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River Roaring

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I help people find their open hearted sacred sexuality.🧚🏽‍♀️
🌹 Private in person hands-on training
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🎤 Luminous Life Force Podcast

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[NEW EPISODE] Men, Stop Trying to Please Us it’s Not Sexy ✨❤️✨

The number one thing that I wish all men knew about sex is
….. Please stop trying to please us, and to avoid displeasing us.

It closes the door on attraction.
… And opens the door to unhealthy ways of manipulating you.

When we all learn how to express our desire and ask for what we want, safely,
we can have a lot more fun and cultivate much deeper relationships!

In this episode, I share what I’ve seen in 15 years of sexual healing work, such as

- how always pleasing kills desire
- common responses from women
- how I tend to handle it
- toxic masculine and toxic feminine
- divine masculine and divine feminine
- polarity and divine union
- how it came to this
- acknowledging the best of intentions
- why it’s so hard to stop doing it
- and best of all … what to do instead!

Plus I share a simple practice that you can do today.

About gender
- Don’t cha worry, I plan to dive into this issue from the opposite gender perspective next week.
- And yes I understand gender is a spectrum - more on that in a future episode.

I feel so passionate about this issue that my in-person weekend workshop experience is designed for you to overcome this issue and show up authentically in all things, including in the bedroom. You will learn how to find desire, how to express it with integrity, and you get to retrain your body in real time through gentle hands-on practices. So you make real progress in just one weekend. Join us in Austin November 6-8. ❤️

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/men-stop-trying-to-please-us-its-not-sexy/id1843702360?i=1000796690009 taken in Austin, Texas by @riverroaring

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Failing at first practice doesn't mean you can't grow. It's all about noticing, blossoming, and making progress. This insight was huge. #PersonalGrowth #MindsetMatters #LearningFromFailure #GrowthMindset #Inspiration #SelfImprovement #ReelsOfInstagram #Motivation by @riverroaring

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Putting ideas into practice, connecting with our bodies, and understanding consent. Experiencing it made the Wheel of Consent and the art of giving/receiving click. #WheelOfConsent #BodyMindConnection #WorkshopExperience #PersonalGrowth #LearningThroughDoing #ConsentCulture #SelfDiscovery #MindBodySpirit by @riverroaring

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The workshop changed everything. I now approach every interaction through the Wheel of Consent. It's deepened all my connections, personally and professionally. #WheelOfConsent #CommunicationSkills #RelationshipGoals #PersonalGrowth #WorkshopImpact #AuthenticConnections #SelfImprovement #BetterTogether by @riverroaring

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Patriarchy …. amassing power for powers sake is …. SO last year. ☺️😎👽💞🌸🍃

#patriarchy #solastyear #healing #healingthepatriarchy #luminouslifeforce taken in Austin, Texas by @riverroaring

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Surprised more people aren't signing up for the Wheel of Consent workshop! Learn to communicate your needs and feel safe. Let's speak the same language. #WheelOfConsent #ConsentWorkshop #CommunicationSkills #SafeRelationships #PersonalGrowth #SelfImprovement #RelationshipGoals by @riverroaring

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A powerful blend of information, practice, and connection. Experiencing learning through ritual and subtle guidance fosters embodiment and self-discovery. #EmbodiedLearning #SelfDiscovery #Community #PersonalGrowth #Mindfulness #Transformation #Authenticity #Workshop #NewSkills by @riverroaring

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Reclaim your mental energy. Focus thoughts on a higher purpose. Find a more fulfilling life and mission. It starts within. #MentalEnergy #HigherPurpose #FulfillingLife #PersonalGrowth #Mindfulness #Inspiration #ReelsDaily #LifeMission by @riverroaring

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Recording every judgment, good or bad. Realizing even 'positive' ones are just false perceptions. Letting go is freedom. #Mindfulness #JudgmentFree #SelfAwareness #SpiritualGrowth #InnerPeace #LettingGo #Consciousness #PersonalDevelopment by @riverroaring

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Putting ideas into practice, connecting with our bodies, and understanding consent. Experiencing it made the Wheel of Consent and the art of giving/receiving click. #WheelOfConsent #BodyMindConnection #WorkshopExperience #PersonalGrowth #LearningThroughDoing #ConsentCulture #SelfDiscovery #MindBodySpirit by @riverroaring

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yes. 💦

#rain #atx #hallalujah #livingwater #luminouslifeforce taken in East Austin by @riverroaring

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This book is changing everything. My personal transformation is happening faster than I ever imagined. It's a total game-changer. #PersonalGrowth #Transformation #BookLover #SelfImprovement #MindsetShift #Reels #GrowthMindset #Inspiration by @riverroaring

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