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Every version of me brought me here—the little girl who had to become strong too soon, the young woman figuring life out, the woman who loved, the woman who lost, the woman who became a mother, the woman who built a career, the woman who broke down, the woman who healed, and the woman who finally realized:

I was always worthy of the love I kept trying to give everyone else.

This year, I choose myself without guilt.

I choose peace without explanation.
I choose reciprocity.
I choose consistency.
I choose experiences.
I choose financial abundance.
I choose meaningful relationships.
I choose laughter.
I choose softness.
I choose boundaries.
I choose God.
I choose my children.
I choose growth.
I choose LOVE—and most importantly, I choose me.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ÉWA 💐

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Today, I celebrate ME. 🥂✨

Not just because it’s my birthday, but because I know what it took to become the woman standing here today.

My story has never been a straight line. It has been a journey of love, loss, survival, motherhood, growth, rebuilding, learning, unlearning, and choosing myself over and over again.

Life introduced me to loss before I was old enough to understand what losing someone meant. I learned early that tomorrow is never promised, and maybe that is why birthdays have always meant so much to me. They are more than candles, cakes, gifts, or beautiful pictures. They are proof that I am still here.

Another year alive.
Another year of memories.
Another year of becoming.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ÈWA💐💐💐

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I’ve been told I’m “too much”too loud, too quiet, too fast, too slow—but never just right for their rhythm.

My mind doesn’t walk in straight lines,it dances—skipping, spiraling, creating constellationswhere others only see chaos.

I feel deeply, think endlessly,notice the things that slip through cracks—the energy in a room,the silence behind words,the beauty hidden in the overlooked.

They tried to name it like a flaw,a disorder,something to soften, shrink, or fix.

But I am not broken.I am patterned differently.

I am intensity with intention,complexity with color,a mind that refuses to fit inside small boxesbecause it was built to build new ones.

I am neurodivergent—and I am not ashamed of the way I exist.

I am proudof every thought that refuses to be ordinary. 🖤

Hoping to get a partner that will hype me up and support my neurospiy this way some day 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
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#neurodiverse #ADHD#club#black#africa by @prettyphumitee

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Me in my house using the remaining Brain cell in my head to craft/ envisioned an outfit that wouldn’t come out the way I wanted it and I keep trying until the vision is cleared 😂😂 just to boost small dopamine 🙄

Mind you! I suddenly remembered I have some scarf from 10 years ago and I am looking for it to elevate the outfit that will never come together 🤣🤣

#relatable#funny#fashion#memes by @prettyphumitee

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Let’s normalize telling people “You Inspired Me” instead of copying them and acting like they’re your competition.
#explore#motivate#stylediary#prettyphumite by @prettyphumitee

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Date on random Monday evening @cibo.restaurant.patch

#random#mondayfunday#date by @prettyphumitee

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Unbothered just letting God!!!

#motivation#pretty#face#card by @prettyphumitee

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Givers need to learn their limits, because takers have none.
Kindness without boundaries becomes weakness.

#just#explore#the#page by @prettyphumitee

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Your bloodline waited a century for an MF like you to wake up!! Make it count

#motivation#prints#brown#color of the season by @prettyphumitee

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WE
STRESS TOO

MUCH FOR A LIFE

THAT CAN END AT

ANYTIME. MAKE

SURE TO LIVE.

#motivation#styles#lifestyle by @prettyphumitee

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Judge me, please. I promise I won’t lose sleep!

Someone said something to me the other day! He said people will mock you / judge you lol….

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Judge me I don’t care 🤣🤣. I won’t even flinch !!

#judge#me# by @prettyphumitee

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Bad energy stay far away 🤣🤣

#no#bad#energy#zone by @prettyphumitee

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