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Queer Officiant & Love Storyteller w/ @onceuponavow
“We are all one & if we don’t know it, we will learn it the hard way.” BR
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Nuestra herencia es el amor y nuestro legado es el amar!

Para nosotres, estos meses de historias y herencias especificas nos ofrecen la oportunidad de celebrar las partes positivas de nuestres culturas. Y, pues, la mejor parte de toda cultura son ejemplos del amor — la energia de toda creación. Estamos aquí para celebrar la forma en como nos amamos a nosotros mismos y en relación con los demas. 

On the last day of the heritage month that we proudly claim, we’re admittedly feeling weighed down by the anti-immigrant hate and saddened by how the internalized anti-blackness and anti-indigeneity is playing out today. Still, we want to remind ourselves and you all that for us, ♾️now and always♾️ being here is about showing up for OUR GENTE. 

We do care “where you come from” because we all come from somewhere just as we care about your lived experience and how it’s informed you about being a human being. Whoever you are — we want to hear about your journey and share your story because it matters to us. If this month is about anything, it’s about our legacy of love. 💞

Whether or not you were born and raised in “the culture” — have remained under the sun of Latino America or are now faraway from a people and a way of living that you missed out on and seek out, you are our gente.

If you’re part of the diaspora of the Afro and Indigenous peoples forced to spread out under the imperial reigns of terror — so far out that you have to work extra hard to find your way back to cohesion and connection — we’ve gotchu too and we get it! We’re here to lean on our ancestral ties to pachamama and to one another. 

We’re here to honor divinity and celebrate our siblinghood through ritual and ceremony. 🫶🏽

💞Brianne + Alberto💞

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Photo: @forgedinthenorth 
Planner: @together.events 
Venue: @thelibertywarehouse 
Officiant: #onceuponavow
Florals: @stemsbrooklynweddings 
HMU: @glambynada 
Stationery: @robedeedesign 
Couple: @briannemarieariel + @agdelax

💞Aubree + Sigal💞

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Photographer: @tarabethphotography 
Venue: @carrollhallgarden 
C​oordinator: @mrjasonmitchell 
Suit: @bindleandkeep 
G​own: @davidsbridal 
H​MU: Madeline Elanor + Tara Braswell
F​lorals: @longweekendflorals taken in New York, New York by @queerofficiant
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💕Your Love Story is… 
❤️‍🔥🪩🎉🥹😂🥰🤭🤟🏽🫦

Share your story with a fun, heartfelt, soulful, personalized wedding ceremony that feels every bit like you!!! 

💫When you choose us, you’re choosing familia.

You’re choosing gente who understand the power of storytelling and know that your story is special. It must be shared with intentionality and care! Even if it’s just you two eloping at sunrise on the Brooklyn Bridge. 

You’re choosing a calming yet excited presence who will help ground you when you’re a bundle of nerves. Especially if you’re anxious about being the center of attention.

You’re choosing a curious collaborator to craft a wedding ceremony that feels true to who you are, individually and as a team. A ceremony where you feel present and connected to your partner.

You’re choosing progressive, modern wedding officiants who will deliver a personal experience all the way leading up to your wedding.

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Videos: @heylovebrain @elizabethmealey @josebotellafilms @skycinemafilms @atomictangerinefilmco @meganandkenneth @reelfeelsvideo 

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Cover Photo:
Venue: @dumboloft 
Photographer: @ambergressphotography 
HMU: @facetimebeauty 
Rentals: @broadwaypartyrentals 
Planner: @joserolonevents 
Officiant: @queerofficiant via #onceuponavow
Ceremony Trio: @highlinequartet 
DJ: @74events 
Video: Jose Botella Films
Floral Design: @melarosafloraldesigns 
Caterer: @chefrossinyc 
Mariachi band: @mariachilocodeny 
Mexican dancers: @jordankahnorchestra 

Bilingual wedding officiants • Spanish speaking officiants • Latine wedding officiants taken in New York, New York by @queerofficiant
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A 21st century tale of girl meets girl. Theirs is a testament to the power of divine timing ✨💫

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Photo + Video: @meganandkenneth
Venue: @the_garrison 
Florals: @apetaltopeddle 
Officiant: @queerofficiant via @onceuponavow 
DJ: @remixologists 
Cake: @pastrygardenbakery 
Photo Booth: @supremephotobooth 

Hudson Valley Wedding Ceremony • LGBTQ Wedding • NYC Custom Wedding Ceremony taken in The Garrison by @queerofficiant
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Join us at @501union Open House ✨tonight✨ from 6-8pm!! 🪩

Envision your wedding day over a date night with some of Brooklyn’s most talented wedding vendors around. Time to have FUN planning your love festivities!🥂 Chat with your dream team to bring your love story to life. 

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Catered Bites by @nightkitchenbk 
Tunes by @marcushodj 
Florals by @firecrackerfloral 
Photographer @le.image.events 
Photo Booth @snaptrendphotobooth 
Officiant @onceuponavow 
Sweets @wafelsanddinges 
Live Poetry Experience @poetrysocietyny 
Planning and Coordination @blissfulvowsevents 
Rentals & Table Designs @broadwaypartyrentals 
Tarot Advisor @stacivori 
Lodging @brooklynmarriott 
After Party @royalpalms

Nicole and Kevin’s Team
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Photo: @brindamourphoto 
Video: @nativroots.co 
Venue: @501union 
Planner: @blissfulvowsevents 
Caterer: @eventfull.nyc 
DJ: @empanadamn 
Florist: @rosehipfloral 
Officiant: @onceuponavow 
Photobooth: @freshfacephotobooths 
Lighting: @ulsnyc 
Food Truck: @carnivale_ 
Hair: @glambynada 
Makeup: @makeupbystephcap 
Barber: Kevin Lin
Cake: @miasbakerybk 
Dress: @lotusbridal 
Tux: @maximus_customs_ taken in 501 UNION by @queerofficiant
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Summer lovin’☀️💞✨

We’ll forever consider ourselves blessed to be part of joyful milestone moments shared among your favorite people. 🥹

Because you trust us to celebrate you among yours, we get to intentionally make the most of the time we have with ours.

#2026summer #hudsonvalleyelopement #queerweddings #centralparkwedding taken in New York City by @queerofficiant
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2 months ago
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Emilyn & Shellz just got married!!!!! 🤍💅🏽💐✨

And we couldn’t have made this beautiful celebration happen without our incredible Pride Grows 2026 team: 🥹🌈💕

💒 Venue | @carrollhallgarden 
📋 Planning | @emeventsjc @_withmavens
📖 Officiants | @onceuponavow @queerofficiant 
📸 Photography | @baileyqphoto @kadejoyphotography 
🎥 Videography | @reelbrooklyn 
🤳🏽 Content Creation | @allthelovenyc 
🎞️ Photo Booth | @fireworkphotoboothco 
💐 Floral Design | @miriambloomdesigns @risingtidebotanicals 
🌸 Floral Donations | @stemsbrooklyn @risingtidebotanicals 
🎧 DJS | @mon.amie.events @am_nazz 
💄👩‍🎤HMU | @simpleandsultry @jgreymua 
🍽️ Catering | @pixiescoutnyc 
✒️ Stationery | @polkpaper 
🍰 Baker | @vicidesignny 
💻 Website | @uxbexdesign
🧘‍♂️Yoga | @woo_woo_crew

Special contributors: 
🍪Cookies | @lpelican 
🌈 Rainbow Cupcakes | @ursula_brooklyn klyn 
🎪 Decoration | @snapcollectiveworld taken in Carroll Hall by @queerofficiant
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2 months ago
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🇵🇪¡Felices Fiestas Patrias! 🇵🇪

Today is Peruvian Independence Day, honoring our liberation from Spain and celebrating our roots to our land, our people, our culture, and our history con comida rica juntes con nuestre familia! Modern day Peruvian politics is a mess, just like it is here, but we do our best to tap into the teachings of our indigenous ancestors. We believe we’re all connected to one another just as we are to Pacha Mama. ♾️

Now, as Latines, we come from a long lineage of chismosas (even if it’s oftentimes perceived negatively). The truth is that WE enter our chismosa era to confide in one another, share our stories, our woes, our hard knock lessons, and resonate with others when that’s shared with us. Without judgement and always con mucho, mucho amor!

Our curious natures help us do what we love - dive deep into the winding road of each love story and hold space for the merging histories of the marriers we celebrate! 🫶🏽

To our fellow Peruches y chismoses, les mandamos abrazotes!! ❤️‍🔥

#fiestaspatriasperú #fujimorinuncamás 🤦🏽‍♀️ #antifujimorismo taken in Untermyer Gardens Conservancy by @queerofficiant
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Angel (they/she) is one of the founding members of Pride Grows. They’re the queer, immigrant-half of Once Upon A Vow, a bilingual wedding officiant and love storyteller sibling duo, celebrating partnerships in NYC and beyond with personalized ceremonies that become heartfelt core memories.

Pride Grows is my favorite garden
and beloved by those with a “green thumb” for people, a willingness to till new soil, and the courage to clear away the nutrient-poor muck that keeps us stuck and unable to end the blight of hate.

We, vendors and marriers alike, are both the seedlings that bloom year after year and the pollinators, appreciating the beauty, resilience, and fabulousness of our LGBTQIA2S+ community while spreading queer joy as far and wide as we decide.

Every gardener knows that nothing grows without love. And, at PGIB, we believe that love for ourselves and for one another is the richest soil we can endeavor to cultivate. And, yes, it’s worth all the toil.
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Photo: @mayalovro
Officiant: @queerofficiant of @onceuponavow
Photos 3rd slide: @dag_images & @kadejoyphotography 
Photos 5th slide: @baileyqphoto & @tarabethphotography by @queerofficiant
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3 months ago
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The countdown is officially on. 💕🎉🌸✨

Thank you, Carroll Hall, for opening your doors and giving us such a welcoming space to host our very first Meet & Greet, and for hosting this year’s love celebrations. 

Our celebrants had the chance to meet one another, connect with part of our incredible vendor team, and experience the venue where they’ll soon celebrate their love.

We’re getting so close to our 2026 celebrations, and we’re incredibly grateful for every volunteer, vendor, partner, and supporter helping make them possible. It truly takes a community, and we’re so lucky to have ours. ✨🌿💒🫶🏽

🌈 Venue | @carrollhallgarden
🌈 Photography | @rylott_photos
🌈 Yoga Session | @woo_woo_crew
🌈 Bites | @seitanshelper
🌈 Content | @allthelovenyc

#pridegrowsinbrooklyn #gaywedding #queercommunity #loveislove taken in Brooklyn, New York by @queerofficiant
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3 months ago
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Happy Wedding Anniversary to our beautiful 2025 marriers! 
💕✨🌸🌈🌼✨💕
One year later, and your love still gives us butterflies. Thank you for trusting us with one of the most beautiful days of your lives. Here’s to many more!!! 🫶🏽💞

✨Pride Grows 2025✨
💒 Venue | @brooklyngrange 
📋 Planning | @sam_arpino @emeventsjc @_withmavens
📖 Officiants | @onceuponavow @queerofficiant 
📸 Photography | @baileyqphoto @justinmccallumphoto @kadejoyphotography 
🎥 Videography | @reelbrooklyn 
🤳🏽 Content Creation & Edit | @allthelovenyc
🎞️Photo Booth | @fireworkphotoboothco 
💐 Floral Design | @miriambloomdesigns @risingtidebotanicals 
🎧 DJS | @mon.amie.events @monamierecords @oliviaisabiscuit 
💄🪮HMU | @simpleandsultry @jgreymua
🍽️ Catering | @pixiescoutnyc @lpelican
✒️ Stationery | @sunsetscribe taken in Brooklyn, New York by @queerofficiant
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3 months ago
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BTS of Christina & Sam's sweet, intimate elopement on The High Line in Chelsea, NYC with subway portraits afterwards! 📸🏙️🚇️⁠
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Officiant & BTS video by Angel @queerofficiant from @onceuponavow⁠
Venue @highlinenyc⁠
Floral Designer @fernbotanica⁠
Sam's suit @bindleandkeep⁠
Christina's jumpsuit @eloquii⁠
Rings @emilychelseajewelry⁠
Getting Ready @themaritimehotelnyc⁠
Brunch @cookshopnyc⁠
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#highlinenyc #highlinewedding #nycelopement #outdoorwedding #microwedding #queerwedding #lgbtqwedding #queerofficiant #queerweddingvendor #queerweddingphotographer #brooklynweddingphotographer #lgbtqweddingphotographer #nycweddingphotographer #enbylove taken in The High Line by @queerofficiant
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4 months ago
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Happy Loving Day, fam! 💞🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈🪻

Today marks 59 years since Mildred & Richard Loving became a legally recognized & protected family in their home state of Virginia.

When they eloped in 1958, interracial marriage was illegal & they were imprisoned for it. Though they stayed together, they were under constant threat from everyday haters & the vigilance of the bigoted-run state.

Their courage to fight for their right to love each other & build a life together was a major milestone in the civil rights movement. Their enduring love & hardwon battle at the Supreme Court was the catalyst for a “norm” shift that has benefited countless of us who are in partnerships across racial lines.

In 1967, the Lovings made history & changed our country. They weren’t the first interracial couple in the USA, they just happened to be the ones called upon to lead by example in that moment. They were poor/working class people who could no longer tolerate the injustice & set out to do their part to correct it so future marriers wouldn’t have to go through the hardships they experienced.

Thanks to their sacrifice, millions of interracial families are thriving today. Because of them, many of us are choosing love & authentic living over the fear-induced & racist delusions of separation that’s been part of the social programming.

Love is an expansive, joyful force that bridges worlds & cultures uniting us in our shared humanity! 

Love can also change our status-quo systems for the better; the Loving vs. Virginia case is proof of that. 

May we carry on their legacy by leading with love & loving ourselves & each other enough to carry on in this mad world as the bold & brilliant community that we are.

Never forget that the Loving family, aptly named, set a precedent for Marriage Equality to eventually also become the law of the land. 

Queer marriers across our nation, let us rejoice for the Lovings and all the social justice champions that broke barriers to get us here today.

Credit in order of appearance:
1 🎥: @reelbrooklyn 
1 📸: @justinmccallumphoto
2 +3 📸: @dag_images
4 📸: @judsonrappaport
2-4 BTS 🎥 + officiants: @onceuponavow by @queerofficiant
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4 months ago
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