displeasing us.
It closes the door on attraction.
… And opens the door to unhealthy ways of manipulating you.
When we all learn how to express our desire and ask for what we want, safely,
we can have a lot more fun and cultivate much deeper relationships!
In this episode, I share what I’ve seen in 15 years of sexual healing work, such as
- how always pleasing kills desire
- common responses from women
- how I tend to handle it
- toxic masculine and toxic feminine
- divine masculine and divine feminine
- polarity and divine union
- how it came to this
- acknowledging the best of intentions
- why it’s so hard to stop doing it
- and best of all … what to do instead!
Plus I share a simple practice that you can do today.
About gender
- Don’t cha worry, I plan to dive into this issue from the opposite gender perspective next week.
- And yes I understand gender is a spectrum - more on that in a future episode.
I feel so passionate about this issue that my in-person weekend workshop experience is designed for you to overcome this issue and show up authentically in all things, including in the bedroom. You will learn how to find desire, how to express it with integrity, and you get to retrain your body in real time through gentle hands-on practices. So you make real progress in just one weekend. Join us in Austin November 6-8. ❤️
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/men-stop-trying-to-please-us-its-not-sexy/id1843702360?i=1000796690009
The number one thing that I wish all men knew about sex is
….. Please stop trying to please us, and to avoid displeasing us.
It closes the door on attraction.
… And opens the door to unhealthy ways of manipulating you.
When we all learn how to express our desire and ask for what we want, safely,
we can have a lot more fun and cultivate much deeper relationships!
In this episode, I share what I’ve seen in 15 years of sexual healing work, such as
- how always pleasing kills desire
- common responses from women
- how I tend to handle it
- toxic masculine and toxic feminine
- divine masculine and divine feminine
- polarity and divine union
- how it came to this
- acknowledging the best of intentions
- why it’s so hard to stop doing it
- and best of all … what to do instead!
Plus I share a simple practice that you can do today.
About gender
- Don’t cha worry, I plan to dive into this issue from the opposite gender perspective next week.
- And yes I understand gender is a spectrum - more on that in a future episode.
I feel so passionate about this issue that my in-person weekend workshop experience is designed for you to overcome this issue and show up authentically in all things, including in the bedroom. You will learn how to find desire, how to express it with integrity, and you get to retrain your body in real time through gentle hands-on practices. So you make real progress in just one weekend. Join us in Austin November 6-8. ❤️
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/men-stop-trying-to-please-us-its-not-sexy/id1843702360?i=1000796690009
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