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I am the feeling between the words… you felt me before you knew me. I’m your favorite love poem 💋

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Detachment is a lifestyle, not a phase. taken in Nashville, Tennessee by @prettylittlewildflame

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#setboundaries #identityshift #patternrecognition #highachievingwomen #selfsabotage taken in Houston, Texas by @prettylittlewildflame

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She thought she had anxious attachment.

I thought I did too.

For years, I believed my problem was that I loved too hard. I called. I chased. I overexplained. I stayed too long. I blamed my “attachment style.”

Looking back, I don’t think I was addicted to a man.

I think I was abandoning myself.

That distinction changed everything.

Because if the problem is him, you’ll spend your life looking for a different man.

But if the problem is the relationship you’ve built with yourself, then your future changes the moment you learn to stop betraying your own needs.

That’s exactly what I teach in my free masterclass.

If you’ve ever wondered why you keep repeating the same relationship, just with a different face…

Start there.

Comment “ME” and I’ll send you the link, or grab it from the link in my bio.

What’s your attachment style? taken in Downtown Dallas, Texas by @prettylittlewildflame

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I mean you can only blame your parents for so long… taken in Houston, Texas by @prettylittlewildflame

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Life lately…. IDGAF about much else… taken in Dallas Texas by @prettylittlewildflame

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Moral of story: Don’t be the hater in your family. Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean it can’t be done… taken in Houston, Texas by @prettylittlewildflame

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taken in Washington, DC by @prettylittlewildflame

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Your rational mind keeps trying to convince you it was “just s3x.”

Meanwhile your body still remembers: the rhythm, the voice, the breath, the tension, the emotional atmosphere, and the way your nervous system shifted after him.

Music alters emotional state through rhythm. So does sex. That’s why certain songs can pull grief out of a woman years later. And that’s why certain men still live inside the body long after they leave it.

Because the nervous system stores rhythm differently than the mind stores information. Ancient cultures understood that rhythm alters state long before modern psychology had language for nervous system conditioning.

Maybe that’s why concepts like “sex magic” existed in the first place. Not because ancient people were crazy… but because they observed something modern culture became too arrogant to take seriously: that intimacy (👁️ IN-TO-ME-SEE) has the power to alter consciousness, attachment, emotional memory, perception, behavior, and nervous system state.

And even if you don’t believe sex is “magical”… science still shows that intimacy alters hormones, reward pathways, emotional conditioning, pair bonding, memory, and psychological imprinting.

This is music. Every sexual encounter is a song. And much like the ABCs song that we all STILL know… the subconscious mind remembers repetition long after the conscious mind stops paying attention.

The body responds to rhythm. Repetition. Emotion. Sound. Touch. Anticipation. Release. And women underestimate how deeply those experiences imprint the nervous system.

Some women think they miss the man. Sometimes what they actually miss is the emotional interruption his rhythm created inside their body.

And this is where women begin abandoning themselves for the feeling. Because the body can become attached to anticipation, inconsistency, tension, withdrawal, validation, fantasy, and emotional relief… while the mind keeps calling it “casual.”

This is not morality. This is psychobiology.

And some of you are going to hate this article… because somewhere deep down… you already know your body remembers things your mouth is still trying to minimize.

🔗 in the bio taken in Alexandria, Virginia by @prettylittlewildflame

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5 months ago

Here’s to higher dimensions of being…Xoxo 😘

Does this song hit different now for you? taken in Downtown Dallas, Texas by @prettylittlewildflame

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6 months ago

They told you to find a good man. Nobody told you what a bad structure would do to your body, your identity, or your peace. If you’re going to allow the taxing of your soul….it needs to be worth the cost

Read this first . 🔗 in bio. taken in Dallas Texas by @prettylittlewildflame

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6 months ago

March. Muse. Mystery. Magic. Magnetic.

1. I look a like Dorothy.
2. I’ll never stop desiring sweets.
3. Tea is a ceremonial experience.
4. The work of The Most High.
5. Such a sweet recommendation.
6. A lady and her flowers.
7. The Art of Being Water.
8. Don’t box the fire.
9. Running back to YOU.
10. This is holy ground.
11. A lesson of balance w/ one of the best.
12. No explanation needed.
13.The advocacy for this tattoo was real.
14. Worth every single bit of calorie and cash. taken in Washington, DC by @prettylittlewildflame

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taken in Terlingua, Texas by @prettylittlewildflame

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