Posted On: November 1st 2026, 10:33 pm
Something ive been noticing in my content and content im consuming is there is a lot of teaching principles and not a lot of sharing stories.
I find myself getting annoyed at content that shares wisdom without grit, without answering the question of but how you learn that?
I wanna know about the bathroom floors you’ve wailed on to arrive at the last time you reached for that drug called your ex.
I wanna know about your skinned knees, bruised bones and credit card debt that led you to this obviously, clearly, valuable pearl of wisdom that I agree with but cant yet feeeel.
Cause that’s how I learn, by hearing your story. That’s how i grow to trust you. So there was enough of me looking on at content and being annoyed by this to then look at my content (or lack there of) and get real honest about the way im sharing.
Please forgive me if ive ever tried to tell you something wise without telling you the snot it came with. Im retiring that role for now and just gunna tell you what happened.
Cause what happened is hilarious, devastating, heartbreaking, salvation soaked raunchy ass remembering and well.. that sounds a lot more fun to talk about then 5 steps to breathing for nervous system regulation.
Forgive me, I’ve splashed cold water on my face and unclenched my butthole just enough to start sharing some tea.
My hope is that these next 30 days lead to us feeling more connected than ever. I want us to be connected. Like for real thats my highest hope of an outcome here that even if we never meet you will feel like damn I feel like i know her and I feel like I can be myself more because of it.
Also this is my friend, soverign ass woman
@gooddaysinaustin and me at Halloween bash last night. Deep appreciation for this woman and the Afrobeats dance floor that held us in Holy Spirit ecstasy last night. Home way too late, lost my phone in an uber, fine with it.